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[_Cathy_]

Talked to my SO and I'm pissed. I hope he is only making me jealous but he said there is this girl seducing him and he said she almost looks caucasian.

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Talked to my SO and I'm pissed. I hope he is only making me jealous but he said there is this girl seducing him and he said she almost looks caucasian.

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You're pissed because he was successful in making you jealous over the other girl? Pissed over what?

Are you falling for him all over again? Congrats

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[_Cathy_]

You're pissed because he was successful in making you jealous over the other girl? Pissed over what?

Are you falling for him all over again? Congrats

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Pissed because that's almost good as saying he finds her better looking. The lower the Filipino blood kasi the more attractive for him.

But I have to admit that I am warming up to him. Maaasahan naman kasi siya.

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Pissed because that's almost good as saying he finds her better looking. The lower the Filipino blood kasi the more attractive for him.

But I have to admit that I am warming up to him. Maaasahan naman kasi siya.

Eh di congrats nga Cath!

Maybe he's the person na makakasama mo while taking care of your elders. You've been wishing for someone like that di ba?

Apektado ka. So effective sya. Parang chess lang yan. He did his move. Your turn

Baka ma Gambit's move ka nyan

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Eh di congrats nga Cath!

Maybe he's the person na makakasama mo while taking care of your elders. You've been wishing for someone like that di ba?

Apektado ka. So effective sya. Parang chess lang yan. He did his move. Your turn

Baka ma Gambit's move ka nyan

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"mom, i'd like you to meet ... here... he's... officemate..."
"ah! officemate ba kamo? akala ko, lahat ng mga dati mong kaibigan ay nagsilayas na at iniwan kah... so sino ba talagah yan?"

[_Cathy_]

I reacheduled my immigrant interview at the embassy. I hope it gets granted.

My whole time is devoted to taking care of my second Mom. I don't even have time for myself anymore. Pero minsan matigas pa din ulo re her health. It makes me wonder if she realizes my sacrifice. I sleep 3 hrs a day and I don't know how long my body can take so little sleep. Mahina na reflexes ko driving kasi kulang sa tulog

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I reacheduled my immigrant interview at the embassy. I hope it gets granted.

My whole time is devoted to taking care of my second Mom. I don't even have time for myself anymore. Pero minsan matigas pa din ulo re her health. It makes me wonder if she realizes my sacrifice. I sleep 3 hrs a day and I don't know how long my body can take so little sleep. Mahina na reflexes ko driving kasi kulang sa tulog

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Mag BF ka na kasi, lower mo na yan standards mo.


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I reacheduled my immigrant interview at the embassy. I hope it gets granted.

My whole time is devoted to taking care of my second Mom. I don't even have time for myself anymore. Pero minsan matigas pa din ulo re her health. It makes me wonder if she realizes my sacrifice. I sleep 3 hrs a day and I don't know how long my body can take so little sleep. Mahina na reflexes ko driving kasi kulang sa tulog

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hire a caregiver! para naman makatulog kayo nang mas matagal.

so who's gonna take care of the old 'uns, if and when you immigrate?

[_Cathy_]

Mag BF ka na kasi, lower mo na yan standards mo.


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How will having a BF help in my case? Mahirap ma attract after ko matikman yung pagmamahal ni crush (lalim ba?)

But my Mom said the same, naawa siya sakin because I don't even have time for myself anymore and I don't even have a BF daw. Si SO nga,he has to beg for us to see each other. Hilong hilo na nga ko, umiiyak na lang ako while driving from sheer exhaustion. I'm very lucky my boss allows me to work from home and come in the office for a few hours lang when needed.

hire a caregiver! para naman makatulog kao nang mas matagal.

so who's gonna take care of the old 'uns, if and when you immigrate?

We can't even find a maid much more a caregiver. She is 100% functional. It's just that she is not allowed to walk so she has to stay in bed except when going to the bathroom. If she weren't hard headed, things would be easier, for example, oras ng inom ng gamot, hindi pa niya magawang sundin. I have to prepare her medicines, iinumin na lang kailangan bantayan pa because if you don't remind her she won't take it. Doctor told her to make sure she is hydrated. I have to check on her every few hrs and make sure she drinks water because otherwise she won't. Those little things add up sa stress.

