breaking up is hard to do

**gretzy** · August 2nd, 2003 04:54 PM

guys, how do u do it?

di ba as much as possible u dont wanna hurt her by being the 1 to break up, ung bestfriend ko kc, i advised him to let the girl feel that he had fallen out of love na, pero di pa rin effective coz the girl is still holding on, syempre all of us girls will be in denial becoz accepting that will make us face our fear that is breaking up wid him. isang katangahan yan ng mga babae.

so guy's wen this time had come wat will u do?

**ssaloon** · August 2nd, 2003 05:05 PM

cool off muna yan ehehe

kung la pa rin, break na and move on.

wag mong gamitin yung rason na sayang ang tagal na natin... if it wont work, sayang lang dahil puro away and coldness lang mangyayari sa relationship.

**pure_blue** · August 2nd, 2003 05:17 PM

ako, ganyan nangyari saken. but he had a hard time making me feel that because we already have a kid (who was then like 4 months old).

basta hindi nalang siya tumawag, text, etc. tapos he lets his sister text pag tinatanong niya about sa son namin, until his sister was fed up already. tapos nung paulit-ulit ko tinatanong siya about us, ang sagot niya ay:

"p***, di ka pa ba nakakahalata?!"

tapos yung recent niya, classmate ko. kabarkada ko pa. tapos he doesn't ask about our son anymore. it might ruin his relationship with the new girl daw. yung anak namin, kapatid ko yung kinilalang daddy, too bad he passed away na last july 24.

papano ako nag mo-move on? i just cherish the memories, i guess. tapos i'm just thankful that one guy loves me now, and i love him back... si cholo, my son.

**kimpOy** · August 2nd, 2003 05:25 PM

imho cool off and break is the same

**yebo** · August 2nd, 2003 08:25 PM

pure_blue,

imho, with that kind of guy (i refuse to call males like that as "man") i believe you're better off without him. tinalikuran ang sariling anak para wag masira ang relationship nya, in my book bading yun. palagay ko lang ha.