Was at a chinese restaurant last night talking about a friend's friend's predicament.
Let's give them fictitious names. Paul and Ces have been in a relationship for 7 years now. Paul then gets to work at some company 10 months ago where he meets his younger girl supervisor, Beverly, and the two hit it off and become gf/bf since nov 1, 2008, all while Paul and Ces are still on.
Beverly knows that Paul has a GF.
Things got crazy last new year. The threesome all got together with some drinks. Now the 2 girls wanted Paul to choose between them, but he couldn't. He wanted BOTH at the same time
So now Ces left town and is living temporarily with my friend.
Now the problem is Ces doesn't want to ditch Paul, but even if Paul ditches Beverly they'll still meet daily coz of work... and before you know it they could be back at square one, secretly
So what do we recommend to Ces?