Bakit ka badtrip today?

[NiCe2KnowU]

^ yan ang laging sinasabi ng mga girls
Gusto ko sya kasi mabait sya pero after 1year sasabihin bigla nalang nagbago ugali nya huhu [emoji24]
Matalino? If matalino sya gamitin nya

If mahal mo talaga yung tao wala na tayo magagawa dyan panindigan mo nalang

BTT: tsk tsk tangal nga undercoat gastos na naman

[_Cathy_]

Yung ex ko tunay na mabait. I've known him since 2005.

Sayang kasi sobrang talino ng ex ko talaga. May masters pa yan hindi nagamit

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[dr. d]

Yung ex ko tunay na mabait. I've known him since 2005.

Sayang kasi sobrang talino ng ex ko talaga. May masters pa yan hindi nagamit

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why do i have the feeling... we are not aware of the true and complete status of this ex...
if he's as old as TS and doesn't work... what does he use for food and clothing? ...survivor...?

[NiCe2KnowU]

Yung ex ko tunay na mabait. I've known him since 2005.

Sayang kasi sobrang talino ng ex ko talaga. May masters pa yan hindi nagamit

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Mabait at matalino pero tamad
Sayang hindi nya nagamit nag masters pa sya

BTT: oh my, may tagas din fluid ng power steering lagpas na low level, tsk ngayun lang nakapag check up ih

[Stoner]

*Cathy,
That guy reminds me of the movie, 'Failure to Launch'.

[_Cathy_]

why do i have the feeling... we are not aware of the true and complete status of this ex...
if he's as old as TS and doesn't work... what does he use for food and clothing? ...survivor...?

That's the complete status. He worked for 3 yrs or so (definitely less than 5) after graduating from college then resigned and took his masters at CRC. He has not worked ever since. I met him when was in my 20s and jobless but about to take my masters, he was in his 30s then. I knew he did not have a job then but I thought things would turn around. I didn't mind too much because we were both jobless but when I finished my masters and started working he still was not looking for work. The resentment grew and I pretty much knew he had no plans to find a job.

Aside from the jobless part, sumasama pa loob ko dyan kasi hindi maasahan. Example he has 2 lawyer friends that he is very close with. I had some legal issues/questions back then and I was begging him to ask one of him friends on my situation (simpleng tanong lang hindi consultancy) Ayaw niya kasi maki utang na loob sa kaibigan niya, di bale ng magkanda iyak ako sa pamumroblema. I knew for a fact that his friends would not mind him asking a simple question. Recently nga yung kaibigan pa niya nag alok na tulungan ako sa car problem ko (because they were friends) Buti pa kaibigan niya willing ma hassle May mga kaibigan din ako that would ask other people for help to help me, and I do the same. Little things like for example yung kaibigan ko kailangan ng sticker sa village kung saan nakatira Tita ko, I would ask my Tita to help my friend. Dati naman kailangan ko bumili ng laptop, ginawa ng good friend ko sinabay sa company purchase ng Tita niya para maka discount din ako. Nung gusto ko bumili ng lancer, yung good friend ko nag favor pa sa barkada ng kapatid niya na taga Mitsubishi (malayo na diba) Sa ex ko NEVER niya gagawin yun. He would NEVER ask another person a favor for me. Kahit simpleng favor, like patanong naman ng price ng item (since their business has to do with it) hindi niya gagawin just because.

He is living with his parents and they pay for his needs. BTW, I know a lot of guys in the same situation, he is not a unique case.

[NiCe2KnowU]

BTW, I know a lot of guys in the same situation, he is not a unique case.

Yeah right marami nyan sa squatter's area
Buti pa ang aso eh mapagmahal sa amo nya
Payo lang: maghanap ka nalang ng iba dami dito sa tsikot [emoji48]

[remzam]

Does he still matter to you *cathy? Are you still giving him a chance?

Based on what I read here, you resent him for not being maaasahan and you complain a lot yet you still consider him as your "supposed BF"

If you still hope to be with him then accept who he is. But if you can't live with that kind of person, move on and look for someone that you want to be with the rest of your life. I know I know, madali sabihin, mahirap gawin. But still...

We can't change people. We can only hope they change for us. If they won't change, time to assess whether we can or will accept that person for who he/she is.

