What Are You Thinking About?

[Gumusut_Amige]

It's okay, mag enjoy ka lang putting me down if that makes you happy.

I don't think finding a partner is all about looks. If that that's the only basis, bakit ang daming pangit na may asawa?

Also, I can name several girls that are really good looking that are still single in their 30s, nakita na ni ULS yung isa and he agreed na maganda nga. Yung UF ko, who comes from a family known for their looks, mid 30s na when she had her first BF. So I don't believe that EVERYTHING has to do with looks.

ms cath, just ignore mc... he's not giving something beneficial to what you're going through!

why the thoughts it's genetics from your previous post? it doesn't adds up because you have still both of your parents and seems they're still going strong.

your mom btw should be your default refuge after the One above... the cliche' "mother knows best" is also applicable to you.
one notable quote for mom, by Richelle E. Goodrich, "moms are life's number one cheerleaders without uniforms".

i don't know you personally and have known you only here in tsikot.
mc's description of you is the complete opposite of what bro uls has described you... mestisahin, b**bsy, tall and ***y with brain to boot. needless to say... wife material.
DON'T BE SO MEAN TO YOURSELF!
just be grateful for what you have and enjoy life. don't put too much pressure to yourself coz you're still single... your time will come.
meron yatang upcoming tsikoteers EB? sigurado akong maraming pupunta pag kasama ka. why not join them, try going out from your comfort zone and explore something new. who knows your mr. right might pops out suddenly.

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[minicarph]

It's okay, mag enjoy ka lang putting me down if that makes you happy.

I don't think finding a partner is all about looks. If that that's the only basis, bakit ang daming pangit na may asawa?

Also, I can name several girls that are really good looking that are still single in their 30s, nakita na ni ULS yung isa and he agreed na maganda nga. Yung UF ko, who comes from a family known for their looks, mid 30s na when she had her first BF. So I don't believe that EVERYTHING has to do with looks.

Looks talaga cathy ang una whether we like it or not. It,s just how we are all wired.
If you say may pangit na may asawa, that only means pangit sila pareho.

So if you say they are leaving you, your old crush, now your new crush, and youre hunk European bosses are users to you, as well as that doctor ofyour mom who has a Hot wife then maybe you are really not in their league or level of looks


Sabi mo kandarapa sayo yun SO, yun tatay niya na DOM, yun mga kaopisina mo na jejemon
Then maybe you are really in their level of looks. Kasi nagugustuhan ka naman nila, ikaw lang ang may self denial on who you really are or what you really look like.

So by denying denying that, nagkakaron ka ngaun role ambiguity, you say to yourself im in the level of anne curitis, sollenn, therefore mga tipong erwann, nico dapat manliligaw mo.

Ever think na baka ang level mo lang yun sa eat bulags, wally bayola and the likes.

Im helping you cath para ma ending na suffering mo. If you can accept who are really and what God has given you and know where your place is, then you ll be happy.

[Vodka]

i think cathy also mentioned that she's kinda fat. now she calls herself "pangit" which is a relative term. i mean she can't be *that* ugly

but that's life. humans are kinda dumb creatures w/ very primitive base instincts. if you're kinda fat and not the prettiest then you should be more aggressive you just gotta compensate. and i'm sure you've got other things going for you like $$$, your intellect, kind heart, etc

[_Cathy_]

Looks talaga cathy ang una whether we like it or not. It,s just how we are all wired.
If you say may pangit na may asawa, that only means pangit sila pareho.

So if you say they are leaving you, your old crush, now your new crush, and youre hunk European bosses are users to you, as well as that doctor ofyour mom who has a Hot wife then maybe you are really not in their league or level of looks


Sabi mo kandarapa sayo yun SO, yun tatay niya na DOM, yun mga kaopisina mo na jejemon
Then maybe you are really in their level of looks. Kasi nagugustuhan ka naman nila, ikaw lang ang may self denial on who you really are or what you really look like.

So by denying denying that, nagkakaron ka ngaun role ambiguity, you say to yourself im in the level of anne curitis, sollenn, therefore mga tipong erwann, nico dapat manliligaw mo.

Ever think na baka ang level mo lang yun sa eat bulags, wally bayola and the likes.

Im helping you cath para ma ending na suffering mo. If you can accept who are really and what God has given you and know where your place is, then you ll be happy.

First of all, I never claimed to be good looking and I admit to being insecure about my looks since I gained weight. Next, don't put words into my mouth because my European bosses NEVER used me. I post only what I want to post but if you talked to my friends, you would know that it's my bosses that moved heaven and earth to get me where I am now. And that's the reason why I do NOT want to leave the bank, because they have been nothing but good to me. If I posted everything my bosses did for me, I am sure I will get a lot of criticism here.

