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[ninjababez]

My Mom sounds ridiculous when she talks bisaglish (if there is such a term) hahaha. Pinipilit pa kasi hindi naman marunong mag cebuano

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sakin naman tuwang tuwa mga taga province, pag nagpipilit ako mag bisaya. may mga recording si gf ng mga encounter ko with tindera and her relative; ewan ko bakit tuwang tuwa sya

[baludoy]

How are the roads going to anvaya after last month's typhoon? Will be going there this weekend for a little break

do what you gotta do so you can do what you wanna do

[thenightcrawler]

Both of you need space...a lot of space...

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For good?

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[remzam]

For good?

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Cool off. Sa tagalog, palamig muna. Masyado mainit sitwasyon. Over Heat sa sasakyan. Lalagyan ba natin ng tubig? I titigil makina? Kasi kung hindi titirik ang relasyon. Masisira.

Pwedeng pansamantala. Pwedeng MAGING for good. That depends kung lalamig kayo or iinit lang lalo ang sitwasyon.

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[thenightcrawler]

Cool off. Sa tagalog, palamig muna. Masyado mainit sitwasyon. Over Heat sa sasakyan. Lalagyan ba natin ng tubig? I titigil makina? Kasi kung hindi titirik ang relasyon. Masisira.

Pwedeng pansamantala. Pwedeng MAGING for good. That depends kung lalamig kayo or iinit lang lalo ang sitwasyon.

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I've seen a lot of couples that went through it and did not recover. The cool off became a prelude na.. That's sad. I guess the one who asked for it didn't have the courage to say that they wanted out and the cool off thing just prolonged the agony.

Niseset ba yun? I mean, cool off for this long?



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[remzam]

I've seen a lot of couples that went through it and did not recover. The cool off became a prelude na.. That's sad. I guess the one who asked for it didn't have the courage to say that they wanted out and the cool off thing just prolonged the agony.

Niseset ba yun? I mean, cool off for this long?



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Some yes. Some no.

"mahal cool off muna tayo kasi... Two weeks lang naman. Para makapag isip tayo"

Or

"mahal cool off muna tayo. Kasi..."

"hanggang kailan tayo mag cool off?"

"basta. Pag di na tayo magulo. Pag malamig na ulo mo"


And yes, usually prelude Sya. Unless BOTH parties realize they still want to work for their relationship to prosper.

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[StockEngine]

I've seen a lot of couples that went through it and did not recover. The cool off became a prelude na.. That's sad. I guess the one who asked for it didn't have the courage to say that they wanted out and the cool off thing just prolonged the agony.

Niseset ba yun? I mean, cool off for this long?



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when the partner is easily angry... its a sign...

partner has to be patient and kind...


cooling off is spending time away from someone... this is testament for "for better or for worse"



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[ninjababez]

I've seen a lot of couples that went through it and did not recover. The cool off became a prelude na.. That's sad. I guess the one who asked for it didn't have the courage to say that they wanted out and the cool off thing just prolonged the agony.

Niseset ba yun? I mean, cool off for this long?



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do not underestimate the power of cooling off bro
after ng cool off (using remzam's analogy), ma assess mo na yung auto. should i have it fixed? di ba mas maganda bumili ng bago, ang bago mahal; pero ang repair and replace ng OEM parts tama lang. yun bagong mahal sub compact lang, eh itong luma full size sedan and toyota pa madami pyesa. alam mo na ang takbo ng auto, regular at tamang maintain lang ng auto mas maganda parin vs. sub compact. bells and whistle? pwede naman bumili ng android auto, since full size sedan, malaki ang space for a new subwoofer, mataas pa cabin gain.

[thenightcrawler]

Some yes. Some no.

"mahal cool off muna tayo kasi... Two weeks lang naman. Para makapag isip tayo"

Or

"mahal cool off muna tayo. Kasi..."

"hanggang kailan tayo mag cool off?"

"basta. Pag di na tayo magulo. Pag malamig na ulo mo"


And yes, usually prelude Sya. Unless BOTH parties realize they still want to work for their relationship to prosper.

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Natawa ako dun sa sagot na basta. Haha pag ganun malabo na yun.

Anyway, it's risky. It's a scary place to be in.

