How to tell a guy's s3xual orientation? Straight or Gay?

[_Cathy_]

Since majority of the members here are male and I am assuming straight, can you share some signs on how to tell if a guy is closeted gay?

I am so bad at telling a person's ***ual orientation and it's scary because there are a lot of gay guys who pursue relationships with women who are clueless about their real ***ual orientation. There are also gays who blend in or make good friends with straight men without being honest about their ***uality.

There's nothing wrong with being gay as long as a person is honest with his or her ***ual orienation.