why are men so afraid...

**krscla** · November 2nd, 2003 11:33 PM

Give him time... :D

Gi · November 3rd, 2003 12:11 AM

dory don't feel too bad. hindi lang naman ikaw ang may ganyang problema e. : ) madami tayo......

loving someone means accepting him or her for what he or she is. and that is always absolute. love doesn't ask anything in return. and also remember love is a reward in itself.

bali baliktarin mo pa ang mundo masarap pa rin magmahal ng tao.

kaya lang, mas masarap ang mamahalin ka in return..........

**gretzy** · November 3rd, 2003 12:26 AM

Originally posted by krscla
Give him time... :D

dis is d best advice here so far... :D

Gi · November 3rd, 2003 12:29 AM

in addition

yung guy siguro may mga fears and may mga insecurities

he loves you per se, pero he might be overwhlemed with the package that comes with going steady with you, i.e. the parents, the friends, dealing with school or work, etc.

segurista mga lalaki IMO.

at least alam ko ako oo
: )

**NightRock** · November 3rd, 2003 12:33 AM

Dori tanong ko lang ano ba talagang commitment ang ibig mong sabihin like what?? is he loves you regular dates kayo like normal couples.. uh seeing each other ehh ano pa ba nag kulang .. kung pinapalita naman nyan na LOVE ka nya ehhh...

Sorry di ko ma get kung ano talagang commitment ang gusto mo...(labo talga ng mga girls minsan)

angst · November 3rd, 2003 05:05 AM

to sum it up...if u love the guy more than he loves you..lumayo ka na sakit lang yan

i agree on this one.

NightRock: i think what she meant sa commitment eh ung bf/gf thing...

**Karding** · November 3rd, 2003 07:45 AM

I dont know, I can't relate to your situation dory.

GL

**Djerms** · November 3rd, 2003 08:15 AM

Gretz,
Heres another good advice..

Dory,
Yup. Give him time...

**pissword** · November 3rd, 2003 08:55 AM

uhhmm... dory wag mo madaliin.. give him time. i mean bigyan mo sya ng time na marealize nya un situation nyo.

and d naman dahil u like/love each other kelangan na mag relationship agad. nakakasira lang kasi yan minsan... just go with the flow. basta ba nakikita mo na mahal ka nya, nafefeel mo din, ok na yan kesa sa pumasok kau sa relationship tas halfbaked lang pala feelings nya. eventually sya naman bibigay if serious sya eh...

if ndi pa rin nagbago, i dont think serious sya.. wag ka magdepend sa sinabi nya...look at his actions din

bolero marami sa guys, kaya dapat sa actions ka tumingin. mahahalata mo naman. gudluck

**1D4LV** · November 3rd, 2003 09:08 AM

imho, men are afraid of committment dahil most men are afraid in losing their freedom.

pero excempted ako dito sa case na to. i had committed and married my wife at age 22.