Girl suddenly changes mind, nang-iwan sa ere ...

[isa1023]

Just late last year, there was this girl I met among a circle of friends with common interest (cars).

So we became friends, and started dating this January.

She said I was the only one she's looking forward to see everytime the group meets up.

On the car during our dates, we were holding hands, hugging, light kissing (hindi sa cheeks) and together on weekend nights, sometimes til the wee hours of morning.

Even doing PDA (without the kissing) on public commute.

Kolehiyala siya (not to mention the school) and we have some differences (ie religion, parent don't seem to like me coz of that ...)

Until last Tuesday, she said "stop na natin to" and just be back to being friends.

Biglaan eh.

Now what sucks is the fact that without even me asking, she said that those sweet moments that happened between us is just nothing ... like no deal.

At napilitan lang siya magustuhan ako.

Masyado daw ako mabilis. Nabigla lang din siya.

Ibig sabihin kahit nung siya yung unang nagpapakita ng motive to do sweet actions eh napipilitan lang siya nun?

What's with the girl?

[_Cathy_]

You probably did something that turned her off? Although I don't get why she'd get physically intimate with you and not like you. May PDA pa.

Give her a dose of her own medicine. kidding. Hingi ka payo kay Ghosthunter kung pano mo mapapaikot sa iyong mga daliri yang babae na yan I think he's an expert on how to handle women.

[isa1023]

Cathy, that's one afternoon when she's requesting me to fetch her from school so she can "already" introduce me to her friends.

I declined because I have to go to work, besides it's not even a planned date.

That same night I phone her and was at call waiting, so I asked her about it and said "... kala ko may kausap ka sa kabilang line."

Which freaked her out, to my surprise. Nasasakal na daw siya. Damn too shallow and to think it was even the first instance that I asked.

For short, we settled things on the phone (talked til 3 am).

Sana daw walang magbago (duh, like how do we do that?)...

Although I don't get why she'd get physically intimate with you and not like you. May PDA pa.

Diba? I don't get it either.

[uls]

Cathy, that's one afternoon when she's requesting me to fetch her from school so she can "already" introduce me to her friends.

I declined because I have to go to work, besides it's not even a planned date.

That same night I phone her and was at call waiting, so I asked her about it and said "... kala ko may kausap ka sa kabilang line."

Which freaked her out, to my surprise. Nasasakal na daw siya. Damn too shallow and to think it was even the first instance that I asked.

For short, we settled things on the phone (talked til 3 am).

Sana daw walang magbago (duh, like how do we do that?)...



Diba? I don't get it either.

baka naman may iba siya nameet

so she has to get rid of you muna so she can focus her attention on the new guy

then di pala niya gusto yung isang guy

so she goes back to you

[uls]

Just late last year, there was this girl I met among a circle of friends with common interest (cars).

So we became friends, and started dating this January.

She said I was the only one she's looking forward to see everytime the group meets up.

On the car during our dates, we were holding hands, hugging, light kissing (hindi sa cheeks) and together on weekend nights, sometimes til the wee hours of morning.

Even doing PDA (without the kissing) on public commute.

Kolehiyala siya (not to mention the school) and we have some differences (ie religion, parent don't seem to like me coz of that ...)

Until last Tuesday, she said "stop na natin to" and just be back to being friends.

Biglaan eh.

Now what sucks is the fact that without even me asking, she said that those sweet moments that happened between us is just nothing ... like no deal.

At napilitan lang siya magustuhan ako.

Masyado daw ako mabilis. Nabigla lang din siya.

Ibig sabihin kahit nung siya yung unang nagpapakita ng motive to do sweet actions eh napipilitan lang siya nun?

What's with the girl?

you're probably wondering -- yung mga touch touch kiss kiss na yan wala lang ba doon sa girl?

yes, wala lang sa kanya yan

girls these days pati *** wala lang sa kanila

parang handshake lang

siguro at that time, she was just following her animal instincts

siguro attracted talaga siya sayo so she would do those physical things with you

then later on she realized you're not exactly what she wanted

[isa1023]

you're probably wondering -- yung mga touch touch kiss kiss na yan wala lang ba doon sa girl?

yes, wala lang sa kanya yan

girls these days pati *** wala lang sa kanila

parang handshake lang

siguro at that time, she was just following her animal instincts

siguro attracted talaga siya sayo so she would do those physical things with you

Yeah bro thanks for being straight to the point.

then later on she realized you're not exactly what she wanted

She said every after our date, she's resolving this very issue to herself. Maybe turned out you're right ...

so she moves on

She said: "Sana walang magbabago sa treatment mo sakin".

