buhay single o with commitment!!!!!!!!

FrankDrebin · April 26th, 2004 04:36 PM

Baka ma-ban ako kung eelaborate ko ng husto. hehehe

**kimpOy** · April 26th, 2004 05:08 PM

there's this cliche
"bakit ka mag aasawa? gusto mo ba isa na lang ang ulam mo? di ba mas masarap ang iba iba ang ulam"

partially correct pero dapat ganito ang frame of mind, it is true that variation is great, but what must seek is a dish that i can eat for the rest of my life.

**Bianx** · April 26th, 2004 06:01 PM

naniniwala ako na cycle yan...

imho, dapat matutunan mo munang ma-enjoy at mahalin ang sarili mo na ikaw lang mag-isa... tapos nun pwede mo nang i-share sa ibang tao yung love na yun. ang mahirap kasi kapag hanap mo agad commitment/coupledom eh ni hindi mo pa natutunan mahalin ang sarili mo at hindi mo pa alam ang mga bagay na nakakapagpaligaya sayo.

**hens** · April 26th, 2004 06:10 PM

idol na kita kimpoy!

Sorry odell, may asawa na ako at nagbago na ako.pls lang..wag mo na ako isama sa mga lakad mo...naks!:D

**odell** · April 26th, 2004 10:31 PM

Originally posted by kimpOy
there's this cliche
"bakit ka mag aasawa? gusto mo ba isa na lang ang ulam mo? di ba mas masarap ang iba iba ang ulam"

partially correct pero dapat ganito ang frame of mind, it is true that variation is great, but what must seek is a dish that i can eat for the rest of my life.

dito ako napa wow..

grabe..

ninong hens,
un benz lang hiramin ko.. hidne kita isama.hahaha.. jok

**CaRGirL** · April 26th, 2004 11:24 PM

no comment! hahaha...

hmmm... i think being in a relationship is much better, esp. for my situation na i already have a kid, syempre, i can share my good & bad times with him and my kid will feel na meron syang dad (kuno).

**rukawa** · April 26th, 2004 11:32 PM

i'm at a complete loss at my age

**27th_Faktory** · April 26th, 2004 11:45 PM

wlang ng yari sa akin, hindi ako parang c odell hehehehe peace. gus2 ko lng malaman kung family man kana anu na ang iniisip mu sa ganyan na situation.

**odell** · April 26th, 2004 11:56 PM

cargirl,
i get yah.. oks lang yan.hehehehe

rukawa. bakit?

**gretzy** · April 27th, 2004 01:55 AM

cheers to kimpoy!

**kimpOy** · April 27th, 2004 08:52 AM

thanks guys,
it is important that your spouse/partner will feel the way you do, "one dish"
dapat kaya mong i take yung bad traits niya,

you can never change a person.

and also dapat magpakasal ka sa tamang rason, ive seen many marriage failed because in the first place mali na ang reason ang pakakasal nila.

**ownertype** · April 27th, 2004 10:38 AM

Originally posted by chieffy
masarap ang may pamilya at may anak...
maiintindihan mo lang pag nandun ka na...

alam mo sir chieffy totoo yan. Nuong single pa ako di ko gets yung mga barkada ko na pamilyado. Lagi di makasama sa mga gimmick. Kung sama man sila, maaga uuwi. Tapos di ubra yung biglaang lakad or on short notice. Ngayon alam ko na kung bakit. Iba pag alam mo na may wife and kid na naghihintay sa paguwi mo. Di mo ka rin fully makapag enjoy paga nasa happening ka kasi sa back of your mind your thinking kung tulog na kaya si Baby, gising pa kaya si misis, etc. Masarap na mahirap. Again maiintindihan mo lang ang lahat pag nandun ka na...

