All I can say is, you have to be true to yourself and to the other party from the start. You have to show who you are and what you are from the start. You have to be open. Mahirap may tinatago then later on sa iba pa malalaman. A lot of people are easy but some just can't take such things as easy as others can lalo na kapag sa iba pa nalaman.
It's true that sometimes you go your ways to please your partner. But there is got to be a limit on how much you can give. You must know when to and when not to give in. If she/he loves you, she'll understand. It is very imposrtant that you keep your self respect...