Buying something which you cannot aford.

[_Cathy_]

your friend is so dumb! wife ba siya o kept woman? kabit lang ang alam ko na kuntento na inaabutan lang. dapat alam nya lahat, for her sake and the children.

in case the wife suddenly becomes a widow she need to know or have:
1. her husband's atm pin
2. her husband's internet banking password
3. blank check/s signed by her husband to be able to widraw money from checking accounts
4. where the key is for the safety deposit box, which bank and branch

kasi pag wala siya nyan then she will have to go through the process of recovering said moneys from the bank. pag wala siya ibang source e mamamatay siya at mga anak nya sa gutom bago ma-release ang pera. at may bawas pa kasi may inheritance taxes. baka nga kunin pa lahat ng gobyerno e.

5. where all the important papers are kept (like land titles, stock certificates and papers of incorporation of family owned businesses)
kasi kung di nya alam e goodbye negosyo, yari na siya dun sa lawyer o partners ng husband nya.


if the husband can not trust his wife to know and co-manage the family's finances then that relationship is nothing but one between someone with money and a *** worker (ganun trato ng mister e, bayaran). show this post to your friend, she needs waking up.

There is no need for name calling. She has access to the bank accounts and titles etc only she does not know how much her husband's salary is. I should have been specific na salary. They have other sources of income (rental from properties). I don't know what their exact arrangement is since she only mentioned in passing that she does not know how much money her husband earns. Basta alam ko hindi siya nakikialam sa sweldo and her expenses are paid for (credit card etc) I did mention to her that I am worried for her that she is totally dependent on her husband for money, what if the husband suddenly leaves her for another woman (but unlikely) or dies, she said she will just go back to her parents or work again (not that easy IMO) But if it works for then, who am I to judge. They have been married over 10 years and seem to be happy naman. She is not the type to talk about her relationships naman kasi.

Baka nga kabit lang yung friend ni cathy?

I don't make friends with kabit. My Mom is Ninang on their wedding. She married her first BF after college.