So how's that called moving on?

[uls]

Yeah bro thanks for being straight to the point.



She said every after our date, she's resolving this very issue to herself. Maybe turned out you're right ...



She said: "Sana walang magbabago sa treatment mo sakin".

So how's that called moving on?

she's keeping you in reserve while she's butterflying around

sayang naman kung mawala ka pag gusto na niya bumalik sayo

[isa1023]

baka naman may iba siya nameet

so she has to get rid of you muna so she can focus her attention on the new guy

then di pala niya gusto yung isang guy

so she goes back to you

So do I deal with that? So to treat her next?

she keeping you in reserve while she's butterflying around

sayang naman kung mawala ka pag gusto na niya bumalik sayo

Exactly my thoughts.

The point of posting it here is actually to figure out what to do next:

1. Leave it be, stay as friends and stay the same?

(we can't avoid each other since we're in the same circle of friends)

2. Just ignore her

(ignore her text messages and don't comminucate anymore)

3. Bring a date in the next group meet-up and see her reaction

(i've already booked girls to go with me on this)

[uls]

So do I deal with that? So to treat her next?



Exactly my thoughts.

The point of posting it here is actually to figure out what to do next:

1. Leave it be, stay as friends and stay the same?

(we can't avoid each other since we're in the same circle of friends)

2. Just ignore her

(ignore her text messages and don't comminucate anymore)

3. Bring a date in the next group meet-up and see her reaction

(i've already booked girls to go with me on this)

1. stay friends, stay same, whatever she likes

2. no, just be nice to her. don't be emotional

3. not intentionally go out of your way to find another girl just to show her you found someone else. it would look too obvious you're trying to get back at her

[galant E SS]

So do I deal with that? So to treat her next?



Exactly my thoughts.

The point of posting it here is actually to figure out what to do next:

1. Leave it be, stay as friends and stay the same?

(we can't avoid each other since we're in the same circle of friends)

2. Just ignore her

(ignore her text messages and don't comminucate anymore)

3. Bring a date in the next group meet-up and see her reaction

(i've already booked girls to go with me on this)

based on your above-qouted plans, i presume that you're in love or falling in love with her. if not, why are you seeking opinion from other people? i think it's because you keep on thinking about her.

well, well, well, do you think you're already in love with her or falling in love with her? don't you want to lose her? if so, i suggest that you court her and do your best to win her heart back. otherwise, you might regret it forever.

on the otherhand, if your not in love or falling in love with her or does want to have a serious relationship, then, just continue playing with her. idagdag mo na lang sa collection mo - collect and collect and select the best. hehehe! and parang nag-di-date pa ata kayo, right? next time, make your plans/moves extreme, baka she's getting bored with you kasi hanggang kiss & PDA ka lang.

[marg]

It is highly possible she met someone interesting and wants to keep herself available.

Some girls are like that. She wants her cake and eat it too. Call it Greedy, if you will.

Pag ganun yung situation, just take a step back. Don't get emotional.

Enjoy what you can with her (e.g. keep on kissing and touching when the situation warrants) and keep yourself open to meeting other girls.

Two can play at this game. T'is the difference between a Chicks Boy and a Dork. A lesser person will buckle under the emotional pressure.

[isa1023]

It is highly possible she met someone interesting and wants to keep herself available.

It's more likely someone from the past is back. Just a hunch.

Enjoy what you can with her (e.g. keep on kissing and touching when the situation warrants)

I'll try this and if she resists, then maybe it won't work.

and keep yourself open to meeting other girls.

Am already on it ... although still feels awkward at this point

[marg]

I'll try this and if she resists, then maybe it won't work.

If you are Smooth and Cool, she won't resist. Na kiss mo na dati eh.

It has happened to me before. Eventually it didn't work out between me and the girl.

