"Yaya Meals" at Balesin Island

[sientobente]

siguro na-identify ng waiter na maid yung yaya dahil naka-uniform pa. if it is, maggie wilson is a hypocrite kasi kelangan pa ipalabas na may servant siyang kasama.

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siguro na-identify ng waiter na maid yung yaya dahil naka-uniform pa. if it is, maggie wilson is a hypocrite kasi kelangan pa ipalabas na may servant siyang kasama.

[jick.cejoco]

Personally , I be a servant just pay me really good, treat me fair and follow the labor law. After all, aren't we servants of our paycheck? Some of us are servants of their car.

[shadow]

Personally , I be a servant just pay me really good, treat me fair and follow the labor law. After all, aren't we servants of our paycheck? Some of us are servants of their car.

Exactly! Never bought the idea of treating them like "family" it has always been employer-employee relationship.

If they're really being treated like a family then having them as maids or yaya to begin with is not how you treat a family member.

What do these family treating employer called their helpers' room? Maids' quarter diba? Or since they're a family sa kwarto rin nila sila pinapatulog with A/C?

[shadow]

Yun naman pala eh wala naman Sa menu kung ni-request Lang ng member na yaya meal Ang I-serve...eh baka naman kasi naka uniform si yaya kaya yun ang suggestion ni waiter Mali lang Ang pagkasabi.

[holdencaulfield]

sabi nung abugado sa chanel 7, minsan mga yaya o katulong, bilhan mo ng steak, hindi naman kinakain. gumawa lang yung resort ng tama sa "palate" nila yaya.

eh totoo naman. dun sa mga previous post ko yung mga katulong namin dati t*ngina ipagtatabi ko pa sila ng masarap na pagkain malalaman ko lang nasa lababo ibibigay nalang sa aso. meron talagang pagkain na tama sa panlasa nila at nararapat sa kanila.

yung mga driver ng mga classmates ng anak ko, mas pili nilang kumain sa tabi-tabi dahil lasang luting bahay kesa sa mga sosyaling parties kaya kung bibigyan sila ng pambili, mas oks sa kanila yun. at hindi sila naiiilang.

at isa pa ang ibibigay naman sa yaya o kaltulong eh "yaya meal" na prepared for their taste buds, hindi naman dog food o kanin baboy.

at yaya naman talaga tawag sa kanila hindi naman alipin at alam naman nila yun.

[holdencaulfield]

Exactly! Never bought the idea of treating them like "family" it has always been employer-employee relationship.

If they're really being treated like a family then having them as maids or yaya to begin with is not how you treat a family member.

What do these family treating employer called their helpers' room? Maids' quarter diba? Or since they're a family sa kwarto rin nila sila pinapatulog with A/C?

ang masama pa nun, kahit tratuhin mong pamilya, tatarantaduhin ka parin.

[_Cathy_]

sabi nung abugado sa chanel 7, minsan mga yaya o katulong, bilhan mo ng steak, hindi naman kinakain. gumawa lang yung resort ng tama sa "palate" nila yaya.

This is true. May cases na yung employer pa nahihirapan kasi masyado mapili sa pagkain yung helper. Kaya iba yung meal nila from the family, hindi dahil discriminated pero dahil iba ang gusto nila.

[ClaNker]

That stupid waiter.

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That stupid waiter.

[shadow]

This is true. May cases na yung employer pa nahihirapan kasi masyado mapili sa pagkain yung helper. Kaya iba yung meal nila from the family, hindi dahil discriminated pero dahil iba ang gusto nila.

Meron silang weekly grocery allowance din, sila na bahala mag grocery ng kakainin nila, discriminatory din yun dahil iba kinakain nila sa amo?

And besides katulong naman talaga and yaya ang trabaho nila anong mali if you treat them as such? Bakit malaking issue na kailangan family and treatment mo? If you pay them well, treat them fairly and give them all comfort for their jobs, masamang amo ka dahil hinde "family" Ang treatment mo? I just don't get it talaga.

As long as you don't abused them...it will always be a employee-employee relationship.

[_Cathy_]

Meron silang weekly grocery allowance din, sila na bahala mag grocery ng kakainin nila, discriminatory din yun dahil iba kinakain nila sa amo?

ha? Sabi ko nga hindi naman discriminated kung iba ang pagkain. Ganyan talaga ang usual practice na alam ko, may sarili silang grocery allowance. Example, sa rice ayaw ng most help ng black/brown/red. Sa bread gusto nila white din. Kaya no choice talaga na mahiwalay ang food.

[chua_riwap]

That stupid waiter.

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That stupid waiter.

Dyan nag-umpisa. Sya may kasalanan ng lahat......

[ClaNker]

Enough with the OT.

"family" is not the same as family. Wag literal, karamihan dito alam ang ibig sabihin nyan.

End the end this issue boils down to that idiot waiter. And please sa lahat ng pwedeng ipangalan sa menu eh "Yaya" meal pa ang napili.

[shadow]

ha? Sabi ko nga hindi naman discriminated kung iba ang pagkain. Ganyan talaga ang usual practice na alam ko, may sarili silang grocery allowance. Example, sa rice ayaw ng most help ng black/brown/red. Sa bread gusto nila white din. Kaya no choice talaga na mahiwalay ang food.

I'm talking in general not against your post...na quote ko lang post mo

[BratPAQ]

Wala namang inapi sa story. Let's move on. Wala ring kasalanan ang waiter as he was just implementing the clubs policy. Kung meron mang may sala dito eh yung Maggie Wilson, mali pagkakaintindi nya sa nangyari, react kagad sa social media before knowing the truth.

[SkyFlakes88]

How can be injustice? We all have our places on this earth...it's not like pinapakain ng Kanin-baboy.