I'm taking her to the best doctors and getting the most expensive treatment I can afford to get her well fast. Hindi ako makaaalis pag hindi siya magaling.

Yung 90+ yr old Lola ko, she knows how to take care of herself. She monitors her BP, takes her medicines on time and follows the doctor's order to the T. How I wish my second Mom could be like that, if she would only be cooperative.

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How will having a BF help in my case? But my Mom said the same, naawa siya sakin because I don't even have time for myself anymore. Si SO nga,he has to beg for us to see each other. Hilong hilo na nga ko, umiiyak na lang ako while driving from sheer exhaustion. I'm very lucky my boss allows me to work from home and come in the office for a few hours lang when needed.



We can't even find a maid much more a caregiver. She is 100% functional. It's just that she is not allowed to walk so she has to stay in bed except when going to the bathroom. If she weren't hard headed, things would be easier, for example, oras ng inom ng gamot, hindi pa niya magawang sundin. I have to prepare her medicines, iinumin na lang kailangan bantayan pa because if you don't remind her she won't take it. Doctor told her to make sure she is hydrated. I have to check on her every few hrs and make sure she drinks water because otherwise she won't. Those little things add up sa stress.

I'm taking her to the best doctors and getting the most expensive treatment I can afford to get her well fast. Hindi ako makaaalis pag hindi siya magaling.

Yung 90+ yr old Lola ko, she knows how to take care of herself. She monitors her BP, takes her medicines on time and follows the doctor's order to the T. How I wish my second Mom could be like that, if she would only be cooperative.

You'll have someone na makakasama mo, If he's willing to go through that responsibility with you. Then he's the one.

Like pwede siya mag hatid sa doctor's appointment if you're not available, etc.


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[_Cathy_]

You'll have someone na makakasama mo, If he's willing to go through that responsibility with you. Then he's the one.

Like pwede siya mag hatid sa doctor's appointment if you're not available, etc.


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Then I would have to have a BF that doesn't have an 8 to 5 job. But even if I had a BF, I won't expect him to do that for me. A husband can do that because you live in one house, pero BF malabo.

Siguro yung emotional support ang importante and knowing he is there when I need him, but as much as possible ayokong maging abala sa BF ko.

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Hindi gagaling ang tao kung sya mismo sa sarili nya ayaw.

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[_Cathy_]

Hindi gagaling ang tao kung sya mismo sa sarili nya ayaw.

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Yun nga sabi ng family ko, hindi niya tinutulungan sarili niya. Hindi ko alam kung hindi ba naniniwala sa doctor or what. Sadyang sobrang tigas ng ulo. Yun nga, pag inom na lang ng gamot kailangan pa bantayan. Alam naman niya na 8 am and 8 pm. Kanina sa pagod ko, di ko napansin 8:30 na. When I asked her kung nainom na niya sabi niya hindi pa. Gaano kahirap tandaan uminom ng gamot?

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Yun nga sabi ng family ko, hindi niya tinutulungan sarili niya. Hindi ko alam kung hindi ba naniniwala sa doctor or what. Sadyang sobrang tigas ng ulo. Yun nga, pag inom na lang ng gamot kailangan pa bantayan. Alam naman niya na 8 am and 8 pm. Kanina sa pagod ko, di ko napansin 8:30 na. When I asked her kung nainom na niya sabi niya hindi pa. Gaano kahirap tandaan uminom ng gamot?

Cath can you disclose the disease?if not ok lang. Sa akin lang I want to know kung fatal sya or not. Kung hindi naman, hahayaan ko na lang si mommy. Kasi baka na stress din sya sa ginagawa mo. She might just want to live her life as she wants it to be.

Cost benefit analysis. Baka di rin worth it yung effort mo.

In other words, ako I'll just focus on the quality of life instead of ginagamot nga pero di naman masaya yung tao. Pati ibang tao like you, affected.

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Cath can you disclose the disease?if not ok lang. Sa akin lang I want to know kung fatal sya or not. Kung hindi naman, hahayaan ko na lang si mommy. Kasi baka na stress din sya sa ginagawa mo. She might just want to live her life as she wants it to be.

Cost benefit analysis. Baka di rin worth it yung effort mo.

