My Date's Dad Is Hitting On Me?

[_Cathy_]

This is so unbelievable. I don't know how this guy keeps on getting women.

He has a new girl AGAIN and worse is she's related to a good friend of mine. The girl is an artist and it looks like she's in her 40s. As usual spanish mestiza. Kitang kita mga pattern niya sa babae!

Now I'm thinking of deleting this guy from FB. What everyone here said is true, he can afford to chase after me because he does not do it daily and he has many side chicks! The nerve to tell me that he passes on these women because he is waiting for me!

I'll get my sweet revenge din after what he did to me. This guy is an extreme narcissist. Pag ako nainis patulan ko tatay niya, just kidding. Lol.

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[minicarph]

Not necessarily. People (Men & Women) have affairs not just because of those 2 reasons. It can be just because of high testosterone levels.

I know a long term couple who both have the hots for each other. Both are successful at work and at home. They have 3 adorable kids. Both are physically fit. The man lifts while the woman does yoga.
But the man has side chicks. He just can't resist the game even in his mid-30s.

I know another successful office girl lady has a bf. She is not fit to the T but not looking bad either. The bf is quite a guy as well. Articulate and has budding career in high end restaurants. They both have good investments for their future already. Several condos, a sideline business and savings. Guess what? The girl has ONS or even NSAs here and there.

One can say that cheaters are weak to temptation or they simply can't settle down. Everyone has a reason and we can't simplify it to just a few things. As what Cathy said, it can't be generalized.

These type of people you mentioned are the swingers. Cant really talk about them coz whenever I ran into one, I just avoid them.


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[CVT]

Not necessarily. People (Men & Women) have affairs not just because of those 2 reasons. It can be just because of high testosterone levels.

T*ngna, ang galing naman ng ganyang excuse, ng mga ulvl, bro

Magdyati na lang kamo siya o ikaskas niya sa pader o pumunta sa sagingan at hanapin si bro.HC...

[_Cathy_]

I read somewhere that intelligent people have more self control when it comes to ***.

*** is primal behaviour kasi and what separates us humans from other animals is our discernment.

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[MR_BIG18]

I read somewhere that intelligent people have more self control when it comes to ***.

*** is primal behaviour kasi and what separates us humans from other animals is our discernment.

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you read wrong, you need to read up on albert einstein, marcos, bill clinton and benjamin franklin

[_Cathy_]

you read wrong, you need to read up on albert einstein, marcos, bill clinton and benjamin franklin

Those are exceptions. I'm am talking about human behaviour in general. The analogy does make sense. Just look at the lower income uneducated segments that are breeding like rats and where early pregnancy is common.

In the early months of 2010, websites boomed with the headlines that claimed that intelligent men are less likely to cheat because something in the biological make up that makes them less susceptible to their animalistic urges of reproduction.

Dr. Satoshi Kanzawa of the London School of Economics and Political Science is the major proponent in this study. According to the Theory of Evolution by Charles Darwin, men are biologically predisposed to cheat because a species in which it values procreation leading to the conclusion that they have an evolutionary advantage.

Kanzawa has argued that ***ual exclusivity is an “evolutionary model” quality that would have been of little benefit to early man, who was programmed to be promiscuous. He says that as species in which we are capable of adapting to our surroundings, we left behind our ancestral programming to adapt to something socially advantageous in the present day.

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[MR_BIG18]

Those are exceptions.

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gandhi, muhammad, JFK, hugh hefner, bill cosby, king solomon, arnold schwarzenegger, tiger woods and dolphy

[_Cathy_]

gandhi, muhammad, JFK, hugh hefner, bill cosby, king solomon, arnold schwarzenegger, tiger woods and dolphy

You can give me a thousand names but we are talking about human scientific behaviour in general. And BTW those names you mentioned, they may be popular but not necessarily intelligent.

Anyway I still agree with the results of studies made by reputable organizations.

[MR_BIG18]

Those are exceptions. I'm am talking about human behaviour in general. The analogy does make sense. Just look at the lower income uneducated segments that are breeding like rats and where early pregnancy is common.



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if were talking bout science here, all studies will contradict each other(coffee, eggs etc)..its really upto the reader in what he/she wants to believe..

