Quote Originally Posted by uls View Post
those girls who got pregnant when they were still in school

that time people said "sira na buhay niyan"

but now makita niyo... the kids are adults na ang the mom is still young

maliit ang age gap so they look like siblings

it's cool coz the mom is young, strong and healthy tapos lola na

so many many years pa to enjoy her grandkids
They were able to bounce back pero maraming pinagdaanan yan before getting to that point. There are unnecessary pains and troubles in life na maiiwasan naman if inaayos ang buhay.

Quote Originally Posted by uls View Post
makes me think mali yata ang turo to focus on studies, finish school, get a good job, then later... much later... mag hanap ng asawa

we're taught to go against our biology

to postpone mating

kaya eto may mga parents na well into their senior years na dapat lolo't lola na... hindi pa lolo't lola
I think it's because there are more to it than finding someone and building a family. Even love is not enough sometimes (nuks). I've seen couples inlove na inlove nung kabataan nila nung nagkabuntisan at walang pera, yun puro away. Dahil puro away, yun maghahanap ng comfort sa iba. Family life is never trouble free naman, people just want to lessen the troubles by avoiding the unnecessary ones.

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