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[thenightcrawler]

when the partner is easily angry... its a sign...

partner has to be patient and kind...


cooling off is spending time away from someone... this is testament for "for better or for worse"



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This is OK when the reason for the cool off is really just to cool down. Na after nun you both know na kayo padin.. I guess, if this is clear then positive for sure yung magiging effect ng cool off.

Another thing, is it also a sign that your partner is not sure about you when they ask for it?

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[Little Missy]

Natawa ako dun sa sagot na basta. Haha pag ganun malabo na yun.

Anyway, it's risky. It's a scary place to be in.

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I suppose you're a guy, right?
Usually nanghihingi ng cool off para mag isip.

Or mag set ng tone (para kapag binreak na di na siya mabigla, joke).

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[remzam]

Natawa ako dun sa sagot na basta. Haha pag ganun malabo na yun.

Anyway, it's risky. It's a scary place to be in.

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Scary place to be in or good one.

Depende how you see things. Masarap talaga sa feelings Yung kahit worse comes to worst, ipaglalaban nyo isa't isa.

Pero another perspective eh at least early on nalaman at nakilala nyo isa't isa. Mahirap pag may binding contract na tapos dun nyo lang marealize na ganun. Tali na.

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[thenightcrawler]

I suppose you're a guy, right?
Usually nanghihingi ng cool off para mag isip.

Or mag set ng tone (para kapag binreak na di na siya mabigla, joke).

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Magandang babae po.[emoji12]

Itong si Ninjababez kase palagi nalang bro ng bro. Haha

Anyway, you have a point about setting the tone.

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[uls]

Cool off.. What is really going on when you get into it?

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cool off -- when you spend too much time with each other that it gets irritating and suffocating

One of you will say "we need some time off"

Or "we need to be away from each other for a while"

To be continued...

[Little Missy]

Magandang babae po.[emoji12]

Itong si Ninjababez kase palagi nalang bro ng bro. Haha

Anyway, you have a point about setting the tone.

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I see. Iba kasi kapag babae ang nakipagcool off. It doesn't mean di na nila mahal, minsan pagod na lang.

Sabi nila ang guys 1+1=2 lang, what you see is what you get.

Di mo ba naramdaman na gradually nanlamig? Meron diyan mkikipagcool off kasi may 3rd party, testing the waters. I'm not saying ganun yung sa inyo ha, but it happens.

Or pwedeng nag iisip about sa direction ng relationship.

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[ninjababez]

basta ako, tama na sakin ang almost 1 day cool off binigay ni gf; enough na para magising at malaman kung sino ba sya sa akin. tulad ng post ko sa previous page ..

[thenightcrawler]

I see. Iba kasi kapag babae ang nakipagcool off. It doesn't mean di na nila mahal, minsan pagod na lang.

Sabi nila ang guys 1+1=2 lang, what you see is what you get.

Di mo ba naramdaman na gradually nanlamig? Meron diyan mkikipagcool off kasi may 3rd party, testing the waters. I'm not saying ganun yung sa inyo ha, but it happens.

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Ibang iba point of view ng guys sa girls talaga.

But it really is important to know the objective of the cool off talaga. Para both of you will know kung mag "testing na waters" na kayo or to just literally take a time off.


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[thenightcrawler]

basta ako, tama na sakin ang almost 1 day cool off binigay ni gf; enough na para magising at malaman kung sino ba sya sa akin. tulad ng post ko sa previous page ..

A day is seems not enough to reflect on it. I guess what you did is you made a decision Kung anu sya syo and you sticked with it.

Good for you.

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[shadow]

Pag lalake nagsabi na cool off. Wala na yan, either he found someone na. Don't expect na magkabalakan pa kayo.


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[uls]

cool off -- when you spend too much time with each other that it gets irritating and suffocating

One of you will say "we need some time off"

Or "we need to be away from each other for a while"

To be continued...

then the other would go "whaaat?! for how long?!"

"just a few weeks"

"whaaat?! are you breaking up with me?!"

"no, we just need to cool off"

"no you're breaking up with me!"

"look that's exactly why i need some time away from you"

"what that?"

"that... that attitude of yours"

"what attitude?!"

"that"

"what are you talking about?"

"omg you don't even get it"



hahaha