What Are You Thinking About?

[ninjababez]

perhaps it's time to seek a professional. it's taboo in our culture but i find nothing wrong with it. you seem to need a 3rd party that will ask the right questions and understand what you are going through without bias.

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i really doubt she needs a pro, kahit dito nalang sa tsikot matitino na advice nababasa. if you can backtrack posts from bro eq, jut heck even stockengine's one liners, youll know that cathy simply needs to apply what was said by members here.

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[MR_BIG18]

Excuse me? Who told you that I like uls romantically? Honestly, natatawa ako sa inyong lahat trying to link us romantically.



Because I know the impact of having a child with someone. It can make or break your life. And that person will FOREVER be connected to you. With or without marriage. I've seen how the wrong choice can impact not just the person but the whole family as well.



And I give up. I know I will die early kaya siguro I did not marry and have children. Kawawa lang kung maiwanan ko ng maaga.



I know you mean well but this makes me so mad. Lahat na lang ng interpretation at assumption mo sakin mali. You really have no idea of my character and the person around me.

What made you say that UF does not care for me??? If there's anything about me, I am extremely guarded and I let very few people get through me. I have a handful of people I call my friends and these are people that have proven their worth to me for decades. UF is one of them. Kung merong bad between the two of us, ako yun.

And who are you to say that UF is not doing a good job? Kung kilala mo ko personally, sabitan mo ng medalya lahat ng friends ko with UF having the biggest medal because she takes a lot of sh1t from me.



Are you saying I don't have people who are there when I need them. WOW HA! LOL. Hindi ako nade depress dahil wala akong kaibigan at pamilya. I know my family and friends love me and would do everything for me. MORE THAN WHAT I ASKED FOR. I don't need to illustrate how they love me but I am lucky with the people who surround.

UNFORTUNATELY, that still does not make me happy dahil parating may kulang. I may post a lot but I choose what I post.

Minsan na nga lang ako ma inlove pero I fcking sabotage my happiness whenever it happens. Ngayon naman, I think I'm beginning to like someone (after 2 yrs of sulking over another guy) pero here I am hurting again!

Maam....lagi ka na yata angry and hurting, balik uli kaw sa dati..

[ninjababez]

Maam....lagi ka na yata angry and hurting, balik uli kaw sa dati..

cathy needs to avoid the "triggers" kasi bro
in time she will learn, no matter how long it takes as long as she doesnt do anything stupid, she will survive this and will become a better person.

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[_Cathy_]

perhaps it's time to seek a professional. it's taboo in our culture but i find nothing wrong with it. you seem to need a 3rd party that will ask the right questions and understand what you are going through without bias.

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I wish I could just take a pill that can make me stable

cathy good quality of a friend is if they listen. better if they can shape you up to be a better person, and do everything they can to make your life less miserable; and be effective din. kaya ko nasabi theyre not really doing a good job. they sortof gaveup and fall back to simply listening nalang, psychiatrist can do that. ang good lang sa friend/s mo ay di sila naniningil ng PF. im pretty sure they already gave you the best advice as they know you personally, but then again you not heeding their advice makes them look bad.

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So if I drink poison or jump off a building, kasalanan ng friends ko because they did not do their job well enough? A person can only do so much, ultimately nasa individual pa rin yun.

Please, do NOT judge my friends dahil hindi mo sila kilala and the lengths they go through for me. Hindi mo alam gaano ako ka stressful maging kaibigan. You can ask uls, he has an idea.

Sir i am sooo not Cathy's type

she likes refined sosy pedigreed tisoy guys

i'm just an ordinary intsik

You're not ordinary and we both know that. Iba dynamics natin because you know me too well.

madami nagmamahal kay Cathy na pamilya at kaibigan

ang kulang sa buhay niya is a significant other

gets?

there's a big hole in her life

wala siya problema financially/materially

wala siya problema sa pamilya at kaibigan

I guess I'm too crazy to have a stable relationship. Tama nga si *you know who* na I can't handle a normal relationship.

[_Cathy_]

i really doubt she needs a pro, kahit dito nalang sa tsikot matitino na advice nababasa. if you can backtrack posts from bro eq, jut heck even stockengine's one liners, youll know that cathy simply needs to apply what was said by members here.

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Easier said than done.

Maam....lagi ka na yata angry and hurting, balik uli kaw sa dati..

I know and I'm tired of this cycle

cathy needs to avoid the "triggers" kasi bro
in time she will learn, no matter how long it takes as long as she doesnt do anything stupid, she will survive this and will become a better person.