"What the Heck", I told myself, "At least I got to kiss her feel her two puppies."

[testament11]

Ang babae nga naman, magulo minsan mag-isip...

Pero eto lang, take Uls' advice. She's fishing and doing the "collect then select" method. Be casual nalang sa kanya pag may club meetings kayo. Kung aayain ka na naman lumabas, better say no and tell her your valid reasons. Pwede rin na pag-usapan ninyo ang mga bagay bagay tungkol sa inyo and it will be all up to you kung papatulan mo pa siya o hindi.

[hondaboot]

Just late last year, there was this girl I met among a circle of friends with common interest (cars).

So we became friends, and started dating this January.

She said I was the only one she's looking forward to see everytime the group meets up.

On the car during our dates, we were holding hands, hugging, light kissing (hindi sa cheeks) and together on weekend nights, sometimes til the wee hours of morning.

Even doing PDA (without the kissing) on public commute.

Kolehiyala siya (not to mention the school) and we have some differences (ie religion, parent don't seem to like me coz of that ...)

Until last Tuesday, she said "stop na natin to" and just be back to being friends.

Biglaan eh.

Now what sucks is the fact that without even me asking, she said that those sweet moments that happened between us is just nothing ... like no deal.

At napilitan lang siya magustuhan ako.

Masyado daw ako mabilis. Nabigla lang din siya.

Ibig sabihin kahit nung siya yung unang nagpapakita ng motive to do sweet actions eh napipilitan lang siya nun?

What's with the girl?

you may not like me for telling this but blessing yan bro sobra. good riddance

in fact, just add it to your escapades kasi kahit papano naka-iscore ka naman.

[CVT]

Hahaha! Iyan ang gusto ko kay bro. Hondaboot....

Always looking at the bright side....

12.1K:drunk:

[isa1023]

you may not like me for telling this but blessing yan bro sobra. good riddance

in fact, just add it to your escapades kasi kahit papano naka-iscore ka naman.

I don't get the "blessing" part dude ...



Sorry slow hehe ...

[Starex_Gold]

Nagbalik loob na kasi si OB.

Magpapaka-bait na daw siya.

Malay natin bukas pastor na yan.

[j.caine]

Just late last year, there was this girl I met among a circle of friends with common interest (cars).

So we became friends, and started dating this January.

She said I was the only one she's looking forward to see everytime the group meets up.

On the car during our dates, we were holding hands, hugging, light kissing (hindi sa cheeks) and together on weekend nights, sometimes til the wee hours of morning.

Even doing PDA (without the kissing) on public commute.

Kolehiyala siya (not to mention the school) and we have some differences (ie religion, parent don't seem to like me coz of that ...)

Until last Tuesday, she said "stop na natin to" and just be back to being friends.

Biglaan eh.

Now what sucks is the fact that without even me asking, she said that those sweet moments that happened between us is just nothing ... like no deal.

At napilitan lang siya magustuhan ako.

Masyado daw ako mabilis. Nabigla lang din siya.

Ibig sabihin kahit nung siya yung unang nagpapakita ng motive to do sweet actions eh napipilitan lang siya nun?

What's with the girl?

siguro nga takot sa commitment yung babae. na feel nya baka dun yung route nyo. gusto nya lang siguro ng companion or something[NSA?] kaya nya nasabi mabilis ka. January lang kayo nag start ng date diba? ilang days or weeks palang so i guess madali lang mag let go or move on. di ka naman ata naging masyadong emotional dun? be thankful na din kase di nya pinatagal... siguro pag mas matagal eh mas lalo kang ma attach dun sa babae...

move on... for sure makahanap ka ng iba...

this happens to a lot of people. honestly nangyari na din ganito saken - ako yung natakot or "nawala". kakatakot kase - a week pa lang eh nag "i love you" na ayun natakot ako kaya bye bye na...

guilty ako sa "friends na lang - same treatment"

[Batang Regla]

Just late last year, there was this girl I met among a circle of friends with common interest (cars).

Yan ang problema. Nahulog puso mo sa isang hustler. Tapos mahilig pa sa kotse.

Dapat sa simula pa lang natancha mo na yan.

Usually hindi nagsisinungaling ang background at kung paano mo nakilala.