AFFAIRS, what's your say?

[Lucius]

What if your partner has been cheating you all this time? That your partner has pretty much slept with everyone else behind your back? That you will find out na kabit ka din? What will you do? Will you judge her? You have proof. You know everything. How can you turn things around and fix things?

[Horsepower]

Break it off with her and start anew with a better girl. Why would you wanna continue such regrettable relationship with a slut?

[Lucius]

Well because maybe you're starting to develop feelings for her? She makes you feel good? Revenge or to hurt him/her is of course not an option

[ghosthunter]

I am assuming married couple...

Assuming she still wants to fix things with you, it would be best to find a counselor to help you and her through this. The key word here is the willingness to change. If she is unwilling to change her mind and heart, you cannot do anything beyond that.

But do not put too much hope if she doesn't change her heart and chooses the other guy.

If you still don't have kids, just throw her out with just the clothes on her back. BTW, make sure any joint bank or investment accounts you have are taken cared of and converted to single name accounts before you throw her out. Advance planning is key. The less money she gets, the better. If she persists in getting any money, simply threaten back to donate the said funds to charity if she persists. Get an annulment. After that, get on with your life. :***:

:evil: If you have some influence, make her life and her boyfriend's life miserable in tiny increments. Everyone has to have a hobby, right?

If you have kids, its going to be complicated. :starwars:

[Lucius]

What if you found out ikaw ang kabit tapos yung original boyfriend nya walang idea na niloloko na pala sya matagal na? Hahahaha iwanan mo ba or just keep going hanggang magsawa ka? :***:

[ghosthunter]

What if you found out ikaw ang kabit tapos yung original boyfriend nya walang idea na niloloko na pala sya matagal na? Hahahaha iwanan mo ba or just keep going hanggang magsawa ka? :***:

Karma does find a way to catch up. Enjoy the free *** while you can.

[Lucius]

Just boyfriend and girlfriend :D yung friend ko pa ang lumalabas na kabit. Yung talagang boyfriend nung girl, no idea yata.

[Horsepower]

Well because maybe you're starting to develop feelings for her? She makes you feel good? Revenge or to hurt him/her is of course not an option

That's just stupid. Anyone who'd stay in a relationship due to such lousy premise deserves to be cheated on and shot. What a loser.

There are a lot of good girls around.

Bakit pag may ganitong topic laging sa "friend" ang story? hehehe

[Jun aka Pekto]

Affairs?

For married folks, it's a no-no. Think with your head (the one with the brain) and not with your hormones.

And no, I have no sympathy for those who engage in affairs.

My 2 cents......

Now if a woman with a less than wholesome reputation (while single) marries and changes for the better, that's different. I've seen a number of such Pinays who now live quiet/happy married lives.


Add: Also, I don't regard an affair an affair unless the couple had already tied the knot. That's just me though. Ya gotta have that piece of paper stamped, signed, and blessed.

I had to make sure of that with my wife because I was in competition with her ex-BF.

[Lucius]

Easy easy messenger lang ako hahahaha