Ano ang pinakamasakit?

[beereo]

Some people say that it is more painful to lose one's child than to lose one's parent. For me, being in my early 20's and being single, it's more painful to lose one's parent. What do you think?

[testament11]

condolence sa yo paps...

[XTO]

Some people say that it is more painful to lose one's child than to lose one's parent. For me, being in my early 20's and being single, it's more painful to lose one's parent. What do you think?

mahirap pag-usapan ito being a parent, i agree to those some people.

[coiter]

my condolences

i guess depende nga sa situation. malamang kung may anak ka na e mas masakit mawalan ng anak kesa magulang. i lost my mom when I was 11. my dad lost a 20 y/o son 16 years ago. i can say that i've fully recovered from losing my mom and older brother but until now my dad still can't get over the loss of his son.

if it's any consolation, consider na lang that your parent has lived a full life already. maybe that fulfillment came when you graduated from college. it's harder nga kasi you're still single and very much attached to your parent. but eventually you'll have a family of your own and dedicate your parenthood to them.

but think about nurturing a child. ni kagat ng lamok o gasgas sa tuhod ayaw mong mangyari sa kanya. and you'd promise to protect him/her to death. laki na rin ng puhunan mo para sa future nya and you dream of having grandchildren. tapos biglang sya pa mauuna sayo. grabe ka devastating yun.

anyway, any loss is painful. no matter what's more or less painful, bottom line, it hurts. just keep your head up and think that the one who left is now in a better place and you have your whole life to live.

[oliver1013]

Sir condolence po..

Parehong masakit yan..yet naalala ko yung lola ni misis nung mamatay yung byenan kong lalaki (bale yung nanay ng byenan kong pumanaw) nung nililibing siya katabi ko si lola bumulong sakin sabi, bakit hindi pa daw siya inuna, wala na daw mas sasakit sa mamatayn ng anak..and I also recall a scene sa Lord of the Rings, may chracter dun na namatayan ng anak, sabi no parent should bury their child...As a parent nga ni magalusan ang anak kung pwede lang ayaw mo..

[jansky]

Both because they are part of your life

[shadow]

IMO, parehong masakit yan, maybe different level, but the same parehong masakit.

[deathlance]

both na masakit yan, oo naman.. pero sabi sa napanood ko, ang tawag sa nawalan ng mga magulang ulila, eh ang tawag sa nawalan ng anak??...

so un nga.. mahirap siguro tlga mawalan ng anak.. its like you have someone to carry all your wishes and aspirations, your dreams for you, the kids. tapos isang iglap wala na sha wala kang ka malay malay..

di ka man lang nakapag paalam, wala ka nagawa.. makikita mo na lang sha sa wake,sa libing, habang binababa sha sa resting place nya sasabihin mo na lang, dapat ako ung nandyan sa hukay eh.. dapat ako... sana ako na lang...

sabi un ng uncle ko when he lost he's 4 year old son.. hanggang ngayon our family has my cousins pictures displayed at the living room.. nanghihinayang sila di man lang daw naranasan ng cousin ko ung mabuhay for his own.. its sad really...

but life goes on diba? the ones who are important are the living and surviving..

[v6dreamer]

Some people say that it is more painful to lose one's child than to lose one's parent. For me, being in my early 20's and being single, it's more painful to lose one's parent. What do you think?

When a parent dies, you lose the past; when a spouse dies, you lose the present, when a child dies you lose the future. However, when a sibling dies, you lose all three of those things. However, any death, whether it be any or all of the above would be worth grieving. But in order to get the relief you want you need to seek help and support and comfort. There will be those in your family who just won't be able to support I am seeing by your comments, but please, find a church and get connected. There you will seek the comfort you so much desire.

[iho250]

for me..both! it's always painful when you lose someone...as long as he/she is part of my life...

and oh...my condolences, sir...

[s_quilicot]

i cant imagine my self loosing a parent.

siguro susunod ako seriously.

[crave]

di ko kakayanin ng mawalan ng parents. kung papipiliin, mas gugustuhin ko pang mauna ako.

[s_quilicot]

condolence pala TS.

[macsd]

Some people say that it is more painful to lose one's child than to lose one's parent. For me, being in my early 20's and being single, it's more painful to lose one's parent. What do you think?

loosing someone close to you or someone you love whether your parent, child, partner, neighbor etc...really hurts. i don't think that there's a degree of measurement. you just have to realize that life has a start and end. it's just a matter of time on who goes first.

[s_quilicot]

Last night i had a nightmare, Namatay daw dad ko . . . . . . and bigla nalang ako nagising na umiiyak nako

[OldSchoolHack]

Since walang permanent sa mundo, habang nandiyan pa ang mga taong mahal mo e bigyan mo sila ng pinakamahalagang bagay sa mundo.

it's not money or things na pwede mo ibigay. but it's your time. bigyan mo ng oras silang tinatawag mong mahal mo sa buhay.

dahil pag wala na sila (lets say lumaki na mga anak mo, namatay na magulang o or even nag ibang bansa na mga kapatid o kaibigan mo) huli na pagsisisi.

Di ba masarap gumunita sa isang taong mahal mo at naalala mo ang pagmamahal na naibigay mo din? malalim ang iyak ng pagkukulang. No tears given more painfully then the tears of regret.

[Sabrina]

All of us will eventually experience loss of a love ones. Sooner or later will also come to the same situation. The most important thing to remember to is to cherish the time they are still with us. Memories will keep them alive and the pain that will felt at that will soon fade.

[kulotz]

pinakamasakit siguro kung mayroon kang nakaaway na close mo tapos after nun namatay grabeh yun. o kaya yung biglaan na sanay ka na masaya with that person yung parang pag wala siya d ka masaya tapos bigla mawawala sayo awts..