If the girl got preggy...

[Lucius]

What will you do if your longtime/new/whatever girlfriend got pregnant? What if she decides to have it aborted. What will you do? What will you think of her?

Kung ako tatanongin, I want the kid. If she had it aborted, I'll shoot her in the head. Pero kung galing sa ex nya, well wala na magagawa. Past is past. I will just try to understand her situation if she has priorities. Won't judge her as she deserves a second chance just like everybody else.

Kayo? What's your take on this?

[BackSpace]

Simple answer buhayin ang bata..kung ex nya naka buntis buhayin pa rin walang kasalanan ang bata para sya patayin

[Lucius]

Say pina-abort ng girl. It was her decision? Ano magiging reaction mo? Would you still accept her?

[the_wildthing]

1. GF got pregnant. Ang tanong, sino ang ama?

2. I am pro-life so I'd persuade her not to go for an abortion. Puwede namang adoption.

3. Kung tapos na, napa-abort na niya, wala na akong magagawa. I am not God. That's between them. Will I accept her? Yes.

[BackSpace]

its a big NO pag nalaman ko pina abort nya. kung nagawa nya yon once pwede nya gawin ulit

[Lucius]

What if she tells you that she's ready for what God will do to her in the future, that she already asked God for forgiveness? Will this confuse you, or will you accept her for what she is now and not for what she was before and the things that she did?

[the_wildthing]

What if she tells you that she's ready for what God will do to her in the future, that she already asked God for forgiveness? Will this confuse you, or will you accept her for what she is now and not for what she was before and the things that she did?

God will not do anything to her in the future because she has been forgiven, if in fact she did ask for forgiveness. (I'm assuming she's Catholic and went to confession.) It will not confuse me. Yes, I will accept her for what she is now. Past is past. We are all human. And everybody makes mistakes.

[b1rken5tock]

Say pina-abort ng girl. It was her decision? Ano magiging reaction mo? Would you still accept her?

it is her body, it is her decision...

[Airwalk]

Say pina-abort ng girl. It was her decision? Ano magiging reaction mo? Would you still accept her?

depends kung gaano ko siya kamahal. pero i would definitely not shoot her in the head..

[GlennSter]

hmmmmmm....this looks familiar.herherher

anyway. Tama sila borther. It's the woman's body and it will always be her final decision.

all that you can do is support her in any way. kung gusto niya ituloy, support her with everything she needs. kung gusto niya ipalaglag kahit na ayaw mo talaga, drive her to the clinic and be there to support her.

wala tayong say jan.

[jvdejesus05]

Simple answer buhayin ang bata..kung ex nya naka buntis buhayin pa rin walang kasalanan ang bata para sya patayin

same here!!!

[VtEC]

What will you do if your longtime/new/whatever girlfriend got pregnant? What if she decides to have it aborted. What will you do? What will you think of her?

kakakilabot yan bro lucius.she may opt for the abortion, why not.but by doing so, the guilt feeling will haunt her for the rest of her life.now here is the irony, the boy should be the one to be held liable for getting the girl preggy but the bulk of the problem is now shouldered by the girl.

[XTO]

She needs a thorough counseling not to do that. All of her close relatives and friends including the current bf should do their part. NO TO ABORTION

[vinj]

The thought of right-out abortion is purely selfish (and i think it is the usual first reaction). Before anything, one should see a doctor, inform your family, even if it is hard (at the end of the day, they are the best support group) and undergo counseling. I was in a similar situation before and i did everything to convince and show my support... it was the support of family and the counseling that helped her through that initial phase.

She has to think of the consequences: What if the abortion was unsuccessful and the baby is born with defects brought about it? Being a parent myself, i can just shoot people who consider such thoughts without first considering all the possibilities. If she can't raise the baby, there are other qualified couples who are willing to adopt.

[pup2]

She needs a thorough counseling not to do that. All of her close relatives and friends including the current bf should do their part. NO TO ABORTION

Regardless of the dad, as long as she was in her right mind when she aborted, I'd think she was a super selfish bi*atch and dump her.

[dennisplegaspi]

thou shall not kill...

yung ang commandment...

buhayin ang bata. d nya alam ang pinaggagagawa nating mali kung sakaling ma-involve tayo sa ganito.

[marga25ph]

Cguro sa mga taong nabuntis lalo n kng di planado eh sasagi sa isip ang abortion pero ang tanung n dapat niyang sagutin eh kaya kayaniyang matulog knowing na nagpalaglag sia una wla nman kinalaman yng bata pangalawa pumasok k sa ganyang sitwasyun i guess dapat ready ka di puro sarap klng kng ayaw niya ng responsibilidad I guess pwdeng pa adopt.

[chilli]

Cguro sa mga taong nabuntis lalo n kng di planado eh sasagi sa isip ang abortion pero ang tanung n dapat niyang sagutin eh kaya kayaniyang matulog knowing na nagpalaglag sia una wla nman kinalaman yng bata pangalawa pumasok k sa ganyang sitwasyun i guess dapat ready ka di puro sarap klng kng ayaw niya ng responsibilidad I guess pwdeng pa adopt.

yes true, if the baby can choose siguro, why would they even choose parents na ipapa abort lang sila di ba. wala naman kinalaman ang mga bata eh.

[ghosthunter]

What will you do if your longtime/new/whatever girlfriend got pregnant? What if she decides to have it aborted. What will you do? What will you think of her?

Kung ako tatanongin, I want the kid. If she had it aborted, I'll shoot her in the head. Pero kung galing sa ex nya, well wala na magagawa. Past is past. I will just try to understand her situation if she has priorities. Won't judge her as she deserves a second chance just like everybody else.

Kayo? What's your take on this?

Her body, her decision. If its your kid growing inside her, you can talk to her if she would agree with your to keep it. Otherwise you have to respect her decision.

[HyBrideVo]

How do you guys know if the baby she's bearing is yours not somebody else's? *insert jerry springer music*

I think the best solution here is wait for it to be born then have a DNA test. If lab results show that it's really yours then take the child away from her and raise it on your own if she doesn't want to keep it. But have a written agreement or a contract of some sort so it's legal and in black & white you don't want to have problems down the road when she starts claiming the child.

Now, IF the lab test is negative and no trace of your DNA can be found not even a single drop on that child then run away as fast as you can and don't ever look back :bwahaha:

MOVE ON and find a another girl...