Provoked while Intoxicated

[b1rken5tock]

if you are not happy/comportable with what happened, then drop it like a hot potato...

at the end of the day it is your call....

[cutedoc]

in my standpoint, your gf knows what she is doing and she is capable of doing it again, the alcohol erases her inhibition and that would be her wildest moments, sorry but arent around to protect her...

if your gf is just tipsy she will still know what she had been doing as she was able to narrate it to you, she is sorry, accept that, she is loyal to you, well she can be if you are there...

she is the type of girl who cant be left in mid air and be left alone, somehow she will try to make a way to plug in her outburst...

in a psychological pov, she is unstable with regards to her fidelity, however you can neither lock her up and own her as she has a bog tendency to be rebellious, most you could do is keep an open line of communication and more understanding.

the key here is to keep her in control without her knowing it or with her knowing that she is in control of herself, it a difficult task to cross the border between being too strict and too loose, yet you will need so much effort in enacting this so as to create a perfect platform for that specific dictum...

love and understand her even more...

[LexTer]

One of my good ole friends got her gf harassed on his own house by one of his own bestfriends. San ka pa? Hahaha

ang sama! isa lang ibig sabihin non. di nya mahal. grrrrrr

[CVT]

Real touch and go situation....

Your call bro.,- it is your life and your future....

6220:foryou:

[pitbullz]

so much for the "woman of the new millenium"...

[morrissey_05]

i think on a basic level, your gf has a problem with her drinking. she lets it get to her head, even when you are around. live with it, or leave.

[fourtheboys96]

think about it. your gf started the dare. her friends tolerated it despite her having a bf. hmmm. your call bru. but based on that incident, not "wife material" as of now.

[AeonBlaire]

Dami agad nag-reply amf.

Well thank you sa mga initial responses.

*Cathy
Small favor lang yun panigurado, malamang may pinakuha something. Ganun naman yun e. Chaser siguro or water. She's 23 yrs old.

Well as I've said, ok na naman kami, I accepted her again, kasi 2 years na kami and second major away pa lang namin toh (1 per year? haha). Kahit papano nanghihinayang din ako dun. If lab niya pa rin ako, matakot na siya because next time madali nang iwanan. Big lesson learned na toh sa kanya, nawala self-esteem niya e.

Get some extra lovin'? 3x lang naman , di ako pang marathon e.

Now I prohibit her from drinking (ayaw niya na rin hehe) for several months, except kung sa bahay niya. Kung ayaw niya sumunod, fine, "madali ako kausap".

At least relieved ako na hindi totally gf ko lang nag-dare.

Yung guy kasi AH talaga yun, may issue na yun sa isa pa namin friend (and his gf), although "push over" type yung lalaking yun. Sneaky type pala haha. Of course, hindi na namin siya kilala.

[1997]

Dami agad nag-reply amf.

Well thank you sa mga initial responses.

*Cathy
Small favor lang yun panigurado, malamang may pinakuha something. Ganun naman yun e. Chaser siguro or water. She's 23 yrs old.

Well as I've said, ok na naman kami, I accepted her again, kasi 2 years na kami and second major away pa lang namin toh (1 per year? haha). Kahit papano nanghihinayang din ako dun. If lab niya pa rin ako, matakot na siya because next time madali nang iwanan. Big lesson learned na toh sa kanya, nawala self-esteem niya e.

Get some extra lovin'? 3x lang naman , di ako pang marathon e.

Now I prohibit her from drinking (ayaw niya na rin hehe) for several months, except kung sa bahay niya. Kung ayaw niya sumunod, fine, "madali ako kausap".

At least relieved ako na hindi totally gf ko lang nag-dare.

Yung guy kasi AH talaga yun, may issue na yun sa isa pa namin friend (and his gf), although "push over" type yung lalaking yun. Sneaky type pala haha. Of course, hindi na namin siya kilala.

Nang hihinayang ka sa 2 years? May mali ata dun... For me kung hindi talaga kayo para sa isat isa hindi kayo mag kakabalikan... Pero pag nabasa niya na nanghihinayang ka sa 2 years baka mag away ulet kayo... hehehe...

[1D4LV]

Man, live with it... if you can't, break up. Personally there are worst things that could have happened but didn't. Or you can take advantage of her guilt to get some extra loving ... or even just good back rub.

+1 here.... you have to live with it or leave it...

[_Cathy_]

The smaller the favor the more alarming it is

All's well that ends well.

[raine]

atleast maaga palang alam mo na ang kayang gawin at maaaring gawin ng GF mo habang maaga. kung kaya mong magsakripisyo dahil sa love mo sa kanya tuloy mo pero pagisipan mo rin baka pagtagal masmalaking sakit ng ulo pa ang ibigay sa iyo pag kasal na kayo,kung ayaw mo ng ganoon iwan mo na , wag mong isipin yung 2 years nyo masyadong maiksi pa rin yun.

[shadow]

ok lang yan since 2 years na kayo, marami-rami na rin siguro siyang hinde naikwento saiyo...masanay ka na lang siguro...yeah baby

meron palang bagong tv series, I encourage you ang your GF to watch it...baka makatulong..

http://www.tv.com/swingtown/show/68683/summary.html

[Lucius]

Better watch Unfaithful and Killing Me Softly

[[archie]]

like snoop dogg would say.. drop it like its hot

drinking reveals the true and uncensored person. if she did it the first time, then it wont matter if she does it again because you forgave her and put it in the past. if i was in your shoes, then i would let go... small things are meant to be said and judging from what happened baka may mas malala na ginawa yan na hindi mo alam.

2 years is nothing if something like that happened.

well this is my opinion lang naman...

[1D4LV]

lets look at the other side of the coin.....since most of the posts here do quite condemn the girl.

a. look at yourself. are you also faithful? can you handle yourself while intoxicated?
b. do you still trust the girl?
c. do you think your girl would want to change for you?
d. do you also flirt and playaround if there is a chance?

bottom line is, lahat tayo nagkakamali. if you think that you really love the girl and that girl has commitments to change for the better just for you to go together, i would advise you to still continue your relationship. dun kayo masaya eh.

but if there are conditions or limitations, then its up to you to decide. i do not condemn the girl. i just want to prove a point that walang malinis sa atin.

[badsekktor]

mahal mo nga pre...... sana hindi ka magsisi

[_Cathy_]

Abangan ang susunod na kabanata...

[Jetjock]

kunti palang ininom nun nakipag smack na... panu na pag naparami na ng inom?

[iho250]

be careful bro...that might not be the only thing she has been doing behind your back...

i had a girlfriend before, we had common friends, and she's also close to them, she also goes with them without me, one night, on my way to their house, i saw a vehicle right in front of their house...guess who's car? one of our common friends...and that's late in the evening! so...to cut the long story short...we broke up...

i'm not saying that your gf is same as my ex...just be cautious...