Originally Posted by
mbeige
Hello Cathy,
A few things:
1. Sa Pinas, flashing of headlamps usually means whoever flashes goes first. Nakakainis minsan sobrang kulit as if to say "do not cut my lane until I'm finally past you" which obviously means they're just too careless folks. Doing this is mostly okay when people are in the wrong spot when trying to either merge, switch lanes, or get in front of you too closely. But when there's still a good distance, that's overkill. Pagbigyan mo na, they probably do not know better. You are in the more rational mind to just let them be and avoid any confrontation.
2. Do not ever go down a vehicle when confronted by one who is obviously raging like that Starex driver. For all you know, he might have a gun and would have killed you on the spot. Never underestimate the amount of aggression other drivers can do, even if you are a female driver, even if your car has dark tint. To them, you might just be anybody, just like you think anybody can be nobody to you. Treat them fairly, but most importantly do not put yourself in harm's way. Stopping at the side of the road provoked them, so next time just avoid them completely. Don't mind if they think "duwag" ka or what. I'd rather be that than somebody who's brave but dead (which usually means stupid too).
3. If your friends tell you that you drive like a bus driver I'm sure they mean many things, but taking it at face value like other replies here is definitely funny considering they actually want you to experience road rage just because you said that. Prove them wrong.
4. Consider it this way, kung mauuna ka, somebody can be more of a threat behind you than he is in front of you. So pagbigyan mo na sila if they want to go ahead. For all I care, take his license plate down and post it here, rather than be in front and let him tailgate you aggressively or try to ram your car off the road.
We all experience road rage. You probably had a bad day, we all go through that. The key is to look forward to those days when you can drive with peace of mind, and get through the day safely.