those girls who got pregnant when they were still in school
that time people said "sira na buhay niyan"
but now makita niyo... the kids are adults na ang the mom is still young
maliit ang age gap so they look like siblings
it's cool coz the mom is young, strong and healthy tapos lola na
so many many years pa to enjoy her grandkids
makes me think mali yata ang turo to focus on studies, finish school, get a good job, then later... much later... mag hanap ng asawa
we're taught to go against our biology
to postpone mating
kaya eto may mga parents na well into their senior years na dapat lolo't lola na... hindi pa lolo't lola
They were able to bounce back pero maraming pinagdaanan yan before getting to that point. There are unnecessary pains and troubles in life na maiiwasan naman if inaayos ang buhay.
I think it's because there are more to it than finding someone and building a family. Even love is not enough sometimes (nuks). I've seen couples inlove na inlove nung kabataan nila nung nagkabuntisan at walang pera, yun puro away. Dahil puro away, yun maghahanap ng comfort sa iba. Family life is never trouble free naman, people just want to lessen the troubles by avoiding the unnecessary ones.
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My Mom married relatively late for her generation (28 yrs old) She had several miscarriages and had me in her late 30s na. Yun parati ko naiisip, kung nabuhay nga kapatid ko, masaya kami. But I'm thankful I grew up in a loving household, feeling ko nga kaya puro ako failed relationships kasi I always compare to my parents love, I want a love like thatIt's so sweet how they both feel na winner sila for having each other hahaha!
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