What Are You Thinking About?

[bloowolf]

Met her in college bro, stayed together for 5 years before we mutually agreed it wouldn't have worked.

That was more than 10 years ago, I tried reaching out to her 3 times already, but got no replies. Even though I can see she read my messages thru email.

"When it is dark and cool in your surroundings, one eyed monsters come out"

If you are married already & she is either married also or not, the prudent thing to do is to cut all ties. It will be unfair to your partners if you still keep in touch with each other. Even if you mean no harm & just want to be friends, you will have to respect her decision. Imagine it this way, what if your wife is still communicating with her ex’s privately?


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[sparc179]

If you are married already & she is either married also or not, the prudent thing to do is to cut all ties. It will be unfair to your partners if you still keep in touch with each other. Even if you mean no harm & just want to be friends, you will have to respect her decision. Imagine it this way, what if your wife is still communicating with her ex’s privately?


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I guess I got lucky sir Bloo, I am my wife's first and last boyfriend and she is very secured in our relationship. After the birth of our first child, she knew even then I would devote my life to them. I've never once been tempted to stray because of all the things we've gone through together. When she almost died from an illness, we were the only ones in the hospital for the first 3 days. We are so secure now, that she will even some times point out beautiful women to me, knowing how I appreciate beauty in all it's forms.

As for my Ex, I also considered that possibility you mentioned. I suppose I thought it would be fine even if we were at least civil to each other and on speaking terms like I am with all of my Exes. And I do respect her decision now, last time I messaged her was almost 5 years ago.

Nakakatuwa lang kasi yung mother nya, halos everyday may message sakin sa FB.

[CVT]

She is unmarried to this day bro, I've been married for more than 8 years now, with two children.

Maybe she misses my katawang pang romansa, that's why. Mwahahaha!

With that, I highly recommend that you stay away from her, bro.... For the good of you, both...

[MR_BIG18]

With that, I highly recommend that you stay away from her, bro.... For the good of you, both...

Naku..that why i have no fb or ig...its full of " what ifs"..

[bloowolf]

With that, I highly recommend that you stay away from her, bro.... For the good of you, both...

Temptations come when one gets married. Ewan ko ba kung bakit ganun...


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[MR_BIG18]

Temptations come when one gets married. Ewan ko ba kung bakit ganun...


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im used to seeing prettiest and fittest girls, they are easy to dismiss, they ones that are scary are the ones that you have a past with, men seem to gravitate there when there is an issue in the household...reason is, memories of much simplier times..

[bloowolf]

im used to seeing prettiest and fittest girls, they are easy to dismiss, they ones that are scary are the ones that you have a past with, men seem to gravitate there when there is an issue in the household...reason is, memories of much simplier times..

In my case, after I got hitched, I never made the first move. It’s those women who seem to get attracted to married men, those “temptress”.


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[Jun aka Pekto]

Race car driver wannabees? Feeling professional daw sila dahil mabilis sasakyan nila? Sounds like insecurity to me. LoL.

Probably just college kids. I see a lot of them have either custom University of Arizona license plates or U of A stickers on their cars. But, every Friday night, that complex around the university is a madhouse. I can usually anticipate them moving over to my lane. So, I give them the room. But, one got really close to my car, enough for me to slam my brakes. I was so pissed I thought about throwing my take out orders of Vietnamese food at that car. But, I cooled myself off quickly.

Anyway, it's Finals Week. So, most of the college kids will be gone for the summer and there will be less crazies on the streets.

[_Cathy_]

In my case, after I got hitched, I never made the first move. It’s those women who seem to get attracted to married men, those “temptress”.


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Maybe it just so happened that you are married na when you met these women? An unattractive man will not become attractive after marriage. Unfortunately, the same applies for attractive men, being married doesn't make them any less desirable. If you're being pursued, it only means desirable ka talaga.

Also, for some women, a wife and children won't stop them from pursuing the man they want. I know some.

Saka married men, they are more patient and mature, basta iba talaga hehe

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[bloowolf]

Maybe it just so happened that you are married na when you met these women? An unattractive man will not become attractive after marriage. Unfortunately, the same applies for attractive men, being married doesn't make them any less desirable. If you're being pursued, it only means desirable ka talaga.

Also, for some women, a wife and children won't stop them from pursuing the man they want. I know some.

Saka married men, they are more patient and mature, basta iba talaga hehe

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Why didn’t I meet them when I wasn’t married yet? Would have had the time of my life ;)


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[_Cathy_]

Why didn’t I meet them when I wasn’t married yet? Would have had the time of my life ;)


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I also have the same question. I've been attracted to married men pero I know that in the end, the wife is ALWAYS chosen, so why should I set myself up for heartache.

Pero may mga babae who dont mind that, as long as their needs are satisfied

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[bloowolf]

^to leave the wife is one thing; to leave the children is something else.



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[_Cathy_]

^to leave the wife is one thing; to leave the children is something else.



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You think if there's no child or children involved, it will be easier for a married man to leave the wife?

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[bloowolf]

You think if there's no child or children involved, it's easier to leave the wife?

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I believe so. The love for children is different.


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[_Cathy_]

I believe so. The love for children is different.


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Oo nga e. Kaya may mga babae who trap men with a child.

That's why children should really love their parents, grabe sacrifice. I have an Uncle and Aunt who stayed married for the children lang, puro away over little things...

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[bloowolf]

Oo nga e. Kaya may mga babae who trap men with a child.

That's why children should really love their parents, grabe sacrifice. I have an Uncle and Aunt who stayed married for the children lang, puro away over little things...

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This is just me. Romantic love, yun bang flowers, dinner, holding hands etc... first stage lang. After that, it evolves to something deeper but less romantic. There is a lot of caring involved.


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[_Cathy_]

This is just me. Romantic love, yun bang flowers, dinner, holding hands etc... first stage lang. After that, it evolves to something deeper but less romantic. There is a lot of caring involved.


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I believe kasi a lot of people don't marry the love of their life. I have friends (plural talaga) who married for security and stability ( not in a financial aspect), pero they went for men na hindi sila "in love", yun lang sure sila magiging tahimik buhay nila. I could have done that 12 yrs ago, pero di ko kaya

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[bloowolf]

I believe kasi a lot of people don't marry the love of their life. I have friends (plural talaga) who married for security and stability ( not in a financial aspect), pero they went for men na hindi sila "in love", yun lang sure sila magiging tahimik buhay nila. I could have done that 12 yrs ago, pero di ko kaya

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I think that is true. But the important thing is, once you commit, there is no looking back.


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[_Cathy_]

I think that is true. But the important thing is, once you commit, there is no looking back.


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I agree. That's the kind of person I want to be with. Hindi yung broken promises. Unfortunately, in our generation, konti na those who value commitment.

I'm glad someone here shares the same values as I do

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[CVT]

Why didn’t I meet them when I wasn’t married yet? Would have had the time of my life ;)


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Bro,- para bang...

"Where were you when I was falling in love?..."

"But the best thing
For me to do
Is get up and leave
Without knowing your name.
It might have been
Something special, baby,
Something only people in love
Could understand,
Like this ring on my hand...."