Oh to add, iwasan ang sobrang self pity. Di yan makakatulong sa second chance na gusto mong mangyari. Been there, done that. It may work once, but it will never work twice.
Tsaka normal lang yan na masaktan ka. Dapat ang mindset mo is wala na kayo and both of you are seeking to fix things up.
Based naman sa sinasabi mo, may chance pa naman, pero not that big. It may take a while lang, depende sa damage na nangyari sa inyong dalawa.