Walang malasakit na tao.. Nakakairita...

[JCBalunsat]

Yesterday, I went to a store to buy cigarettes. While walking home, I saw a L300 FB breakdown due to a flat tire. It was a service vehicle for students. The dirver was taking out his jack (nalimutan ko tawag dun sa jack nya. yung di ikot) to change the tire. So sa harap ng bahay ng kapitbahay ko nasiraan di ba? Abay di tinulungan. Pinanood lang? Andaming bata ang nasa loob ng van na bumababa then pinanood yung driver. Yung kapitbahay ko naman, nagbubutingting ng makina ng kotse. I know for sure that he can give a hand to the driver by just getting a crocodile jack to make it easier for him. I also know that he has one because he's a car enthusiast and mahilig mangalikot ng kotse. Tinanong pa nya sa driver, "Nasiraan ka ba manong? ( Ay g*go, obvius ba?). Sa inis ko, kahit na 4 houses away pa yung bahay ko, umuwi ako agad then naglabas ng crocodile jack. I helped the poor driver to change the tire para makauwi na yung mga bata. Ang hirap ng magulang na nag aalala kung nasan na anak nila di ba?
It really feels good to help other people. Lalo na pag appreciated ka. (Sabi nung mga bata "Kuya thank you po! sabay sabay pa sila. Cute.)
Pero the point here is talagang nairita ako dun sa kapitbahay ko. Walang malasakit sa ibang tao. Panonoorin mo lang? Tatanungin mo pa? Sarap sapatusin kahapon e.
Talaga bang ganito na ang Pinoy ngayon? Wala na ba tayong "Good Samaritan" factor?

[Bry]

Wag mo lahatin ang mga Pinoy. Ikaw tumulong ka diba? Hindi ka rin ba Pinoy?

[mazingerZ]

Marami na ring mga apathetic na mga tao ngayon. Pero nung tinirik ako ng kotse last year me tumulong pa naman sa akin (lakas ng ulan noon and 11 pm na ng gabi).

[JCBalunsat]

I'm not generalizing. I'm just stating a point.

[Karag2]

marami kasing tao dyan na ang motto sa buhay e "kanya kanaya lang"...
i'm happy na meron pang tao tulad ng ts... bow ako sayo...
kaya nga i just try to judge people by their actions...
sa bandang huli aabutan din yan ng karma... at least ikaw good karma...

[Bry]

We shouldn't judge others so abruptly. Madaming pwedeng rason kung bakit hindi sya tumulong.

-Malay mo wala yung crocodile jack nya? Hiniram? Nasira? Nawala or ninakaw?

-Malay mo minamadali na nya yung binubutingting nyang makina kaya hindi na sya makatulong?

-Malay mo he had a long day at work at pagod na sya?

[badsekktor]

apathetic na nga siguro karamihan sa mga kababayan natin. hanggang hindi sila directly affected, hindi na makikialam. Had some experiences na nakakabwisit talaga.

There was this one incident kung kelan may tumumba na mama sa gitna ng busy na kalsada and instead na lapitan at tulungan eh pinanood lang ng mga tao. yun mga sasakyan iniwasan lang. hindi ko lang maintindihan kung bakit walang tumulong since sobrang busy nung area at maraming pulis so hindi mo talaga iisipin na magnanakaw or modus operandi. tapat pa sya ng simbahan at medyo trapik yun area. wala man lang tumigil at nagtanong sa mama kung ano ba nangyari. pati yun guard sa mcdo at mga manager pinanood lang. Kahit na malayo ako eh tinakbo ko yun mama dahil akala ko eh inatake sa puso. I was just using my underbone bike and im with my wife. we pulled the guy to the side para hindi naman kami makasagabal sa kalye or masagasaan pa yun mama. Funny thing is lasing pala yun mama and that was just around 1 pm. another funny thing is yun manager ng mcdo at yun guard eh parang ang sama pa ng tingin sa min at akala nila eh kamag-anak namin yun mama (we bought the guy a coffee from mcdo) I was really pissed with the mcdo crew pero i just kept my cool (di nila alam na yun may-ari ng pinagtatrabahuhan nila ang kamag-anak ko) i just shook my head and after seeing the guy aboard a tricycle, saka pa lang kami umalis.

