hello everyone, been visiting tsikot for a long time but never posted anything. anyway I always love it. just wanna share mine.
I left Phil last 92 when I was in my 4th year in hschool to join parents in uk. I never had a gf that time pero syempre may mga nagugustuhan pero never had a time na manligaw sa sobrang busy sa school at medyo mahiyain. Now comes life here in uk, ewan ko bakit palagi ang isip ko nasa phil, maraming girls dito pero iba ang mga ugali nila sa mga naiwan ko. Sa totoo lang ugaling Pilipino ang gusto ko, alam nyo na yon. Continued my study here till I reach university. Tried to write letters sa mga nagugustuhan ko non sa Phil and they wrote back but in friendly letters.
I stayed here for 5 years bago ako unang umuwi sa Phil for a month, syempre excited. During my stay there, di inaasahang na meet ko yong dati kong classmate nong elementary grades and believe me sya ang kauna-unahang girl na na-crush-an ko nong elementary pa kami when I was 10 years old. Ewan ko why after that meeting, one day I just found myself visiting her in her house (para manligaw) sa sobrang hiyain ko di ko alam kung paano ko ginawa ito. After that halos gabi gabi nasa kanila ako hanggang sa umalis ako but I didn't ask her out for a date, kontento na ako na sa kanilang bahay kami magkita. Sa airport, sinagot nya ako.
Back here in uk again at syempre ang lungkot ng buhay dahil magkalayo kami. Di ako makatiis so after 3 months umuwi uli ako sa Phil. This time I formally aked her out for a date, first date namin was in Tagaytay and ended up having lunch at Josephine's. Before my 1 month vacation ended, we decided to get married. Ang bilis ng pangyayari. Problem happened when my parents refused to sign our marriage license dahil sabi nila di pa ako ready at bata pa ako at di pa tapos sa aking study. At the end nagsign din sila kahit masakit sa loob nila. Nagpakasal kami sa huwes without the presense of my parents.
Again, I had to go back to uk without her, ang sakit. Pati pag-aaral ko naapaktuhan hanggang sa tumigil na ako. Ini-apply ko agad sya papunta rito at after 5 months narito na sya. We had our first baby then we decided to buy our own house. Medyo mahirap pag may baby ka rito at pareho kayong nagtatrabaho but it's worth it. Ngayon ko lang naeenjoy ang buhay ko rito nong may pamilya na ako. Ang sarap umuwi ng bahay kapag alam mong may naghihintay sa yong anak at asawa mo, nawawala kahit gaano ang pagod mo.
Now, we've been married for 6 years and soon lalabas na yong pangalawa naming baby.
nice naman Wouie, pinaglaban mo ang pag-ibig ninyo!
kapag kasi dumating na ang pinakaiisa mo, wala kang magagawa kungdi sumuko sa makapangyarihan pag-ibig!
Kung nag-eenjoy kayo ng pagkabinata nyo, enjoy it as much as you can. Go out with as many girls as you can.
Advice lang, kung gagalaw kayo ng babae make sure that you can accept her as your wife if anything happens, not that you'll accept her for the sake of your child. Once you've got commitment everything changes, although you can still go out with your friends ito ay limitado.
Originally posted by Wouie Kung nag-eenjoy kayo ng pagkabinata nyo, enjoy it as much as you can. Go out with as many girls as you can.
Advice lang, kung gagalaw kayo ng babae make sure that you can accept her as your wife if anything happens, not that you'll accept her for the sake of your child. Once you've got commitment everything changes, although you can still go out with your friends ito ay limitado.
just like wouie... i've been a long time reader of tsikot but this is my first time to post.
being single is a blessing and marrying the right girl and having a family is a fullfillment off your blessing...
been 6 yrs with my GF till we got married... we we're in 3rd yr highschool when I got her "YES" we waited 'till she finishes her studies then we decided to get her pregnant so we can get married... but ain't easy cause i'm still studying then... my parents stop the financial support on me as she was, when they knew that i'm marrying.
Through thick or thin we both made the promise to handle all obstacles and we're so blessed that HE gave us a daughter that inspired us no matter how hard we were able to pass each day happily.
And during those hard times I got myself finished my studies and working at the same time. My wife finished her second course. Now we are both in stable job as she is a Public School Teacher and i'm a Systems Admin. of an ISP and we were blessed with 3 kids.
Just like many have spoken it's only when you get married and have kids to fully understand the gift of LIFE.
Enjoy have fun... but be responsible for all your actions!!!