i wont ever marry for a kid...pero hirap salita ng tapos...
and yes, nobody admires anyone in the situation...

and of course, IMO the guy is not worthy for the love of the latter gal,
if he's vulnerable sa mga katulad ni 1st gal, eh marami pa syang makikitang ganyan.
at maraming beses pa sya magkakamali.

mi dos centimo amigo ;)