another incident was with the clinic that we frequent for our checkups. after magpa-checkup ni wifey, meron isang babae dun na namimilipit na sa sakitsa tyan and all the clinic attendants and the resident physician did was to administer tests and charge them a whooping 2000 pesos tapos wala naman naibigay na result. Ni wala man lang tumawag ng ambulansya or nag-offer na dalhin sa provincial hospital yun babae. wala din nag-assist man lang since mukhang pobre yun mag-asawa. my wife offered to give them a ride to the hospital dahil emergency talaga.

around 4 or 5 in the afternoon nadala na nila sa ospital yun babae. So si misis umuwi na. around 9 pm nagtxt yun kasama nung naghihingalo dahil kulang daw yun pera nila kaya nilakasan na lang daw nya yun loob nya na humingi ng tulong. my wife went to the hospital along with several of our helpers. Ni di man lang pala sila inaasikaso the whole 5 hrs na nandun sila! si wifey ang nag-asikaso at naglalakad dun para maoperahan yun babae. appendicitis daw at pumutok na yata. kung di pa sila pinuntahan ng asawa ko baka patay na yun babae ngayon dun. Medyo bad trip ako sa provincial hospital ng bulacan. kapag may dinadala kami dun eh hindi ka talaga aasikasuhin. Several times na kami nagdala dun ng kasambahay namin at kahit na may pambayad eh talagang mas-inuuna pa ang magdaldalan

[XTO]

Ramdam ko rin yan because my 2 kids - both girls are service riders too. Last Friday lang they were delayed by more than an hour because nasira yung ride nila and the other has to return pa for them. So in short kawawa mga kids because of that. na pwede namang tulungan para mapabilis lang kahit konti… to TS okay yung ginawa mo, magaan ang pakiramdam after diba? Kung sa area ko rin nangyari yun, i would do the same. alam naman natin na hamak na mas madali gamitin ang alligator/crocodile kumpara as scissor.

[JCBalunsat]

We shouldn't judge others so abruptly. Madaming pwedeng rason kung bakit hindi sya tumulong.

-Malay mo wala yung crocodile jack nya? Hiniram? Nasira? Nawala or ninakaw?

-Malay mo minamadali na nya yung binubutingting nyang makina kaya hindi na sya makatulong?

-Malay mo he had a long day at work at pagod na sya?

Here's the deal. I saw his garage when he was looking at the service driver. Everything was there. This kapitbahay of mine is really a pain in the ass for us. Laging pasaway. Tapon basura kung san san, balahura mag park, ang ingay sa gabi. It's impossible that he had a long day kasi bum tong ung*s na to. The thing that pissed me off was yung pagkatanong nya. "Manong, nasiraan ka ba?". Kahit naman ikaw siguro maiinins pag narinig mo yun d ba? Nakikita nya na nga yung tao na naghihirap na mag jack ng oto tatanungin mo pa ng ganun? It was really sarcastic. It f*cking pisses me off. I heard that he's a tsikot user kaya dito na ko naghuhurumentado.


Kung nababasa mo to, alam mo naman siguro kung sino ka. Mahiya ka naman HOY!

[XTO]

Kung nababasa mo to, alam mo naman siguro kung sino ka. Mahiya ka naman HOY!

naku tsikoteter ba? este tsikoteer din?

[JCBalunsat]

balita ko po. kasi may sticker sya sa oto nya.

[Syuryuken]

Here's the deal. I saw his garage when he was looking at the service driver. Everything was there. This kapitbahay of mine is really a pain in the ass for us. Laging pasaway. Tapon basura kung san san, balahura mag park, ang ingay sa gabi. It's impossible that he had a long day kasi bum tong ung*s na to. The thing that pissed me off was yung pagkatanong nya. "Manong, nasiraan ka ba?". Kahit naman ikaw siguro maiinins pag narinig mo yun d ba? Nakikita nya na nga yung tao na naghihirap na mag jack ng oto tatanungin mo pa ng ganun? It was really sarcastic. It f*cking pisses me off. [SIZE=3]I heard that he's a tsikot user[/SIZE] kaya dito na ko naghuhurumentado.


