just better be sure of yourself. it's a lifelong commitment. hindi yan kapag ayaw mo na eh iiwan mo na yun partner mo. it's a vow that you will respect for the rest of your life. A promise that you will keep no matter what.
after all, kaya mo nga sya pakakasalan dahil you choose her/him to be your lifetime partner. maraming trials ang marriage pero nasa inyo yun kung pano nyo iha-handle. Gudluck!!!
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May 7th, 2008 11:54 AM #41
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May 24th, 2008 01:17 PM #42What if the guy has been jobless for 10 years and he asks her GF of 3 years to marry him. The guy's parents are gonna pay for the wedding and the guy promises that he'll get a job after. He said that having a family would motivate him into earning good money. Is that believable?
(Girl is working and guy isn't)
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May 24th, 2008 01:55 PM #43^too risky for the girl if you ask me. What if the girl ask for some "motivation" for her part, ask the guy to get a decent job first, try to see how it'll work if both of you are working, give it a year, and if it turns out okay, then go ahead with the marriage plans. Getting married is a very very serious thing..
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May 24th, 2008 08:10 PM #44just a wild guess, problem nanaman ng friend mo?
Originally Posted by Cathy_for_you
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May 24th, 2008 10:01 PM #4510 years na walang work, tapos sagot ng parents ang wedding wahahaha! ano yan ipapakasal na lang ng parents ng guy para iba na ang magpalamon sa kanya ehehehe! wawa naman ang girl, siya na lang ang naisip ng mga desperate parents na pagbibilinan ng anak nilang batugan mwehehehe!
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May 25th, 2008 08:01 AM #46 Originally Posted by Cathy_for_you
Sorry Sis,- but that is plain BS.
Love cannot change a man. Sa komiks at pelikula lang iyan...
Kukuha lang ang babae ng batong ipupukpok sa ulo niya....
If he is really serious in getting a job and being responsible,- then he should prove this to himself (take note, not to others, but to himself), while he is still single....
Whew!
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May 25th, 2008 08:33 AM #47naku that was soo difficult. baka nasanay na yung guy being a professional bum Originally Posted by Cathy_for_you
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May 25th, 2008 10:45 AM #48Actually the guy's family is really really nice to the girl. Sometimes kasi it's hard to leave a person that you've been with so long esp if his only fault is being jobless. Originally Posted by yebo
10 years na walang work, tapos sagot ng parents ang wedding wahahaha! ano yan ipapakasal na lang ng parents ng guy para iba na ang magpalamon sa kanya ehehehe! wawa naman ang girl, siya na lang ang naisip ng mga desperate parents na pagbibilinan ng anak nilang batugan mwehehehe!
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May 25th, 2008 12:11 PM #49Words, words, words...what if the "motivation" didn't happened after you bore a child with him? Oh your friend pala... I would assume that he is in his early thirties. You are not marrying his parents or family, it's just him and you. Reality bites, but it bites even harder when you ignore it.
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May 27th, 2008 01:45 AM #50Yes early thirties. 14 and not 10 years na palang jobless. Would the girl be considered a B^*tch if she leaves the guy because he has no ambition? The girl also thinks that if she leaves the guy she won't be able to get into another relationship again coz she's already in her late 20's.
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June 4th, 2008 05:26 AM #51i dont think so.. its never too late to have a good and long lasting relationship.. i myself, settle down at the age of 28th ;) ...
for me ha, one of the factors to consider when thinkin of settling down is stability (both emotional and financial).. love wont keep u alive literally heheh besides, in the long run, kasama sa planning niyo na yun mga soon to be kids niyo.. payag ka bang isama pa sila sa sufferings niyo? 14yrs? that already defines him.. mukhang milagro na katapat niyan kung gusto mong magbago siya heheh kiddin aside, breakin his habits might take a while.. and on that duration, baka pinagisisihan niya na yun icinommit niya..
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June 4th, 2008 05:42 PM #53i always say: WORK MAKETH THE MAN. whether 10 or 14 years, not good. if i were the woman, id be out of that relationship as quickly as possible.
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June 5th, 2008 08:28 AM #54 Originally Posted by Cathy_for_you
in my book, she'll be considered smart for leaving the bum. late 20's? my goodness, she still have so much ahead of her.
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June 5th, 2008 04:20 PM #55grabe what does the guy do if he's jobless? sit around all day? 14years mahirap na ata baguhin yun
getting married is a big responsibility since it's not only your future but for the both of you
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June 5th, 2008 04:43 PM #56Ang buhay mag asawa ay masarap n mahirap dpat you marry for the right reasons and dpat pareho kaso ng level ng commitment minsan ang feelings madaya pero yng commitment ninyo sa isat isa n willing kau magwork ito no matter what. Opion ko lng nman po
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June 5th, 2008 07:50 PM #57Read books, watch TV, work out and help his GF with school work. The guy is mabait, patient and intelligent BUT jobless. My friend submitted er BF's resume for endorsement to her friends but unfortunately none of the companies have responded. Originally Posted by miLes
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June 6th, 2008 09:51 AM #58this thread was created almost 5 years ago. i wonder how many kids the thread starter have now??? or is he even married now?
re jobless BF. 10 years???? not even a business??? wow!!! the girl really loves the guyLast edited by fourtheboys96; June 6th, 2008 at 09:52 AM. Reason: hi
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June 17th, 2008 08:16 AM #59Haha ano nangyari sa thread na ito. Anyway, getting married changed me into being more responsible and looking out not only after myself but also my wife to be. Actually I also became more aware and concerned of my siblings and my parents.
...Ika nga nila, mahirap pero masaya. Ngayon hindi ko na masyado ma enjoy ang mga bonuses ko pero okay lang kasi masaya naman ako na may naitabing pera para sa pamilya ko. Besides, ngayon lang ako nakakaipon...before, ubos ang bonuses hindi ko alam kung saan na napunta...hehe.
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June 24th, 2008 01:53 PM #60"love is blind", ika nga Originally Posted by fourtheboys96
personally, love alone will not keep a marriage intact. . .in a case it can, it must be a hell of a magnitude of love. . .
if she loves him now even though he doesn't have a job, when they get married, she may eventually leave him because he doesn't have a job. . .economics will be definitely be involved
hay, buhay. . .
congrats, djerms!
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