Jedi pautang din. Hehehehehehe!!!
What you have done is one of a kind, helping others. I assumed you have your own family too that relying on you everyday. Right! Now, let me asked you.....are they really your friends? Perhaps they are cause you'll giving theme a favor constantly. What happen if you stop giving hands out to them, are they still your friends? Maybe, maybe not! Its nice of you for lending a hand to someone else but for GOD sake if you help others give it to the real needy not to an inept persons.
Stay away from them. You could do a lot better than giving hands out to those unproductive persons in the society.