I totally agree with this. I think couples who practice this have a secure and trusting relationship.
Just because you're committed doesn't mean that your partner can have access to all your correspondences, whether through text, email or even snail mail. It's also in violation of other people's privacy eg a friend sends you a personal text in full confidence that only you will read it. A person should have the right to hold on to something that is his and his alone.
I'm sorry but I have to disagree. If a relationship is not based in trust, then what is it for? If a woman is truly committed to you, no amount of temptation will lead her astray.
You should really be wary of women who have a history of cheating. It's all about character. Some women simply cannot cheat and some women can't help but cheat. This also applies to men. But if you're with someone who is trustworthy, why do you have to be vigilant, isn't that tiring to be on guard at all times? It is really important that you get to know your partner well enough to know her values.
Last edited by _Cathy_; November 19th, 2012 at 12:02 AM.
^ well said ma'am
pero for me, pareho lang naman takbo ng utak ng lalake at babae. it all boils down to restraint and resoluteness when it comes to fidelity. temptation will always be there, it's how you deal w/ it that will determine one's relationship (since we're talking about relations here)
btw, an old and wise jesuit professor of mine once advised the whole class ( i was in) on how to overcome tests of conscience. he says and i quote: "the best way to get rid of a temptation is - to give in." :rofl:
Last edited by baludoy; November 19th, 2012 at 12:20 AM.
Sige nga bro.,- and I will quote you on that (tawagan ko si Fr. N3br3x)...
You're da man, bro.!....
Pero, sabi nga nila,- ang kahoy,- kahit habang buhay na nakababad sa tubig,- pag nadarang sa apoy,- pilit na magririkit......(What I am saying is, why wait for it to happen, if you can help (prevent) it?)
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Last edited by CVT; November 19th, 2012 at 01:27 PM.
maam cathy IMO you dont really know us MEN....
what we can do....
its a matter of timing din po kasi yan....
Totoo yun it should be based on trust... pero wag ka din po pakakasiguro... at dapat wag din po tayo tatanga tanga.. at dapat po din alagaan natin ang isat isa... hindi naman ppwede yung puro TIWALA nalang... dapat meron pa din kunting pag babantay.... at pag aalaga...
Madaming mga lalaki alam po kung paano mabobola ang isang may asawang girl.... Kahit anong values pa yan itinuro sakanya may possibility pa din na magloko yan....
you dont know what most men can do....
hindi naman sa walang tiwala kaming mga lalaki sa wife namin...
madami din po kasi akong alam, may asawang babae... makadios pa, hindi makabasag pingan, family oriented... maganda naman ang naiturong values ng family nila.... pero pumatol sa iba....
maliban sa personal kung kilala... madami din pong cases na naka file sa husgado na ang babae ang dahilan ng pag ka gulo ng pamilya.... usually akala nung lalaki nasa simbahan or nasa bahay ng magulang etc... ayun pala.... nakaluhod kung saan saan lang... he.he...
sumobra ang tiwala ng kaniyang hubby, or baka hindi din po siguro naalagaan mabuti.... tao lang din yan at nagkakamali...
hindi ko naman din po sinabi na we men should be always be vigilant... we should be wary lang kung sino sino ang mga kasama at ka tex or barkada... ni wifey... then bantay ng kunti lang... then remind lang sya na be careful sa ibang tao na kasama nya...
parang mga magulang din na binabantayan, sinusubaybayan at pinapaalahanan ang kanilang mga anak sa tamang landas....
meron nga po dito dati nag post re. sa wife nya... Sobra kasi laki tiwala nya sa wife nya nung una... at hindi din nya nababantayan yun E.MAIL.. kaya ayun.....
Umiyak tuloy sya....
nothing beats spending quality time with the wife everyday and take her out on a special date once a week.
parang ako ata ito? ahihi
tama yan. hindi nakukuha sa tiwala lang yan.
nagtiwala ako sa misis ko. binigay ko lahat lahat. love, support, understanding, everything...
mataas pinag aralan nya, may values, ok din ang pamilya...
pero wala parin. nagkamali parin...
masyado akong nagtiwala. yun ang PINAKAMALAKING pagkakamali ko.
tama sila, tao lang. mapa babae o lalaki. born to make mistakes....
nakakabaliw ang maloko ng taong minahal at pinagkatiwalaan mo ng lubos lubos.
kaya kung pwede mo mapigilan on your own, gawin mo.
wag kang umasa lang at maniwala na hindi nya magagawang magloko
=)