In other words, ako I'll just focus on the quality of life instead of ginagamot nga pero di naman masaya yung tao. Pati ibang tao like you, affected.

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i think malaki na ang nagastos ni Cathy to treat her 2nd mom

if she left her 2nd mom to her mom hindi aalagaan ng mom niya like Cathy does

so mapupunta sa wala lahat ng nagastos na ni Cathy

[_Cathy_]

Cath can you disclose the disease?if not ok lang. Sa akin lang I want to know kung fatal sya or not. Kung hindi naman, hahayaan ko na lang si mommy. Kasi baka na stress din sya sa ginagawa mo. She might just want to live her life as she wants it to be.

Cost benefit analysis. Baka di rin worth it yung effort mo.

In other words, ako I'll just focus on the quality of life instead of ginagamot nga pero di naman masaya yung tao. Pati ibang tao like you, affected.

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It's not fatal. She has a non healing wound because the veins in her legs are not functioning properly. Kaya she is not allowed to walk or stand for long periods. Nakakatakot kasi mukhang nabubulok na yung leg and I am avoiding amputation at ALL COSTS. It got infected kasi apparently pinupunasan niya ng towel na hindi naman niya nililinis Hindi naman kasi namin siya mabantayan 24/7. And recurring yung infection kasi nga pinapabayaan niya. Gusto ata niya ako pa magsabon para sa kanya

Si Dr cutie, I have to pay 2.5k to 4.5k PER VISIT and that is as often as once a week. Dr Cutie does not even charge us PF anymore, cost of medicine and materials lang yun ha. Excluding pa yung what I buy sa mercury or med rep. May treatment siya na P10k per box and that lasts only 2 weeks.

How can she be stressed out? Stress siya na I have to remind her to drink her medicine at 8 am and 8 pm? Katawan niya yun e, dapat tulungan naman niyang alagaan. Nag aaway na nga kami ng Mommy ko kasi puro tanggol at pagtatakip ginagawa ko para sa second Mom ko. Now I understand my Mom kung bakit inis na inis siya sa second Mom ko, kasi nga hindi tinutulungan sarili niya e.

[_Qwerty_]

mother in law ko ganyan din.. may wound na hindi gumagaling because of varicose veins..

It's not fatal. She has a non healing wound because the veins in her legs are not functioning properly. Kaya she is not allowed to walk or stand for long periods. Nakakatakot kasi mukhang nabubulok na yung leg and I am avoiding amputation at ALL COSTS. It got infected kasi apparently pinupunasan niya ng towel na hindi naman niya nililinis Hindi naman kasi namin siya mabantayan 24/7. And recurring yung infection kasi nga pinapabayaan niya. Gusto ata niya ako pa magsabon para sa kanya

Si Dr cutie, I have to pay 2.5k to 4.5k PER VISIT and that is as often as once a week. Dr Cutie does not even charge us PF anymore, cost of medicine and materials lang yun ha. Excluding pa yung what I buy sa mercury or med rep. May treatment siya na P10k per box and that lasts only 2 weeks.

How can she be stressed out? Stress siya na I have to remind her to drink her medicine at 8 am and 8 pm? Katawan niya yun e, dapat tulungan naman niyang alagaan. Nag aaway na nga kami ng Mommy ko kasi puro tanggol at pagtatakip ginagawa ko para sa second Mom ko. Now I understand my Mom kung bakit inis na inis siya sa second Mom ko, kasi nga hindi tinutulungan sarili niya e.

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Cathy. Dont lash on the other posters here. They are merely just chimming in.

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[_Cathy_]

Cathy. Dont lash on the other posters here. They are merely just chimming in.

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I am not lashing out.

If anything, NEVER KO TINIPID second Mom ko. I have sacrificed so much for my second Mom and for someone to imply that I am not taking care of her well enough, napakasakit nun.

Napakalaki ng respeto ko sa elderly, I am surrounded by them. And to be told opposite, nakakaiyak talaga. And honestly I am so EXHAUSTED these past few days. Sabay sabay pa problema ko, yung best buddy ko na kausap ko araw at kasama ko when I take breaks, resigned na. Sometimes I feel like I am gonna suffer a nervous breakdown.