PS: at your age, natatakot ka ba na wala ka na mahahanap na person with values like him? If you stick out with him, baka yung para sayo nasa tabi mo lang pero na-target fixation ka na dyan sa supposed BF mo.

[Juan Martinez]

Don't waste your love on somebody, who doesn't value it.

William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet

[_Cathy_]

Does he still matter to you *cathy? Are you still giving him a chance?

Based on what I read here, you resent him for not being maaasahan and you complain a lot yet you still consider him as your "supposed BF"

If you still hope to be with him then accept who he is. But if you can't live with that kind of person, move on and look for someone that you want to be with the rest of your life. I know I know, madali sabihin, mahirap gawin. But still...

We can't change people. We can only hope they change for us. If they won't change, time to assess whether we can or will accept that person for who he/she is.

PS: at your age, natatakot ka ba na wala ka na mahahanap na person with values like him? If you stick out with him, baka yung para sayo nasa tabi mo lang pero na-target fixation ka na dyan sa supposed BF mo.

Nope. He is not my BF anymore. I only complain here because I don't wanna complain to my friends or family. At least here I am anonymous and there are men who give logical responses.

Yes, I do think it will be hard to find a person with almost identical values as mine. We have really good conversation too, same wavelength. But come to think of it, I wasted my youth waiting for him to turn around I could never respect him if we end up together and I have to work and he only stays at home reading books, listening to music and watching movies (this is what he does now) I would rather be alone then. But I also know several women na ganun ang situation sila ang breadwinner rather than being alone.

[EQAddict]

Yeah right marami nyan sa squatter's area
[emoji48]

Wahahahaha. Love this. So true.

[_Cathy_]

Wahahahaha. Love this. So true.

Really? Aren't poor people supposed to work harder? I know a good number of very well off people that leech off of their parents. Hehehe.

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[shadow]

Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary.- Oscar Wilde

sometimes, somebody would take a bullet or a grenade for somebody. ☺

Si bruno mars bagay kay Cathy? [emoji16]


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[Juan Martinez]

Si bruno mars bagay kay Cathy? [emoji16]


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i think so [emoji41]

[EQAddict]

Really? Aren't poor people supposed to work harder? I know a good number of very well off people that leech off of their parents. Hehehe.

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Sorry. I meant there are a lot of men in those areas who dont work and who leech of the hardwork of their wives, parents, siblings, children etc.

[_Cathy_]

Si bruno mars bagay kay Cathy? [emoji16]


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Pandak si Bruno diba? hahaha

Hay naku shadow naalala mo ginawa ng ex ko re Amazon. Sinabi ko sa kanya yun sinabi mo. Nagalit sakin. hahaha.

Ako na nga nag purchase ng items niya (using my account and card) to ship to his Tita. When I asked him pwede ba pahabol ako ng relo or lipstick ata ayaw niya kasi ayaw niya maabala Tita niya. Such a small favor di niya mapagbigyan. Pero pag family ko umuuwi payag ako kahit malaki items niya.

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[shadow]

Hay naku shadow naalala mo ginawa ng ex ko re Amazon. Ako nag purchase ng items niya (using my account and card) to ship to his Tita. When I asked him pwede ba pahabol ako ng relo or lipstick ata ayaw niya kasi ayaw niya maabala Tita niya. Such a small favor di niya mapagbigyan. Pero pag family ko umuuwi payag ako kahit malaki items niya.

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Yup, and why do you still wasting your time thinking about him?


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[dr. d]

Pandak si Bruno diba? hahaha

Hay naku shadow naalala mo ginawa ng ex ko re Amazon. Sinabi ko sa kanya yun sinabi mo. Nagalit sakin. hahaha.

Ako na nga nag purchase ng items niya (using my account and card) to ship to his Tita. When I asked him pwede ba pahabol ako ng relo or lipstick ata ayaw niya kasi ayaw niya maabala Tita niya. Such a small favor di niya mapagbigyan. Pero pag family ko umuuwi payag ako kahit malaki items niya.

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i have decided...
he's a wimp!
an insect!

[_Cathy_]

Yup, and why do you still wasting your time thinking about him?


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We are still friends and see each other pero minsan may ugali siya na napipikon talaga ko

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[Juan Martinez]

i have decided...
he's a wimp!
an insect!

doc, you're the modern day gautama ☺