I sympathize with you Sir Jedi. My case is a little different though. Several years ago I caught my ex-wife forging my signature on checks amounting to hundred of thousands of pesos! I found out that she's using the money for the house construction of his brother! The guy is the worst relative-in-law I have. He is a drug addict and is totally irresponsible.

My ex-wife insisted that maybe if he has a house of his own he will change! wtf! What kind of reasoning is that. She also insisted that utang naman daw yon at babayaran naman... as expected until now kahit isang kusing walang nabayad! Nagawa niya raw itago sakin kasi tiyak na hindi ako papayag na pautangin. Well of course... how stupid is that?

Quit the habit and be responsible... look for work for a change and I'll be happy to help you build a house! Sadly that's one of the reason why she is now an ex-wife!