What Or Who Are You Missing Right Now?

[_Cathy_]

hindi masama ang loob.
nagmamadali lang.

I don't know why opening the door for someone is an issue. A person is only supposed to open for the other person if at arm's length anyway. So a few seconds won't hurt.

When is a lady supposed to know not to let herself in first because the man was just being polite and did not really mean the gesture? So dapat mag decline parati and the man should insist?