How Do You Deal With Your Child's Yaya In Restaurants?

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Aaminin ko, yung mga first and second generation chinese hindi talaga maganda trato sa yaya pag kain sa labas.

May nakita na ba kayo rich ethnic chinese kumain sa lugang cafe, choi garden, gloria maris....etc na kasama nila sa mismong table?

Ang nakita ko pa lang eh pinakain sa kabilang table sama-sama yaya, driver at bodyguard. Pero mostly antay sa parking yung mga lalake at si yaya babae eh kasama bantay bata. (pero hindi basta kukuha ng ulam si yaya kasi may hiya factor. Antayin bigyan ng dimsum)

Actually mars is akong nakikitang ganyan.... And na pinpoint mo mga Chinese, meron ka na ba nakita mga pinoy na mayayaman kasabay nila kumain mga bodyguards and yaya sa table nila?

Hinde rin naman makakain mabuti mga staff ng mayayaman pag kasabay nila sa table. Kaya mas maganda either kumain na muna sila or hiwalay na lang table

It's not a big deal for. Kung kasabay or hinde as long as kumain na sila...and you treat them fairly, pay them what they deserve..that's it.



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[badkuk]

Aaminin ko, yung mga first and second generation chinese hindi talaga maganda trato sa yaya pag kain sa labas.

Depende din sir. Naimbita ako dati to eat at a swanky Chinese resto, 2nd gen Chinese yung amo, kasama yung driver at boy sa dinner at a swanky Chinese resto. Minsan nga yung driver na ang nahihiya, nag aantay na lang sa kotse pag pabusog na. All the while i was thinking, maporma magsuot yung driver, kaya pala -- baka di papasukin pag nag tsinelas lang ^_^


i've also heard a lot of yayas/drivers/workers say that their old amo(1st gen Chinese) were kinder than the younger generation...quite a few resigned because of that

[badkuk]

It's not a big deal for. Kung kasabay or hinde as long as kumain na sila...and you treat them fairly, pay them what they deserve..that's it.

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#retzing

Me iba kasing abusado din, lumalaki ang ulo pag masyado kang mabait.

[chookchakchenes]

Bakit pala mga babaeng chinese hindi nagpapanty kahit nasa labas sila? minsan kasi yung mga nakakasabayan naming kumain kita talaga buti na lang hindi sila nag-aahit kundi kita na yung langit

Dito sa pinas yan? Paano mo nasilip, maluwag na short or naka mini-skirt? Baka yung taga mainland yan sa quiapo or divisoria area. Ang kikinis ng mga yun, halos wala ka na makita na pores.

Actually mars is akong nakikitang ganyan.... And na pinpoint mo mga Chinese, meron ka na ba nakita mga pinoy na mayayaman kasabay nila kumain mga bodyguards and yaya sa table nila?

Hinde rin naman makakain mabuti mga staff ng mayayaman pag kasabay nila sa table. Kaya mas maganda either kumain na muna sila or hiwalay na lang table

It's not a big deal for. Kung kasabay or hinde as long as kumain na sila...and you treat them fairly, pay them what they deserve..that's it.

Nung bata ako at hanggang ngayon mas nakita ko maganda treatment ng mga rich native-looking pinoys sa mga helper nila na "super cowboy" talaga kasama pag kumakain. Pero sa mga fellow chinese ko eh talaga harsh.

Depende din sir. Naimbita ako dati to eat at a swanky Chinese resto, 2nd gen Chinese yung amo, kasama yung driver at boy sa dinner at a swanky Chinese resto. Minsan nga yung driver na ang nahihiya, nag aantay na lang sa kotse pag pabusog na. All the while i was thinking, maporma magsuot yung driver, kaya pala -- baka di papasukin pag nag tsinelas lang ^_^

i've also heard a lot of yayas/drivers/workers say that their old amo(1st gen Chinese) were kinder than the younger generation...quite a few resigned because of that

Pero in general hindi ganyan.

Yung tungkol sa yaya naalala ko talaga nung elementary ang hirap ko gisingin eh napansin nya tigas ng titi ko bakat na bakat daw kaya pinipisil-pisil nya kaya nagising ako at natadjakan ko. Eh ang lakas ng tadjak ko kaya nasintirun ako ng daddy ko kaya takbo ako sa comfort room. Nawala antok ko.

Looking back may times na bad ako sa mga yaya ko puro sigaw sa utos. Pero pag dating sa pagkain eh kwitis mga yaya ko. Kung ano kinakain ko eh ishare ko din.