**odell** · April 27th, 2004 11:01 AM

ngek *faktory_27.. hehehehehe

sinu ngayon ang malungkot ha?. hehehe :p

**Tha_Mann** · April 27th, 2004 11:38 AM

when I was young I thought it's good to be single forever, sarap ng buhay - gimik all u can, walang nag babawal, date d2 date duon.. until I met someone na 'nagpatino' sa kin hehe.. later on mag sasawa ka na din sa buhay binata. being married is like finding a piece of urself, it really completes me

**1D4LV** · April 27th, 2004 12:55 PM

Originally posted by ownertype
alam mo sir chieffy totoo yan. Nuong single pa ako di ko gets yung mga barkada ko na pamilyado. Lagi di makasama sa mga gimmick. Kung sama man sila, maaga uuwi. Tapos di ubra yung biglaang lakad or on short notice. Ngayon alam ko na kung bakit. Iba pag alam mo na may wife and kid na naghihintay sa paguwi mo. Di mo ka rin fully makapag enjoy paga nasa happening ka kasi sa back of your mind your thinking kung tulog na kaya si Baby, gising pa kaya si misis, etc. Masarap na mahirap. Again maiintindihan mo lang ang lahat pag nandun ka na...

amen ownertype/chieffy...

**odell** · April 28th, 2004 12:29 AM

Originally posted by kimpOy
thanks guys,
it is important that your spouse/partner will feel the way you do, "one dish"
dapat kaya mong i take yung bad traits niya,

you can never change a person.

and also dapat magpakasal ka sa tamang rason, ive seen many marriage failed because in the first place mali na ang reason ang pakakasal nila.

like nabuntis lang eh nh?.hehe.

may mga kilala ako ganun eh.. pero mas ok na un binbuhay un kesa pinapatay nila like nothing happened

**OTEP** · April 28th, 2004 05:59 PM

I'm happy with my relationship now. Three years in the making but it was all worth it. Gumana lahat ng advice ni kimpOy. hehehehe.

Sa sobrang busy ng buhay ngayon, minsan we don't have the time to talk or see each other anymore.

Pero cute din ang times na magkakasalubong kami sa operating room and we smile at each other kahit balot na balot ng mask at cap pa kami. hehehehe.

**Vegeta** · April 28th, 2004 06:52 PM

Originally posted by 27th_Faktory
anu kaya ang mas masarap ang maging single o may partner......and kung may ka relationship ka naman sometimes u wish to be single.

a lot of 'em guys tell me na enjoyin muna pagkabinata and all of that bullshiet (ang ibig sabihin, sleep around).
I would rather start enjoying my youth now with "the one" that I am going to marry.

yung iba naman, "ayaw" daw nila mag-commit.
my ass!! excuse lang nila yon dahil hindi sila marunong mag-keep ng relationship. maybe magaling sila sa approach, pero keeping a relationship? come on....kelangan creative ka talga.

basta ako, although I got hurt once in the past....willing ako mag-commit sa bago ko ngayon.
and take note.....sa halos sa lahat ng bagay, walang sinabi ang ex ko sa gf ko ngayon. height, looks, attitude, intelligence, etc. just like mine, divorced ang parents nya....so pareho kami talgang mapili when it comes to choosing partners. Hindi kung sino lang ang available. mas gusto namin na "mabakante" instead na sa wrong person or someone na hindi namin type dahil "available" lang.

the former...she had some nerve to play with my feelings.
pag nakaharap nya ang gf ko ngayon....malalaman nya ang definition ng "insecurity"

ya, sinagot nya ako noon dahil ako ang unang nanligaw sa kanya na type nya (based on looks). ako naman, nadala sa drama nya kaya nahulog ng sobra loob ko. dumating ang time na I gave her too much attention. ayun, lumaki ang ulo.
I built up her confidence; she destroyed mine.
naging dependent sya na lagi ako maghahabol sa kanya. She told me that she wanted to date other men. Pero she kept me as a friend (para meron sya balikan anytime dahil nakita nya how crazy I was over her) until nalaman nya na nahulog na ako sa iba.
ayun, the bitch won't even talk to me anymore.

silent treatment.....tulad ng ginawa nya dun sa dude na niligawan sya para ibitin dahil ginamit lang sya para pagselosin ang gf nya dahil nagkakalabuan sila ng time na yon.
Narinig ko na lang na sinagot nya yung dude na yon months after she found out na nahulog na ako sa iba. well, kunsabagay...pareho sila dependent sa magulang.
the silent treatment is not gonna work on me.
hindi na ako maghahabol. sawa na ako. tutal, I got someone way better than her now.

**frt** · April 28th, 2004 07:17 PM

Been der been dat

**odell** · April 29th, 2004 01:32 AM

sabagay.. masaktan muna dapat bago magsaya.hehehehe

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