What Are You Thinking About?

**dr. d** · March 7th, 2021 07:59 PM

Originally Posted by Walter

One can always have friends as families with lesser drama ...

When there's a lot of money involved and there's perceived unequal distribution of it, there's usually drama ...

the problem arises when some people feel that they are more equal than the rest.

**BratPAQ** · March 7th, 2021 08:01 PM

Originally Posted by _Cathy_

There's too much drama in our family. I'm getting tired of it na. How I wish I could make my own family, yung maraming anak and I'd make sure that we have no drama. haha. But then again when they grow up baka sila naman may drama?

May family ba na walang drama? Yung lahat magkakasundo all the time? I don't know who to trust in my family anymore. I am TOLD all the time I am loved and I am the favorite of so and so but why do they lie to me

In fairness, sila sila din they lie to each other.

I've moved away from my family, nasa city sila nasa province ako. Also I rarely go to a family reunion. The only time I see and talk to them are on funerals na lang. [emoji23]

I know they are saying a lot of things about me. Even my parents alam ko nagkuwento ng mga negative things about me sa ibang kaanak. But since I don't talk to them and rarely see them, walang stress walang problema.

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**bloowolf** · March 7th, 2021 08:11 PM

^parang pag may party at hindi ka sumama, malaman-laman mo na lang ikaw ang pinaguusapan.
I am close to my family. My FB is devoted to my family (& other interests) but off limits to my friends. I am even close to my in-laws & consider them a barkada. When I had personal problems which were unbearable, my family & in-laws were there for us. I realized that family is very important.

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**_Cathy_** · March 7th, 2021 08:12 PM

Originally Posted by dr. d

"fact is stranger than fiction."

we also had something similar.
i still can not imagine why some people think like they do.

same here

Originally Posted by Walter

One can always have friends as families with lesser drama ...

When there's a lot of money involved and there's perceived unequal distribution of it, there's usually drama ...

I lucked out on friends. I keep a small circle but they are all so understanding, patient and generous with me. Swerte din ako sa bosses ko. I guess the universe has a way to even things out

It's true re money. I am appalled at how evil my brother's ex is. What's funny is she is very active in church LOL! Mga taong simbahan are extremes, either really kind or hypocrites.

The Btch had the gall to question why my Mom has a bigger share in the estate (we were just following the law) BOBO ba siya? My Mom and Dad married in their 20s and they built a life together. On the other hand, she was with my brother for less than 2 yrs and so unfortunate that we weren't able to work on the annulment agad, but my brother had another GF na before he passed and he HATED her. He hasn't seen her in MONTHS.

She was also accusing us of hiding properties from them. Even the company house she questioned. The nerve! That was owned by the corporation including the cars. The sense of entitlement WOW. Kaya hindi ako agree sa Philippine inheritance law. I am more with the US law na you give sa kung kanino mo gusto.

Men, don't play with starlets because you MIGHT fall in love and for the love of God please do not marry or get her pregnant. You can take the girl out of the trailer park but you can't take the trailer park out of the girl. My brother should have been with the girl my parents wanted for him na nice specs! Doctor and lawyer parents, ISM and ADMU grad, Tagalog at mestiza pa! We wouldn't be in this situation siguro kung sila nagkatuluyan

BTW my Lola has sold several properties and I just signed the documents without question! I did not get a cent from that. Legally I am entitled to it, but did I complain? NO! It's only these properties that I have some attachment to that I am involving myself.

You are so right re "perceived unequal distribution" kasi yung mga greedy at pa victim ang pinaka ma drama

**_Cathy_** · March 7th, 2021 08:29 PM

Originally Posted by BratPAQ

I've moved away from my family, nasa city sila nasa province ako. Also I rarely go to a family reunion. The only time I see and talk to them are on funerals na lang. [emoji23]

I know they are saying a lot of things about me. Even my parents alam ko nagkuwento ng mga negative things about me sa ibang kaanak. But since I don't talk to them and rarely see them, walang stress walang problema.

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Are you sure your parents say negative about you? Diba usually mga parents nga kahit anong mali ng anak e super tanggol pa rin? I know for a fact kahit makapatay ako ng tao my parents and grandparents will still take my side LOL

Napapaisip na rin ako if I should move to the US, to get away from the drama. But then when I go to the US andun naman family ng Mom ko. Ibang draman naman

Dapat ata I pursued my transfer to Germany na.

I know people assume na if a person is unmarried pa rin in their late 30s may issue/broken, aminado naman ako. Siguro nag stem na rin sa family ko kasi alam ko how the wrong partner can make or break you. It's a lottery rin kasi and I am too afraid to take the risk

I pray na makapag asawa ako ng maayos na lalaki and I will just integrate myself in his family at yung family niya masaya at walang drama BUT what if I end up with worse baka mapa suicide na ko

**bloowolf** · March 9th, 2021 12:33 PM

I am thinking, Martial Law na ba? Ever since the ECQ, the police are wearing battle fatigues till now. Bakit ba sila kailangan naka Cammo? May guerra ba? May tinataguan ba?

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**dr. d** · March 9th, 2021 12:54 PM

Originally Posted by bloowolf

I am thinking, Martial Law na ba? Ever since the ECQ, the police are wearing battle fatigues till now. Bakit ba sila kailangan naka Cammo? May guerra ba? May tinataguan ba?

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cammos are easier to clean and maintain.
kahit madumi, mukha pa ring malinis. and they do not need pressing.
cammos are very comfortable to wear. and lookit them pockets!

but i agree with you.
i tend to be uncomfortable with cammos walking about.
i like them better, wearing clean, pressed uniforms.
i'm a sucker for good-lookin' uniforms.

**_Cathy_** · March 9th, 2021 01:02 PM

Basta pulis takot ako. I don't trust them

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**bloowolf** · March 9th, 2021 08:11 PM

It may be a subliminal message to the citizens, Du30 style. Ganyan sa Davao.

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**WallyWest** · March 9th, 2021 08:31 PM

Originally Posted by cast_no_shadow

Happened to us in Osaka Japan, yung airbnb unit may grocery nearby. Bought some food for breakfast, nilapag ko sa cashier then I returned the basket sa lagayan.

Pagka bayad iniwanan lang nung cashier tapos turo lang siya ng turo doon sa isang area, bag your own pala [emoji23]

Dito sa Pinas lalo sa QC struggle yan since no plastics nga, hassle if you will be carrying multiple brown bags na ubod ng tibay! Kaya lagi ako pinapa box ko na lang.

Makes me wonder, may bearing ba talaga yan no plastics sa groceries? Ganun din naman madami pa din single use plastics everywhere.

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Sa Japan plastic bags pa rin. And the plastic bags are always translucent - sinunod nila ang requirement na dapat see through ang garbage bags. Kaya win-win. May grocery bag ka na, libreng garbage bag pa.

Mas malala pa nga ang "eco bags" kung tutuusin. Kasi ang eco bags good for how may uses lang? Pag nalimutan mo pang bitbitin sa grocery, bibili ka na naman ng bago hanggang sa magtambak na sa bahay. Tsaka ang materyales ng eco bag mas lalong hindi nabubulok kung ikukumpara sa plastic. May mga plastic bags pa naman ngayon na bio-degradable na.