If you are saying that crush is out of my league, ang importante pinatulan niya ko. Si Dr Cutie, he is just my crush and nothing more. He does not know that. Also, you don't know SO and his specs. He comes from a good family and he is mixed blood so he is not bad looking. I don't have to mention the specs of all the guys I dated before but don't assume that you already know me based on my posts. Si ULS lang ang may karapatan na mag analyse sakin dahil siya lang ang kilala ko ng personal at kilala mga friends ko, mga ex ko, mga dinate ko at pamilya ko.

[_Cathy_]

i think cathy also mentioned that she's kinda fat. now she calls herself "pangit" which is a relative term. i mean she can't be *that* ugly

but that's life. humans are kinda dumb creatures w/ very primitive base instincts. if you're kinda fat and not the prettiest then you should be more aggressive you just gotta compensate. and i'm sure you've got other things going for you like $$$, your intellect, kind heart, etc

Yeah, I gained a lot of weight. So does that mean if a woman is not thin it's automatically unattractive? My SO kasi, I'm lucky that he still sees me the same as we first met, but he did tell me that I need to lose weight LOL! Also, bakit si shadow he appreciates thick women!

This is what my friends said "Daig ng malandi ang maganda" LOL! But I'm really not that way. Magpapa payat na langa ako ulit than act that way

[_Cathy_]

ms cath, just ignore mc... he's not giving something beneficial to what you're going through!

why the thoughts it's genetics from your previous post? it doesn't adds up because you have still both of your parents and seems they're still going strong.

your mom btw should be your default refuge after the One above... the cliche' "mother knows best" is also applicable to you.
one notable quote for mom, by Richelle E. Goodrich, "moms are life's number one cheerleaders without uniforms".

i don't know you personally and have known you only here in tsikot.
mc's description of you is the complete opposite of what bro uls has described you... mestisahin, b**bsy, tall and ***y with brain to boot. needless to say... wife material.
DON'T BE SO MEAN TO YOURSELF!
just be grateful for what you have and enjoy life. don't put too much pressure to yourself coz you're still single... your time will come.
meron yatang upcoming tsikoteers EB? sigurado akong maraming pupunta pag kasama ka. why not join them, try going out from your comfort zone and explore something new. who knows your mr. right might pops out suddenly.

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Thanks. Wow! It really made me smile when you said my time will come, mag dilang anghel ka sana

My Dad's side of the family has bad genes, bihira ng umaabot sa 60 Ang dami ng nalagas sa family namin, kaya minsan stuck ako sa 90s kasi kumpleto pa kaming lahat, and that was the time when I thought my life was so perfect. That I didn't want anything more.

Mom ko, I love her so much but she is kinda controlling and she cares too much about what other people say. So she has a standard that I have to keep up to. Minsan nakaka pressure na din. Kaya she is in denial na I need a psychiatrist kasi wala siyang anak na damaged

I pray everyday talaga sana I can have crush back, or someone just like him. That's the type of man I see myself being with kasi, yung makakapag balik ng happiness in my life.

I don't like to go to EBs because I want to keep myself anonymous, parang ang weird lang because this where I pour all of my thoughts and then they get to see the person behind all that, e not all my thoughts are nice hahaha! Also, I am sure my haters would have a field day if they saw me and can nitpick all of my flaws LOL! I have a few members that I do plan on seeing, pero sila naman may ayaw na makita ako AHEM AHEM (you guys know who you are!)

[StockEngine]

we're all witnesses 👁👁

[minicarph]

Si uls kasi lately medyo walang tiwsla na ako sa taste nya, yun mga pino-post nya pictures ng babae dito parang so so lang. i mean I can understand uls subsob sya sa trabaho dun sa binondo, and di bs minsan yun mgs fil -chinese families nagkakagusto na lang sa mga tauhan nila coz wala eh sobrag busy. Gumaganda na sa paningin nila lahat ng nakikita nila sa mundo nila.

It happens to busy people I guessm yun tipong yun poste lagyan ng palda gumaganda na

[Gumusut_Amige]

Thanks. Wow! It really made me smile when you said my time will come, mag dilang anghel ka sana

My Dad's side of the family has bad genes, bihira ng umaabot sa 60 Ang dami ng nalagas sa family namin, kaya minsan stuck ako sa 90s kasi kumpleto pa kaming lahat, and that was the time when I thought my life was so perfect. That I didn't want anything more.

