Why do men tell lies? Half truths are half lies.

[Monodon]

i agree with m54 powered. heard jim carrey say that in LIAR LIAR.

[BlueGirl]

those can also be applied to girls. vice versa lng.

i agree...

minsan kasi may mga bagay na mahirap sabihin in a polite way para lang hindi makasakit...although ang mga girlz minsan mas gusto pa maging straight forward nalang sa kanila kesa magpaligoy-ligoy pa kasi meron mag types na umaasa...meron naman na kahit alam na ayaw sa kanila eh umaasa parin...kaya un...

[Mossimo_63_777]

patay tayo diyan.....guys na may ganito gawa kailangan magiba ng tactics basa na galaw ninyo....hehehe ( do ako kasama jan ).

[GerardTagayty]

sorry nabuhay ang thread na ito. i was looking for a thread bout turbo chargers and super chargers and i stumbled upon this thread. hehehe! affected? anyhow im just defending all us nice guys who fall victim to the stereotipical hole.

i think a lot of the translation (sa opening and start ng thread) are all assumptions. a lot... i think whichever way a guy would say it masama pa rin kame? ex. "its not you, its me" how do you want us to say it? "ikaw kase!" "kasalanan mo naman talaga e" "its all your fault!" wouldnt that hurt more?
another "ill give you a call" women use this more than men do(based on experience, loser? lol) a guy wouldnt ask for a girls phone number if hes not interested in you not unless you forced him into getting it. so this means one should not EXPECT for a call back because he was just obliged in the first place so girls... no expectations not our fault....

no offense meant... just my 2 cents peace!

[MaNgo_Crepe]

Aba gerger, husay ah...may pagka-makata ka pa ha....Eto tanong ko: When can LIES be TRUTH? .....hala sagot

[GerardTagayty]

tulad nga ng sabi ko sayo mam... hehehe! if a guy lies to you straight up it can never be the truth kahit pilipitin mo leeg nun "sinungaling" hehehe... sometimes it takes one to know one... hehehe...

[evs_13]

2 basic reasons why men tell lies or half truths

1. so as not to hurt their partner...
tagalog translation: para wag masaktan ang damdamin ng mahal nila

2. so that they won't get hurt ....
tagalog translation: para wag silang masapak ng kumander nila

hehehehe, mahirap yata masapak ng kumander...

[MaNgo_Crepe]

Policy ko..."What i don't know wont hurt."

[Jun aka Pekto]

All those quotations would be BS stuff to me. I mean, they're fine for many people. But, my approach is the direct approach.

When I was courting my wife, I bluntly told her, "I'm looking for a wife to spend the rest of my life with. Will you marry me? If you don't say NO, then everything else you say I'll interpret as a YES."

When we want to fool around, I don't beat around the bush. The most oft-remarked phrases in my repertoire (which I got from someone else) is, "I'm going to take a bath. When I get done, I want to see you nekkid, lying down, and spread out."

She may take all my money and keep me on a short leash. But, when it's time for me to take charge, I take charge. No lies, no half lies, no BS.


Add: If what I'm going to say hurts, tough sh*t. It'll only hurt more if you lie or spice it up. There's nothing better than telling the truth plain and simple.

[GerardTagayty]

^^^ i wouldnt agree more sir! amen to that!

[nerbyoso]

what you dont know wont hurt you.

[tsupermario]

ignorance is bliss...

[empy]

i know i replied to this thread already, pero may dagdag ako:


men tell women lies because they want to have *** with them. either to make them want to sleep with you for the first time, or not make them mad so they continue to sleep with you

[Jun aka Pekto]

i know i replied to this thread already, pero may dagdag ako:


men tell women lies because they want to have *** with them. either to make them want to sleep with you for the first time, or not make them mad so they continue to sleep with you

Hmmm. As I recall from past experience, if the girl doesn't make any subtle moves (such as rub her toes lightly against your leg or if you two are walking with her so close you could feel her boob and you have the warm fuzzies), you're not getting any no matter what you tell her. Why complicate matters by lying? Sooner or later you'll slip and let the truth out and then, "Ooooops".

[CVT]

Men are, by nature, a polite(aka cunning ) breed,- so that's why....

:starwars:

[cutedoc]

as much as possible i try not to lie, in as much that i could i only tell the truth, sometimes i tell partial truth, not half lies=)

for example i went to a bar along with my barkada and i met sumbody at the bar...

story:i went out with my friend, we had dinner and drink some at the bar, it was a new bar the crowd was ok, and there were several familiar faces at the bar as well, they serve nice shooter and the ambiance was great. (the end)

did i lie? no=)
i just didnt tell all=p

[usokpower]

sigh....:balloon: And women say they mature faster than men.

[Jun aka Pekto]

Well let's see. When I returned here, I was single with no girlfriend. I told potential dates right away that I'm not tall, I'm not handsome, I'm not rich, and I don't care much for flashy stuff. But in all honesty, what she sees is what she gets.

I figured that would drive most women away and I was right. I also took into account that whoever's left must be genuinely interested in me. I was right on that part too which was surprising. I had a very pretty Midwestern caucasian girlfriend for a very long time. I would've married her too if it wasn't for a last-minute intervention by my wife's aunt.

Lying adds pressure because you have to live up to that lie plus you also have to be on guard to maintain that lie. I didn't want any of that. I've seen enough of it in the Philippines. I had the "torpe" syndrome in the Philippines because I wasn't quite sure I could meet the expectations of the Pinay women I liked back then (and they had some mighty high expectations). Here, I had a fresh start and maintained the direct/honest approach. I took the time to re-establish myself here and gain more maturity. So, by the next time I dealt with another Pinay (my wife), I was more than confident of meeting her expectations. Of course, I wasn't prepared for what happened after she moved in with me.

[giopopo46]

tama the truth hurts i remember telling a girlfriend that i have to work on sunday actually im meeting my other gf. to make long story short what goes around comes around and it hurts. SO i promise to be good person no fooling around and happy ever since. Never tell her anymore lies even it hurts. (i have new gf we've together mga 2 half yrs na )