[1D4LV]

we don't go out with our yayas anymore now due to the fact that my son is 14 years old and does not need a yaya. what we have now is a stay out maid that serves as a nanny for my beloved dog (my youngest kid), does the laundry and ironing and cleans the house.

but before when my kid was still young, we used to employ a yaya.... one stayed with us even before my kid was born and left when my kid was 7.... we encouraged her to put up her own because we feel that she can't be a yaya forever.... she is now one of the sales managers of avida homes and nakapagpundar na sya ng sarili nyang bahay..... ginagawa na din nyang pasyalan ang hongkong and singapore ngayon...... she still texts us and as of her text last week to my wifey, she and her son are migrating na to the US. we have tried to treat her and her son as a family. in fact, in one of our rare vacations, we took them out also on a trip to subic and booked their own rooms.

another yaya that we got from the time my kid was 7 and left us when my kid was 10 is now a supervisor of toy kingdom, sm molino. again, we tried treating her as one of our family and did took her on a trip to baguio one time.... she enjoyed the trip, had her own room and kasama pa namin sa pictures.....

the stay-in maid that we had before the current one was also treated as one of the family. in fact, we have given her a significant amount para makabangon ang family nya when they were hit by yolanda (she comes from palo, leyte). ngayon, she is now a cashier of one of the food joints sa Bicutan. she occassionally visits us and occassionally sleeps pa din sa house, pag overnight vacations kami (kilala din kasi sya nung youngest ko.....)

yung current stay out namin is kasama sa grocery budget.... we just give her 1k worth of groceries every week para may ipakain sya sa family nila..... this is aside from the salary that she is getting.

our family's mantra.... treat them as people with dignity and they will learn to appreciate the job they have..... and they also do an excellent job at home..... di porke yaya o maid sila isolated sila.

[yapoy86]

We treat my son's yaya as a true member of the family as if she is my sister. She eats the same food that we eat in a resto. She wears casual just like an ordinary mall goer and not like those typical yaya uniforms. Those who treat their yayas less are pinoy bad traits of being matapobre

[holdencaulfield]

Once sa labas ng Lugang Cafe, in-interview ng mrs. ko yung 2 yaya. Sabi nila kumain na daw sila sa fast food sa baba ng Aura. Kita namin yung mga amo ethnic Chinese.

sagwa ng pangalan ng Lugang Cafe. ano ba yan, gawa sa luga?

ang baho siguro sa loob niyan.

Depende din sir. Naimbita ako dati to eat at a swanky Chinese resto, 2nd gen Chinese yung amo, kasama yung driver at boy sa dinner at a swanky Chinese resto. Minsan nga yung driver na ang nahihiya, nag aantay na lang sa kotse pag pabusog na. All the while i was thinking, maporma magsuot yung driver, kaya pala -- baka di papasukin pag nag tsinelas lang ^_^


i've also heard a lot of yayas/drivers/workers say that their old amo(1st gen Chinese) were kinder than the younger generation...quite a few resigned because of that

may 1st gen at 2nd gen ah? parang Pajero.

iba iba naman din ugali eh. esmi ko purong chinese, okay naman makitungo sa mga maid at yaya while yung ate niya, sus ko po!

halos halikan na sa wetpaks yung yaya nila, huwag lang umalis. takot na takot mawalan ng yaya kaya wala na sa lugar yung trato. pati yung asawa niyang hongkongese OA din.

pano, binibili nila yung convenience. di ko lang naman nakikita yan sa kanila.

daming takot mawalan ng yaya dahil hindi na magagawa mga kapritso nila!

Me iba kasing abusado din, lumalaki ang ulo pag masyado kang mabait.

sinabi mo!

yung yaya dati dito pag tinatawag ko por que di ako amo, nagbibingi-bingihan.

yung mga hunghang dito halos pasusuhin nila yung mga yaya parang beybi.

tapos kung bastusin sila ganun na lang. nananakot na aalis ooferan ng celphone!

ayos!

put*ngina may call and text marathon pag humawak ng celphone. yung anak nila naiiwang maglaro mag-isa hindi na nasusubaybayan.

takot mawalan ng yaya, hindi na makakapag lakwatsa!

tapos gagawing rason yung parehas nagtatrabaho kaya pagod so ang magpalit lang ng diaper iaasa kay yaya.

bolsyet! hinayupak na, nag anak pa ganun pala sistema.

[jon777]

May nakita na ba kayo rich ethnic chinese kumain sa lugang cafe, choi garden, gloria maris....etc na kasama nila sa mismong table?

sa statement mo, NEVER ka pa nakakita? baka bulag ka....

[chookchakchenes]

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Oo never pa kasi yung mga sinabi ko eh mga family friend at acquaintance.

Chaka pag sinabi rich ethnic chinese eh rich talaga hindi yun porma lang.

[holdencaulfield]

Dito sa pinas yan? Paano mo nasilip, maluwag na short or naka mini-skirt? Baka yung taga mainland yan sa quiapo or divisoria area. Ang kikinis ng mga yun, halos wala ka na makita na pores.

pero si syury pores yung nakita.

black porest.