Mom ko, I love her so much but she is kinda controlling and she cares too much about what other people say. So she has a standard that I have to keep up to. Minsan nakaka pressure na din. Kaya she is in denial na I need a psychiatrist kasi wala siyang anak na damaged

I pray everyday talaga sana I can have crush back, or someone just like him. That's the type of man I see myself being with kasi, yung makakapag balik ng happiness in my life.

I don't like to go to EBs because I want to keep myself anonymous, parang ang weird lang because this where I pour all of my thoughts and then they get to see the person behind all that, e not all my thoughts are nice hahaha! Also, I am sure my haters would have a field day if they saw me and can nitpick all of my flaws LOL! I have a few members that I do plan on seeing, pero sila naman may ayaw na makita ako AHEM AHEM (you guys know who you are!)

am sure of that... however you should start having a carefree attitude.
kasi kahit anong gawin mo to be as good as you want, meron ka pa rin maririnig na mga negative against you.
you can't win them all!
seeing a psychiatrist/psychologist doesn't mean may topak ka na sa ulo. kaya nga andyan sila to give the best advise when you're down.
huwag mo ng ipaalam sa mom mo siguro yung unang visit sa kanila. sigurado akong mabubuksan din ang pananaw mo sa psychiatric treatment pag nakausap mo na sila.
sabi ko nga carefree mindset... go and join the upcoming eb!
ang sarap kaya ng feeling when you can expand your circle of friends...si jut at cvt ang mga tsikoteers na naka drop by para makipag kwentuhan over a cup of coffee dito sa aking lugar sa La Union. ang layo ang napuntahan ng mga usapan namin haha!

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[uls]

Si uls kasi lately medyo walang tiwsla na ako sa taste nya, yun mga pino-post nya pictures ng babae dito parang so so lang. i mean I can understand uls subsob sya sa trabaho dun sa binondo, and di bs minsan yun mgs fil -chinese families nagkakagusto na lang sa mga tauhan nila coz wala eh sobrag busy. Gumaganda na sa paningin nila lahat ng nakikita nila sa mundo nila.

It happens to busy people I guessm yun tipong yun poste lagyan ng palda gumaganda na

huy masyado stereotype naman yan intsik = binondo di naman ako taga binondo

[minicarph]

dba nga sa binondo kayo una nag-meet ni Cathy nag Hapchan kayo tapos ang milk tea. bat ba kayo nag-meet nun? blind date ba dapat yun tapos wala kayo chem. so friends friends na lang

[minicarph]

First of all, I never claimed to be good looking and I admit to being insecure about my looks since I gained weight. Next, don't put words into my mouth because my European bosses NEVER used me. I post only what I want to post but if you talked to my friends, you would know that it's my bosses that moved heaven and earth to get me where I am now. And that's the reason why I do NOT want to leave the bank, because they have been nothing but good to me. If I posted everything my bosses did for me, I am sure I will get a lot of criticism here.

If you are saying that crush is out of my league, ang importante pinatulan niya ko. Si Dr Cutie, he is just my crush and nothing more. He does not know that. Also, you don't know SO and his specs. He comes from a good family and he is mixed blood so he is not bad looking. I don't have to mention the specs of all the guys I dated before but don't assume that you already know me based on my posts. Si ULS lang ang may karapatan na mag analyse sakin dahil siya lang ang kilala ko ng personal at kilala mga friends ko, mga ex ko, mga dinate ko at pamilya ko.

sabi mo kamuka ni Lucky Manzano yun crush mo. and yun naman SO mo. oo pwede me lahi kastila, dami naman ganyan dito. pero hinde naman porket may lahi. eh gwapo na, si Niky ba ano tingin mo sa kanya? may lahi kastila yun diba, guwapo ba sya para sayo. madami din lahi kastila dito so so lang.

ang problema kasi sa iba natin kababayan, basta may lahi lang gwapo nasa kanila. hinde na hinde na ngaun age nato. minsan nga yan mga may lahi na yan ang laki ng ilong pangtanda, yun tipong sobrang tangos pero kaya humigop ng ramen


now back to topic, if two crushes dumped you, then im pointing out baka you're are not in their league, and dun ang talagang ugat ng sufferings / depression mo coz you are forcing yourself on these level of people

say ako, nagagandahan ako kay anne curtis. pero even if Im gym fit body and I get a lot of flirtation sa ibang ibang babae sa gym. I know that Im not in their league, anne curtis and others. alam ko kung san ako lulugar, so Im happy. Im confident with myself. and Im free of insecurities

[uls]

dba nga sa binondo kayo una nag-meet ni Cathy nag Hapchan kayo tapos ang milk tea. bat ba kayo nag-meet nun? blind date ba dapat yun tapos wala kayo chem. so friends friends na lang

NGEK

saan mo napulot ung nagkita kami sa binondo?

