Long Distance Relationships

[ghosthunter]

[size=18]Do you believe in Long Distance Relationships?[/size]

[sHoCkAbSoRbEr]

naunahan mo ko ghosthunter, dapat mag start din ako ng thread similar to this... :wink:

i believe in this pero both parties should be responsible enough to find ways in making the relationship work... like making calls, sending text messages, writing e-mails... :wink: dapat constant yung communication... :wink:

altho, minsan i find it hard kasi what if gusto mo mag coffee for a while, i can't tell him to rush to my place and have coffee for an hour... :? thinking na 2-3 hours ang trip from his place to mine and depends pa sa traffic... :cry: sometimes mahirap...

buti na lang hindi sya out of the country... otherwise, mas mahirap... :|

[ghosthunter]

I guess there are two kinds of long distance relationships:

-drivable distance but still far (as long as same country)
-in another country

[mazdamazda]

I guess there are two kinds of long distance relationships:

-drivable distance but still far (as long as same country)
-in another country

I've been involved in the first one. Mahirap rin and parang hindi mag grow yung relationship because of that. It never worked for me.

[1D4LV]

mahirap, costly and takes a lot of commitment and responsibility for both parties.

[tuesday]

mahirap, costly and takes a lot of commitment and responsibility for both parties.

8) :roll: 8)

[ghosthunter]

mahirap, costly and takes a lot of commitment and responsibility for both parties.

my gf's out of the country for three months... 1.5 months to go and I can really relate to what you are saying... pero there are cheaper alternatives din... usually txting via internet like chikka and yahoo messenger helps to lower the cost.

[kimpOy]

ako dati may long distance relationship
as in overseas, mahirap, magastos,
never will it work.
it's either isa sa inyo lumapit, in my case i can't
nangyari break up lang sa phone,
walang sense, di ka man sure kung totoo ang feelings

pero buti na lang nangyari, dahil mas masaya ko ngayon

[pajerokid]

I say leave it... mahirap paga di mo nakikita.

1) Anxiety kung nangbo-boys.
2) Sino kasama mo dito sa lakad?
3) And daling i-justify ng temptation... magkakasala pa ako
4) Nakakasawa mag-maria palad hehehehehe!!! ::mrgreen:

[chua_riwap]

I say leave it... mahirap pag di mo nakikita.

4) Nakakasawa mag-maria palad hehehehehe!!! ::mrgreen:

Ha-ha! Ayos!

[jesi]

I'll say depende. I've been to one and it worked for us. College sweethearts kami ni misis. I had to go here [US] and we did not see each other for almost four years. Constant letters lang and once a month lang ako tumatawag [mahal pa noon] and WALA PANG CELL PHONES/TEXTS noon. And I have to admit, ako na yata ang pinakaselosong tao sa mundo. Sinasabi naman niya lahat ng nanligaw sa kanya. And one day, sabi ko that's it. Five days after we talked, nabigla siya ng madatnan na lang niya ako sa trabaho niya. Pinagpaalam ko sa boss niya and nag-walk-in lang kami sa City Hall. I'm really proud and happy we made it.

But I have friends na it did not work for them. Lahat sila babae lumayo [I mean ang umalis]. Babae rin hindi nakatiis and broke off. Masakit pa sa isa ay, they talked on a Christmas, sweet and all that, came Valentines, she just told him she was already married and take note - three months pregnant. Damn girl, buntis na pala nang mag-usap sila ng Christmas.

[logbook]

:roll: patay, pinaalala sa akin :roll:

for me, kaya kung kaya. especially kung prepared kayo na aalis yung isa at naiayos nyo kahit papaano yung plans nyo. tawagan, email, txt, bisita (kung kaya). and as long as matatag ang mga loob nyo, i think kaya naman......this is assuming na mahal nyo talaga ang isa't isa at kayo talaga....

sabi nga ng friend ko "kahit libo-libong gallon ng tubig ang pagitan nyo, kakayanin ng pag-ibig"

unfortunately for me, umalis kaagad cya nung naging kami (5 days?) :cry: at pumunta pa ng US para mag-migrate! :roll: .....pero umaasa pa rin ako na tunay ang ibigan namin :P

[preytoryan]

agree ako sa yo logbook. kaya kung gustong kayanin. lalo na siguro kung isa ka dun sa maswerteng soul mate mo yung naging syota mo. kahit na north-south ang distance nyo, love will still find a way....

always remember, you don't find LOVE. LOVE finds you. and when Love finds you, you just know.

[odell]

KAYA :mrgreen:

[phillipogi]

grabe ito reason bakit nag break up kami ng gf ko......wala siyang trust sa long distance relationship dahil sa nangyari sa dad and mom nya. She'll be leaving for the states for good na, sabi ko i'll do my best na sumunod doon, pero ayaw daw nyang umasa. Mahirap na baka di naman magkatotoo. And besides, mahirap na yung hindi nagkikita, sabi nya, paano daw pag biglang may nakita ako iba while wala sya, or paano kung sya naman daw......grabe iyak talaga tuloy ako.

kaya gusto ko yumaman eh (mayaman kasi sya eh, di tulad ko), para kahit every 2 months punta ako states eh. hirap talaga ng hindi mayaman.... =(

[gretzy]

phillipogi, she's just being practical n realistic, long distance relationship hardly works...

[logbook]

phillipogi, dude....pareho tayo! may kadamay ka :cry:

[INTREPID]

Long distance relationships are very much workable. As long as there is deep love, great trust, and solid commitment between those involved.

[pnay_fickle_minded]

well comment ko lang for me its hard din... lalo na pag girl ka... its always been hard to be away from your loveones...

nakaka-praning din minsan lalo na pag walang text or tawag.... pero what a relief pag nakausap mo na sya, then assuring u how much he loves u and no one would ever replace u in his heart....

basta dapat constant nga ang communication and dapat secured ka na he`s just there waiting for u to go home....

oh gosh nalulungkot na ko... i wanna go HOME!!!

[ssaloon]

been doing it for every summer and when nag LOA sya for 6 months...sa awa ng diyos ok naman.

pero pag grad nya don na sya sa states 4 good... hope it'll work out :|