Aggressive driving is on the increase worldwide, often with tragic consequences In the United States, for example, unverified figures suggest that over 1,200 people are killed each year as a result of so-called road rage, one manifestation of aggressive driving. When we are confronted by a frustrating situation we often resort to aggression. This is often no more than verbal abuse. However, there are circumstances when we may resort to physical violence. For many of us driving has become one of the most frustrating activities we are regularly engaged in.
The causes of aggressive driving are many. It is likely that the cause extends beyond the immediate incident. An individual may have had a bad day at work or troubles at home. Often it may be difficult to tackle the cause of the frustration. It may, therefore, lie dormant waiting to be triggered by a driver who fails to signal or changes direction suddenly. In addition human beings are territorial. As individuals we have a personal space, or territory, which evolved essentially as a defensive mechanism. If anyone invades that space our natural reaction is to defend it. The car is an extension of that space.
So, how do we deal with aggressive drivers? Never assume an apparently aggressive act was intended as such. We all make mistakes so don't bite back. Learn from the animal kingdom - the dominant animal in a group will rarely get involved in petty fights and disagreements. Although confident in his ability to defeat an opponent there is always the risk of injury. Finally, draw assurance from the fact that if you feel someone is driving like an idiot, everyone else does also.




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