[StockEngine]

best in class tsikot member: minicarph

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I love you mini. [emoji23] [emoji8]


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[madball]

lmao laugh trip sa mga post niya

[_Cathy_]

OB, saan mo napulot na sinabi kong kamukha ni Lucky Manzano si crush? Di hamak na mas guapo si crush kay Lucky. Panoorin mo yung revenge sa Netflix, si Kevin Janssens, ganyan ang vibe ni crush.

I don't know what kind of emotion you are trying to evoke on me, you are spinning things around to make me snap, napakalayo sa katotohanan ng mga sinasabi mo. Pinapalabas mo that I go for men that are out of my league, pero sa lahat ng relationships ko, si crush lang naman ang alam ng Tsikot from start to end. May mga bagay din na hindi na dapat kinu kwento kaya hindi lahat alam niyo.

NGEK

saan mo napulot ung nagkita kami sa binondo?

Hindi ko rin alam saan niya napupulot mga storya niya hahaha!

am sure of that... however you should start having a carefree attitude.
kasi kahit anong gawin mo to be as good as you want, meron ka pa rin maririnig na mga negative against you.
you can't win them all!
seeing a psychiatrist/psychologist doesn't mean may topak ka na sa ulo. kaya nga andyan sila to give the best advise when you're down.
huwag mo ng ipaalam sa mom mo siguro yung unang visit sa kanila. sigurado akong mabubuksan din ang pananaw mo sa psychiatric treatment pag nakausap mo na sila.
sabi ko nga carefree mindset... go and join the upcoming eb!
ang sarap kaya ng feeling when you can expand your circle of friends...si jut at cvt ang mga tsikoteers na naka drop by para makipag kwentuhan over a cup of coffee dito sa aking lugar sa La Union. ang layo ang napuntahan ng mga usapan namin haha!

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I'm seriously thinking of seeing a psychiatrist for myself pero natatakot ako to do things behind my parents back. I have a belief kasi na yung mga sumusuway na magulang napapahamak Very much opposed ang Mom ko talaga that I see a psychiatrist, bukod pa sa napakamahal ng psychiatrist. hahaha! Yung staff ng BFF ko, there are a handful who are seeing psychiatrists at P2500 daw ang PF, once a week yun, yung sa kanila naman parents nila nagbabayad.

La Union (North) is one of the places that I dream of going. I'm not so much a travel person but the North is one of the places I want to see before I die. Mga friends ko kasi wala naman gustong magdala ng sasakyan going North, ayoko din naman magdala ng auto. hahaha! Family ko naman pag nagt travel, sila silang mga oldies na magkakasama. Gusto ko din makita yung patapat (?) road, it's so picturesque.

Thanks for being so kind to me. Konti na lang kayo na mabait at may concern pa to a stranger like me. I do think you are a nice person in real life And I think you make good coffee? :P

[CVT]

ang sarap kaya ng feeling when you can expand your circle of friends...si jut at cvt ang mga tsikoteers na naka drop by para makipag kwentuhan over a cup of coffee dito sa aking lugar sa La Union. ang layo ang napuntahan ng mga usapan namin haha!

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You're one of the better persons bro to share the afternoon over a cup of coffee and talk about anything under the sun, including the latest news in town....😎😍😉

Worth the drive to your place...

Hope to be back soon....

[CVT]

nakasubok ka na ba ng albularyo, bat di mo pa gayuma

Landyo, sino iyan bro? Si Mang Kepweng?...😍😎

ganun kuya big, dba pwede buhok na lang sa binti

Mas mabisa bro kung tutsang ang igisa mo... 😉😊

Kamuntik ko nang maibuga ang mainit na kapeng iniinom ko..... Landyo ka bro...😁

[ninjababez]

I had long term relationships and I dated a lot in my teens up until my early 20s pero lahat FAIL. And that's one reason why I am so frustrated. Bakit may mga tao na they marry their first BF or GF, that was what I wanted for myself. I'm tired of all the heartaches.

Wala akong magagawa kung tingin mo sakin pangit. mataba at walang nanliligaw .

how much is a LOT cathy?
were they all alphas? or maybe you thought they were, tapos hindi pala so ayaw mo na?