breaking up is hard to do

[gretzy]

guys, how do u do it?

di ba as much as possible u dont wanna hurt her by being the 1 to break up, ung bestfriend ko kc, i advised him to let the girl feel that he had fallen out of love na, pero di pa rin effective coz the girl is still holding on, syempre all of us girls will be in denial becoz accepting that will make us face our fear that is breaking up wid him. isang katangahan yan ng mga babae.

so guy's wen this time had come wat will u do?

[ssaloon]

cool off muna yan ehehe

kung la pa rin, break na and move on.

wag mong gamitin yung rason na sayang ang tagal na natin... if it wont work, sayang lang dahil puro away and coldness lang mangyayari sa relationship.

[pure_blue]

ako, ganyan nangyari saken. but he had a hard time making me feel that because we already have a kid (who was then like 4 months old).

basta hindi nalang siya tumawag, text, etc. tapos he lets his sister text pag tinatanong niya about sa son namin, until his sister was fed up already. tapos nung paulit-ulit ko tinatanong siya about us, ang sagot niya ay:

"p***, di ka pa ba nakakahalata?!"

tapos yung recent niya, classmate ko. kabarkada ko pa. tapos he doesn't ask about our son anymore. it might ruin his relationship with the new girl daw. yung anak namin, kapatid ko yung kinilalang daddy, too bad he passed away na last july 24.

papano ako nag mo-move on? i just cherish the memories, i guess. tapos i'm just thankful that one guy loves me now, and i love him back... si cholo, my son.

[kimpOy]

imho cool off and break is the same

[yebo]

pure_blue,

imho, with that kind of guy (i refuse to call males like that as "man") i believe you're better off without him. tinalikuran ang sariling anak para wag masira ang relationship nya, in my book bading yun. palagay ko lang ha.

[ghosthunter]

I don't believe in "cool-off". Just breakup or makeup.

[GlennSter]

i agree with ghost...break kung break.

i think the guy will appreciate (errrkk...) it more if you girls are straight to the point.

[ghosthunter]

straight to the point... like a knife right thru the heart! (ARG!!!!)

[SiAKOL]

Listen to Neil Sedaka's song.;)

[gretzy]

so u'll do the hard thing n break up wid her?

pure_blue, he's got no balls!

[pajerokid]

pure_blue:: habulin mo in court!!! Magpakalalaki dapat yang kups na yan! (Excuse the language dear).

BTTT:: I see no reason in beating around the proverbial bush! Pag ayawan na, ayawan na. Masasaktan din saman, so derechohin na.

[edzzz]

mahirap talaga yang fall out of love. got couple of relationship na years ang tagal pero wala rin.....
it starts from being cold and declining of communication hanggang all you know wala na talagang communication.

[empy]

i tell the girl i'm gay :lol:

[ryan_pogi]

breaking up is very easy.
yung reason (o palusot) na magba-back up sa pag-break ang mahirap, lalo na if you dont wanna feel guilty or hurt the feelings of you partner.

hehehe, the best palusot.
"i love you, but i dont wanna see you miserable with me."
or "i cant bear to see you hurt when i do my selfish deeds"
or "im no longer the same person you used to love"
hehehe
la lang.

[GlennSter]

Originally posted by M54 Powered
i tell the girl i'm gay :lol:

for sure she'll believe you.....herhehrehrherherh....:cool:

[5Speed]

M54....

mukang napanood mo yung pelikula ni Mel Gibson na "What woman wants" hehehe..

Pureblue...

Hes not worth of you IMO.. Hindi tunay na lalaki yan, sad to say that you have a kid that will always remind you of him. You can still find a righteous guy who will accept you for what you are right now... ooops lumalayo na ako sa topic....hehehe

ano na nga ba yon?? esep esep....

ahhhh breaking up....hmmmm papano na nga ba yung ginawa ko non....

gretz.... sinabi ko na lang dun sa girl na.."buti pa eh tigilan na natin itong kabaliwan na ito...hindi tayo para sa isat-isa....mahirap ng ituloy ito lalo na at hindi na tayo masaya sa bawat isa...." blah blah at blah pa.... ayun pagkatapos tulala sya...hindi nagsalita...tumalikod sa akin dumiretso sa car nya at lumayas....di ko sya nakita almost a month...until accidentally nagkasalubong kami sa landmark.....hehehehe ooops mahaba na....nobela na to...hehheheh

[empy]

Originally posted by GlennSter
for sure she'll believe you.....herhehrehrherherh....:cool:

:p :D

[angst]

yeah. pero i'm still not over him.

[OTEP]

Originally posted by angst
yeah. pero i'm still not over him.

Over who? :bald:

[gretzy]

ang cute mo talaga otep! :lol: