We are in this discussion and I stumbled upon Tesla's V10 Software update.
Introducing Software Version 1. - YouTube
Now, there are lots of automation in the Tesla, but a part of what irks me is that they are also adding more distractions to play with, literally.
Now, it looks like their update allows you to play Cuphead (I don't know if it is the full version). Previously, they added Mario Kart.
If they made this strictly for passengers, that would be fine by me, but their own advert clearly shows the driver with a controller plugged in on the driver's side.
So, expect to hear the story of "tesla owner crashes while playing cuphead and relying on autopilot".
Anyway, the alert system makes sense for situation we can't really tell if and when we need them. But I do believe that if it shouldn't be used in certain scenarios (yet because still in development or never) then the manufacturer also has the responsibility to disable it to stop some dumbass abusing the tech or relying on the tech then blaming the tech.