How do you tell a friend that she has dark armpits?

[Memphis Raines]

…At least without hurting her feelings

Yes I know, nakakatawa talaga but it’s a reality that I face almost everyday.

I have a dear friend na dati mataba pero ngayon she is slim na after shedding a lot of pounds. The problem is that she still has those “obese marks” from her previous figure, like dark skin is found in the back of her neck (batok) and worse, her armpits.

Mahilig na po kasi siya mag sleeveless, in fact everyday na, simply because since maliit na daw ang mga braso niya, she can now enjoy these types of girl wear.

That’s fine by me so as long as she doesn’t raise those new arms too high kasi talagang sumasakit ang panga ko sa kakapigil ng tawa ko. She doesn’t seem to notice her dark, matte brown armpits! My employees are begging me to find a way to frankly tell her, for her own good daw.

How the heck do you do that?!

She drops by the office daily because we have a lot of transaction with her company so you can imagine our daily dose.

I’m hoping that the lady tsikoters can pitch in.

[VtEC]

haharap kami sa salamin then i'll tell her/him na taas namin parehas mga kamay namin

[Lucius]

Sabihin mo manuod sya ng local TV the whole day (give her a break). Sigurado makita nya ang commercial na tinakbuhan nung boyfriend hahaha

[Memphis Raines]

haharap kami sa salamin then i'll tell her/him na taas namin parehas mga kamay namin

My wife said something similar. Sabi nya kung ako nga guy eh hindi naman dark armpits ko, sha pa kaya na babae!

[empy]

there's no way to do it without hurting her feelings. leave it be and let her enjoy the enhanced self esteem she's attained by losing weight.

maybe later on if she asks for your opinion on what else she can do, you'll find a tactful way to bring it up. but to do it on your own.... :hang:

[OTEP]

Parang may friend din akong ganyan (hindi kaya pareho tayo ng friend MR?).

I just let her be, mukhang happy naman siya sa life niya.

Pero ang hilig talaga sa sleveless!

[GlennSter]

simple....











DONT TELL HER. sa tagal na niyang nilalang sa mundo, imposibleng hindi pa niya alam yun. so if one is concerned about hurting her feelings, then just dont tell her.

[OTEP]

Tama, so let's not tell GlennSter anymore.






Joke lang papi. :D

[iamjkc]

Malamang alam na niya iyan, at sa malamang din ginagawan na niya ng paraan.

Pinili lang siguro niyang i-enjoy yung bago niyang figure. Mahirap naman kasi kung puro kakulangan mo nalang papansinin mo.

[GlennSter]

Tama, so let's not tell GlennSter anymore.






Joke lang papi. :D

hoy...may baking soda deodorant ko noh!

[b1rken5tock]

yaan mo na lang, masaya naman sya, sigurado alam nya na maitim ang undearm nya...

[chua_riwap]

Sa Pasko........regaluhan mo ng tawas.

[chuaed]

don't tell her, just keep it to yourself... because its rude if you tell her not unless your a girl and a close friend...

Sa Pasko........regaluhan mo ng tawas.

hindi makukuha iyan ng tawas... Laser katapat niyan. mas maganda pa regalohan mo ng gift certificate galing sa Belo's Clinic...

[pakupakupaku]

If you know her email (if you dont know try to probe for it, like ask her if she has a friendster or somthing) - then you can send a anonymous email asking/begging her to clean her arm up .

In the email send her some pictures to let her know that dark armpits are out of fashion. then recommend a doctor maybe she doesnt know that there are treatments for those salty looking pits.

[akal]

Tanongin mo na lang na " maitim ba kili-kili ko " . Tapos sagutin ka naman "oo....pareho tayo"

[Galant_VR_94]

Kung close friend ko sya at kabiruan ko, tatanunin ko sya kung Kiwi ba deodorant nya.hehehe

Kung di ko naman sya close friend, wala na lang akong sasabihin.

[Lucius]

Baka nung nag-beach sya underarms nya di nalagyan ng sunblock?

[wildthing]

regaluhan mo ng methathione...hehehe

[Karding]

hoy...may foot powder deodorant ko noh!

ayos! :evillaugh


pasaring na lang if you really want to.

kung gigimik kayo at tinawagan ka, at tanunging bakit ang tagal mong magbihis or mag ready:

"nilinis ko masyado armpit ko dahil napansin ko nangingitim na"



GL

[empy]

^sabi ko na nga ba maglu lurk si Karding dito sa thread na to eh....


....baka kasi maka pick up ng tips para mabawasan ang itim ng singit :evillaugh