[_Cathy_]

if were talking bout science here, all studies will contradict each other(coffee, eggs etc)..its really upto the reader in what he/she wants to believe..

Well it's my belief that intelligent men are less likely to cheat.

You have your belief and I have mine

[MR_BIG18]

You can give me a thousand names but we are talking about human scientific behaviour in general. And BTW those names you mentioned, they may be popular but not necessarily intelligent.

Anyway I still agree with the results of studies made by reputable organizations.

well you cannot disregard the facts either.....

[MR_BIG18]

Well it's my belief that intelligent men are less likely to cheat.

You have your belief and I have mine

so that 50yr old guy you dating, was he not intelligent?

[_Cathy_]

so that 50yr old guy you dating, was he not intelligent?

Academically yes he is intelligent. The guy did aa much as my homework but he is a raging narcissist so he counts as one of the exceptions.

Still nothing can turn my belief otherwise. And l don't assume that ALL cheaters are not intelligent.

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[minicarph]

It's really simple when you look at it. If say you are a husband, and you got tempted with a younger or ***ier or prettier female.

Chances, you'll make her fat too in the long run coz you made your original wife insecure too,

I have seen my dad's friends with mistresses, some up to 3. At times, we meet them at the mall and my dad ill whisper that's no. 2 or 3. Sabi ko, eh ba't ganun mas balyena pa yung number 2. Sabihen dad ko, hinde napa-***y nyan dati. I can see my dad's eyes glittering.

The point is why get a mistress kung hindi ikaw naman talaga may problema. You are weak, you cant transform or keep your wife feel alive tapos hahahap ka ng iba for you to feel masculine. Dami mo lang sinisira buhay, lalo na pag nagkaanak ka pa. And now you're gonna be stuck with 2 or 3 elephants , palamunin and also 2 or 3controlling insecure women.

What a waste to live. Dami kelangan gawin sa buhay, ako dream ko hindi mag-work at mag-travel ng 1 year straight with my ***y and understanding wife. Minsan dad ko bwiset sa 'kin, kasi marunong ako mag-grocery, marunong ako pumili ng mga tamang foods sa grocery, marunong ako gumawa ng food ko, nag-hihiwalay ako ng maruming damit , magkabit ng kurtina etc. under daw ako

Hindi na lang ako umiimik, it's about understandig your wife and making her feel and look good literally


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[dreamur]

^in short, tigasin ka rin pala OB.

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[minicarph]

Yes, that's why I save money not doing what doing what other husbands do like carmods, home theaters, expensive rubber shoes and watches, nagpapagawa ng bahay construction kuno, all designed to nurse ones self-esteem only because the wife controls you.

Just be fit looking and always look marketable, takot lang nila maagaw ka.


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[ninjababez]

Yes, that's why I save money not doing what doing what other husbands do like carmods, home theaters, expensive rubber shoes and watches, nagpapagawa ng bahay construction kuno, all designed to nurse ones self-esteem only because the wife controls you.

Just be fit looking and always look marketable, takot lang nila maagaw ka.


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hmm dapat ba all of the above? medyo napalaki gastos ko dati sa HT pero di naman mababa self esteem ko ^_^

[_Cathy_]

hmm dapat ba all of the above? medyo napalaki gastos ko dati sa HT pero di naman mababa self esteem ko ^_^

sobra sobra nga e

:peace:

[MR_BIG18]

Academically yes he is intelligent. The guy did aa much as my homework but he is a raging narcissist so he counts as one of the exceptions.

Still nothing can turn my belief otherwise. And l don't assume that ALL cheaters are not intelligent.

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nobody's trying to change your mind, im saying the study is inconclusive and from the looks of it he still got you bigtime or else we wont be having this conversation..

[minicarph]

hmm dapat ba all of the above? medyo napalaki gastos ko dati sa HT pero di naman mababa self esteem ko ^_^

Ang isa philosophy ko sa buhay pag may pinaganda o in-upgradepa ako sa buhay like car, house, phone na ginastusan ko ibig sabihin naghahanap ako ng happiness sa material things and im trying escape an unresolved feeling


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