GK, is this the same girl in the other thread?
i had been played before, nakakainis at nakakapikon, rather than get mad, i just let it pass, try to forgive and live as if nothing happened,after a year we met again tsaka ko sinabi, hehehe feeling niya laki ng kasalanan niya...
i dont get even, i get everything...!
the way to deal with players is to be aloof.
Have this im-too-cool-for-u attitude and they will become interested. I think it's the unattainability factor that stirs their fancy.
i have this woman friend whom I think can fit the description of being a "player".. a few years back, she separated with her husband (who fooled around with a younger gal). she's in her mid-thirties and still hot (if you ask me...)... ***y MILF nga eh.
one of our many discussions revolved around her saying that she just recently discovered her power over men. with the number of guys wanting to sleep with her, she can do whatever she wants but, deep down inside, she insists that she carries around the fear of being alone.
so she goes out on dates, flirts and teases them alot but, as for ***, she says she hasn't gone to that extent of sleeping with them. parang nangaakit and collect and collect nga lang talaga.
what astounds me is the range of guys nakaka-gimik nya. from 18 up to the mid-fifties!
she keeps telling me na hindi nya gusto yung iba.. kasi hindi pa daw nya nakukuha yung gusto niya talaga...ME.hehehe (I, for one, won't take the bait naman..) even after all the advances she makes on me, hindi ako kumakagat. mahirap na kasi...
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my opinion: its an issue of power.
Women like the fact that they can hold men in their fingertips. they enjoy it, so they keep doing it again, until they fall in love and get burned.
pwede rin ego. they feel the need to be a player just to prove that they are pwetty.![]()