Kung nababasa mo to, alam mo naman siguro kung sino ka. Mahiya ka naman HOY!

nakow lagot na may sticker pa palang oto niya

[jappy]

sir jc
thumbs up na lang sa pagtulong ninyo.
hayaan nyo na lang yung iba kung ganun talaga motto nila.
good thing that there are still good samaritans around.
=p

[mazdamazda]

Ummmm... why judge someone for not helping? If this was a life-threatening situation I might understand, but this is just a simple flat tire.

Maybe he asked the driver to determine if there was a mechanical problem other than the said flat tire. Maybe he will help out if there was a problem with the brake or suspension. Maybe he thought that the driver can handle a simple flat tire. You'll never know what the said person's real motives are since you were assuming a lot in your posts.

If you really just want to help then do it not out of spite for your neighbor, not out of getting your ego boosted by thanking children, or not out of feeling morally upright than your "apathetic" neighbor.

Just help the driver change his tire and move on. It's as simple as that.

[JCBalunsat]

Maraming salamat po.

[JCBalunsat]

Ummmm... why judge someone for not helping? If this was a life-threatening situation I might understand, but this is just a simple flat tire.

Maybe he asked the driver to determine if there was a mechanical problem other than the said flat tire. Maybe he will help out if there was a problem with the brake or suspension. Maybe he thought that the driver can handle a simple flat tire. You'll never know what the said person's real motives are since you were assuming a lot in your posts.

If you really just want to help then do it not out of spite for your neighbor, not out of getting your ego boosted by thanking children, or not out of feeling morally upright than your "apathetic" neighbor.

Just help the driver change his tire and move on. It's as simple as that.

I understand your statement sir but then why shouldn't he help? Is it that a big of deal to help others? I'm not leeching on my neighbor's mistake nor just boosting myself with how the kids thanked me for helping them out. being moral is not sin, right? so why not do it? that's question that is bugging me til this moment.

But I guess I should move on. Maybe it's just me who's being too sensitive about this.

[coiter]

I understand your statement sir but then why shouldn't he help? Is it that a big of deal to help others? I'm not leeching on my neighbor's mistake nor just boosting myself with how the kids thanked me for helping them out. being moral is not sin, right? so why not do it? that's question that is bugging me til this moment.

But I guess I should move on. Maybe it's just me who's being too sensitive about this.

hehe baka nga too sensitive or frustrated of what's happening around us. but i understand what mazdamazda's trying to say. depende rin siguro sa tao. like for me, i'm the type of person who does not like getting unsolicited advice or help. if i needed it, i'll ask for it. wag nyo kong pakialaman. ayoko kasing magkaroon ng utang na loob na hindi ko hiningi. sounds like foolish pride no? but i see it as the competitive nature in me. of course, i ask for help if i really need it. hehe.

anyway, going back, baka naman ganun ang point of view ng kapitbahay mo. hindi naman humingi ng tulong yung driver e, so it means na kaya na nya or ayaw nyang mang-abala ng iba. baka inisip ng kapitbahay mo na baka mainsulto pa yung driver kung magoffer sya. kaya siguro natanong kung nasiraan ba. kasi kung nasiraan, ready syang tumulong kasi may alam sya sa pagbutingting. pero since naflatan "lang", e alam nyang kayang kaya na ng driver at baka makagulo pa sya kung makialam.

nangyari na rin kasi sa akin yung ako ang napahiya kasi nagoffer ako ng tulong. parang nainis pa sa akin kasi pakialamero ako. so nakaka-phobia nang magoffer uli ng di hinihingan.

so let your neighbor be. believe in karma na lang. or ipasa Dyos. kudos sayo for your act of kindness and i hope a lot will still think that way.

[sboogie]

sa observation ko mas marami talagang mga walang malasakit kesa sa mga good samaritan. nakakita rin ako minsan na bata na nawawala sa mall wala man lang pumapansin. kaya nilapitan ko kagad at dinala sa customer service.

[HyBrideVo]

di kaya underrated ang katawan ng kapitbahay mo kaya di tumulong at baka mabalian ng likod kaya ayan overrated tuloy ang tingin mo sa kanya sa di pagtulong sa nasiraan...




:evillaugh

[JCBalunsat]

di kaya underrated ang katawan ng kapitbahay mo kaya di tumulong at baka mabalian ng likod kaya ayan overrated tuloy ang tingin mo sa kanya sa di pagtulong sa nasiraan...




:evillaugh

LOL