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Dyan ka lang tumama dahil may nag trigger nga

[uls]

Please, do NOT judge my friends dahil hindi mo sila kilala and the lengths they go through for me. Hindi mo alam gaano ako ka stressful maging kaibigan. You can ask uls, he has an idea.

haha your ex is even asking you if i'm still around

ang tiyaga ko daw haha

[_Cathy_]

haha your ex is even asking you if i'm still around

ang tiyaga ko daw haha

Yup. He always says to give you his congratulations that you lasted this long. Lol.

[uls]

Cathy:

Easier said than done.

there's no shortage of advice to Cathy

dito sa tsikot, real life friends niya, pati pamilya

may sariling utak siya eh

advice can only go so far

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Yup. He always says to give you his congratulations that you lasted this long. Lol.

haha



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[MR_BIG18]

madami nagmamahal kay Cathy na pamilya at kaibigan

ang kulang sa buhay niya is a significant other

gets?

there's a big hole in her life

wala siya problema financially/materially

wala siya problema sa pamilya at kaibigan

Kakatakot kasi baka biglang mag suicide si maam...uso pa naman ngayon..

[uls]

i think she won't go that far naman

may takot sa Diyos si Cathy

ayaw niya mapunta sa impyerno

[MR_BIG18]

i think she won't go that far naman

may takot sa Diyos si Cathy

ayaw niya mapunta sa impyerno

Think...Robin williams at anthony bourdain...hell is better to other people than their present situiation..

[ninjababez]

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So if I drink poison or jump off a building, kasalanan ng friends ko because they did not do their job well enough? A person can only do so much, ultimately nasa individual pa rin yun.

Please, do NOT judge my friends dahil hindi mo sila kilala and the lengths they go through for me. Hindi mo alam gaano ako ka stressful maging kaibigan. You can ask uls, he has an idea.



p.

nope di nila kasalanan yun, youll make them look bad friends though

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[12vdc]

natawa ako kasi gf is so frugal, but when i started encountering car problems (mostly minor and some wear and tear lang), sya na nagsabi kumuha ng mas bago or mag loan ulit ng brand new kasi nababawasan oras namin together cause of me tinkering the car, sya na daw sa monthly [emoji23][emoji1787]

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If no one can fix it maybe the hammer will [22:15]

[ninjababez]

If no one can fix it maybe the hammer will [22:15]

ok na sya bro [emoji1787][emoji23]

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[BlancNoir]

Think...Robin williams at anthony bourdain...hell is better to other people than their present situiation..

Or they could've sought help.
It's better than eternal damnation.

[Little Missy]

^ some people don't believe in the afterlife though

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[uls]

preventing suicide by threat of burning in hell only applies to those who believe in hell

[BlancNoir]

Ah yes. You are both correct.

Best thing is to get checked, nothing wrong with that.

Like other organs, the brain can also get sick.

[StockEngine]

ok na sya bro [emoji1787][emoji23]

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glad to hear paps 🤗

[_Cathy_]

Kakatakot kasi baka biglang mag suicide si maam...uso pa naman ngayon..

sir, I think no person ever committed suicide because it's uso. May mga kilala akong suicidal and sadly some who succeeded. Brother of my friend hanged himself, cousin of my cousin hanged himself, relative who shot his head, Tita of my cousin jumped off a building. They all had issues for a long time. I think when a person decides to end his life, numb na yan at hindi basta nakikiuso lang. I've wished hundreds of time that I were dead but never had the courage to end my life. But I have to admit na nung bata ako may death wish ako, I was very reckless.

i think she won't go that far naman

may takot sa Diyos si Cathy

ayaw niya mapunta sa impyerno

Yup. It really makes me wonder when you end your life, will it be just like a computer that went dead or will you see your soul leave your body. But it's true, may takot ako sa diyos.

My Mom is a strong woman but she told me that if she loses me masisira ulo niya. My second Mom said, susunod siya sakin. And my Daddy...

Think...Robin williams at anthony bourdain...hell is better to other people than their present situiation..

I agree, sometimes the pain is too much that death is the only escape. I do believe that suicide is a mental illness and it's genetic. It's against our biology to take our own life, we were built to survive, Kaya naniniwala ako na yung mga suicidal, something is wrong in the way they are wired.

nope di nila kasalanan yun, youll make them look bad friends though

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I have an INTERNAL locus of control. If I decide to drink acetone, ingest rat poison or drink a cocktail of valium and alcohol - it's all on me. NOBODY else is to blame. My family and friends have been nothing but good to me. Like I said, more than I would ask for. Whatever I do to myself, that is my accountability.

You, on the other hand, external locus of control ka. Hindi tayo magkakaintindihan kasi polar opposites ang values natin.