Eh di dapat naka A/C rin mga maids Sa bahay dahil sobrang init ngayon is it I justice that naka electric fan Lang sila?

Sana po sir shadow intindihin din natin yun kalooban nun iba.syempre d naman kikibo sila pero kung kayo po nasa lagay nila na may ganun menu d po ba manlilit po tayo.yaya na nga estado nila pati ba naman sa tawag nang pagkain nila yaya meals ang tawag?Malayo po yun a/c at fan sa issue sir. Yaya fan po ba din tawag dun?

Masuwerte po tayo at mas maganda po estado natin sa kanila.wag naman po natin ipamukha na ganun lang sila sir.kahit po san nyo tignan kailangan din po natin serbisyo nila.yun iba nga kapamilya na turing nila sa mga kasambahay nila sir dahil sa magandang tulong na nagawa nila sa pamilya.

[shadow]

Sana po sir shadow intindihin din natin yun kalooban nun iba.syempre d naman kikibo sila pero kung kayo po nasa lagay nila na may ganun menu d po ba manlilit po tayo.yaya na nga estado nila pati ba naman sa tawag nang pagkain nila yaya meals ang tawag?Malayo po yun a/c at fan sa issue sir. Yaya fan po ba din tawag dun?

Masuwerte po tayo at mas maganda po estado natin sa kanila.wag naman po natin ipamukha na ganun lang sila sir.kahit po san nyo tignan kailangan din po natin serbisyo nila.yun iba nga kapamilya na turing nila sa mga kasambahay nila sir dahil sa magandang tulong na nagawa nila sa pamilya.

in the first place no such thing as yaya meal sa balesin ni wala sa menu nila, kung nag request lang yun amo saka nila i serve sa mga yaya... na brand lang ng waiter na yaya meal dahil siguro maraming umoorder for their kid's nannies.

I'm sure walang malice sa waiter nun sinabi niya yun to think he's "just" a waiter as well.

it's their way of accommodating their members na ayaw nga gumastos ng steak or lobster for their nannies. baka naman kung wala silang cheaper food for helps eh mag reklamo din si maggie consunji dahil steak and lobster din oorderin ni yaya, tapos automatic charge sa credit card nila eh diba nirereklmo din niya na dapat meron CC bago maka order.

mayaman naman asawa niya kaya nga niya pinakasalan eh, sana to make a point either they walked out from the resort as a sign of protest for treating their yaya unfairly or pumunta doon sa resto and inorder niya yun pinakamahal na food para sa yaya niya.

[SkyFlakes88]

Iba iba po sir reaction kasi nang tao sa sitwasyon.maybe for a lot of us ganun gagawin.walkout na.but the mere fact she went to post this story means she is not happy with the way things happened.still she stood up for the nanny. Also sir,pls refrain to comment as to why maggie married her husband because we really don't know why. Pls do not presume things that we don't know about.baka po kasi makasakit po tayo nang ibang tao.

There are a lot of kinds of injustice sir.from the simple things like this story that means sooo little to most of us but still it is injustice sir. Hope you understand sir. Thank you

[shadow]

Iba iba po sir reaction kasi nang tao sa sitwasyon.maybe for a lot of us ganun gagawin.walkout na.but the mere fact she went to post this story means she is not happy with the way things happened.still she stood up for the nanny.

no she didn't. she just ranted on social media. sana she took it up with the management...well. we really didn't know if she did dahil hinde niya sinabi but I think kung kinausap niya yun management right there and then, na explain na mabuti and hinde na kailangan mag rant sa social media.

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Iba iba po sir reaction kasi nang tao sa sitwasyon.maybe for a lot of us ganun gagawin.walkout na.but the mere fact she went to post this story means she is not happy with the way things happened.still she stood up for the nanny.

no she didn't. she just ranted on social media. sana she took it up with the management...well. we really didn't know if she did dahil hinde niya sinabi but I think kung kinausap niya yun management right there and then, na explain na mabuti and hinde na kailangan mag rant sa social media.

[SkyFlakes88]

But still sir she ranted on the social media and it's a kind of her way to let everybody know that she's not happy with what happened.maybe a very small stand but still sir she made one.

[shadow]

But still sir she ranted on the social media and it's a kind of her way to let everybody know that she's not happy with what happened.maybe a very small stand but still it sir she made one.

but shouldn't the proper way is to talked to the management first and sort out the confusion and misunderstanding? again ang sabi ng balesin its their way of accommodating their members to serve yaya meals, they also said they will happily serve if guests would order and pay steaks or lobster for their yayas but since I'm assuming maraming members nag request to have cheaper meals for their help and nannies kaya nagkaroon ng unoffical yaya meal...let's remove the word yaya sa meal...if they call it special chef's exclusive meal for distinguish family member...hinde na discrimination diba? naging issue kasi na tinawag na yaya meal ng waiter...ano ba dapat itawag para hinde discrimination?

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But still sir she ranted on the social media and it's a kind of her way to let everybody know that she's not happy with what happened.maybe a very small stand but still it sir she made one.

but shouldn't the proper way is to talked to the management first and sort out the confusion and misunderstanding? again ang sabi ng balesin its their way of accommodating their members to serve yaya meals, they also said they will happily serve if guests would order and pay steaks or lobster for their yayas but since I'm assuming maraming members nag request to have cheaper meals for their help and nannies kaya nagkaroon ng unoffical yaya meal...let's remove the word yaya sa meal...if they call it special chef's exclusive meal for distinguish family member...hinde na discrimination diba? naging issue kasi na tinawag na yaya meal ng waiter...ano ba dapat itawag para hinde discrimination?