doc naman, that's worse than the grocery reply
That's exactly what I thought when she showed me the screenshot. Yung siya pa mang lalasing at bakit dinate MO KO. I had to make her realize that, initially kilig pa siya dyan and did not get the grocery reply is sort of an insult
I think that's a polite way na kasi ibabalik mo sa kanya yung "burden" ng tanong siya. She put the guy on the spot. She said she only did what I do with guys pero mali naman pasok niya because the guy did NOT ask her on a date, nakikipag biruan lang
Kung mag chat sila 2 or 3 times a year na siya pa naginitiate most of the time. Pero since she added him on FB naginitiate na din yung guy but I think he is only using her for ego boost kasi ang tagal pa rin ng reply
Papasa si uls kasi may work, yung cousin ko na good catch naman, ni reject dahil walang job![]()
Napikon ako kanina because apparently she is still ANALYZING and THINKING HOW TO REPLY to this guy. WTF. I told her CUT TIES but then when the guy initiated again, she was asking me how will she reply. I told her wag na but if she wants, one line lang yung WHEN
Then she messages me again na paano daw niya malulusutan yung question nung 09:32 am. Napikon ako and told her, what is there to think about, just reply "None" or "wala". It means GUSTO PA RIN NIYA WTF!!!! Have some self respect OMG!!! BTW she did delete her old messages, didn't know that FB sends notifications when you delete old messages?
Magkaka ganyan siya dahil lang Atenista at "maganda work" nag second degree and master's in a diploma mill school (sorry that's how I see it) Anomaly nga yung guy. He does NOT sound Atenean at all. Jejemon mag text! Autopass sakin yung kinababaliwan niya. I can't deal with people that can't type full words, this isn't the 90s anymore!
Sabi niya she replied "wala" and the guy just had a laugh emoji
The guy does NOT EVEN NOTICE THAT SHE IS COLD or chooses to ignore it![]()
TSIKOTEERS: Hindi ba halata yan one line replies e cold na compared to her machine gun replies in the past
Last edited by _Cathy_; February 17th, 2023 at 11:42 PM.
if the guy is sensitive enough to notice the coldness of the 1-word reply, he just laughed it off
he still knows He Huang likes him
it will take more than that to convince him ayaw na sa kanya
if He Huang no longer replies to his future messages it will become clear to him
ang tanong kaya ba ni He Huang magtiis hindi magreply
Last edited by uls; February 18th, 2023 at 09:15 AM.
Hypothetically, if my friend stops replying, will he get challenged and try to woo her na? It seems like he doesn't care much e nag laugh react pa
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if she stops replying i don't think it would motivate him to chase her
tingin ko hindi malaking kawalan sa kanya pag nawala sa buhay niya si He Huang
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based on the story the guy only messages once or twice a year
why?
dahil di nag work ang relationship with other girls so he thought of messaging He Huang?
that can explain the time gap
si He Huang naman tuwang tuwa tuwing mag message ung guy
"maybe this time he's interested!"
but the guy is only using her as pastime habang naghahanap ng ibang girl (He Huang is the girl to message when there's a lull)
lagi open kasi si He Huang parang convenience store
Last edited by uls; February 18th, 2023 at 04:22 PM.
problem with that kind of thinking is He Huang will be constantly waiting for the guy
she's gonna waste years waiting for him
sorry if my story wasn't clear. They matched on bumble Q1 of 2021, they chatted for 3 months and in that time span 2 or 3 calls ONLY. They were NEVER MU. It was just regular chatting with a few flirtatious jokes.
The guy ghosted her after 3 months and since then SHE INITIATES once or twice a year, birthday ng guy and Christmas, the chat would be a few lines na HOURS pa ang pagitan between replies. She shows me the SS at halatang halata yung disinterest ng guy. Ano ba tawag sa ganitong conversation? Closed ended? Like she asks How are you? (open ended) ang sagot "Good! Take care!" parang ganyan
She added him on FB I think late last year, that's when the guy initiated twice, to comment on a photo. Those instances that the guy initiated, nagugulo na mundo niya, kilig na kilig and how to answer etc.
I don't know why she is holding on too much to an IMAGINED FUTURE. I admit that I also got crazy in love, si 2011 kilalang kilala mo yan and I see myself in her back then, but 2011 declared his love for me, whether it was true or not, did me favors, introduced himself to my family, almost died (though he never blamed me).
The guy was NEVER into her, I think it's only because he's the first Atenean that gave her attention. I don't know if I should blame myself na nahawa sakin e she didn't care about schools before we became friends.
Sumobra taas standards, little cousin ko bagsak sa kanya!!! An Opus Dei education isn't good enough for her I guess.
BTW, almost 3 yrs na rin siya sa bumble, she is looking too but then in those 3 yrs only 1 guy asked for a meet up si "in process annulment" pa. It blows my mind why she's not getting many matches and can't sustain it enough for a guy to ask for her number and or meet up.
Last edited by _Cathy_; February 18th, 2023 at 04:49 PM.
she put too much meaning into itShe added him on FB I think late last year, that's when the guy initiated twice, to comment on a photo. Those instances that the guy initiated, nagugulo na mundo niya, kilig na kilig and how to answer etc.
dahil nag initiate ung guy inisip niya interesado na makipagrelasyon ung guy
coz she wants to get married naI don't know why she is holding on too much to an IMAGINED FUTURE.
lahat ng nakilalang lalake she's imagining a future (di lang kay atentista, pati ka annulment guy)
kahit bagong kilala palang malayo na iniisip
like ung tinanong niya ang guy tuwing kailan sweldo ng kasambahay
she's already imagining living with the guy
we already offered many explanationsBTW, almost 3 yrs na rin siya sa bumble, she is looking too but then in those 3 yrs only 1 guy asked for a meet up si "in process annulment" pa. It blows my mind why she's not getting many matches and can't sustain it enough for a guy to ask for her number and or meet up.
maari di attractive ang profile photo kaya wala masyado matches
kung meron nag match at nagchachat na, maari may nakakaturn off sa personality niya kaya nawawalan ng interest ang lalake
Last edited by uls; February 18th, 2023 at 05:29 PM.