At what age do you talk to kids about the "birds and the bees"?

**uls** · April 17th, 2006 10:21 PM

Talk about *** videos, many (or most) people get their *** ed from ****.

In ****, *** is always fun... with no consequences.

Not in real life.

**squala** · April 17th, 2006 10:56 PM

It will just have to come from my children. When they reach the age of reason, I'll ask them to be honest and open with me. Once they hear about *** from friends, media, whatsoever, that's the time I'll educate them on it.

**oldblue** · April 18th, 2006 02:27 AM

since adults and responsible parents naman kayo, I'll ask this question

would you allow or encourage your teenage son to visit Quezon Ave Bars?

naisip ko lang mas ok na yun no commitments if he (your son) decides to indulge his curiousity, kaysa mag-uwi ng pregnant classmate/friendster

**basti08** · April 18th, 2006 02:35 AM

cguro id be more practical....and tell them *safe way* of doing it.

im in circle of friends na very open kame sa ganyan, parang part lang talaga ng pagtanda ang pagdaan sa ganyan....minsan talaga di mo mapipigilan....

but i just always remember.......

....if you can't be good... be safe! ;p

**Flagg** · April 18th, 2006 02:48 AM

I absolutely agree with you sir niky.

I'll make sure my kids know about "no glove, no love."

Yes sir oldblue, I'm taking my boy to Q. Ave. when the time comes. These are things which will never disappear. Better he be knowledgeable than to mess around and end up a fool.

Dunno if I have a little girl though. I have no intention of going to Chicos...

**niky** · April 18th, 2006 05:28 PM

Originally Posted by flagg

Dunno if I have a little girl though. I have no intention of going to Chicos...

BWAHAHAHAHAAAAA....

...I don't think I'd mind... always been curious... (oh my fafa!)

If I do have a little boy, I don't know if I'd bring him to the "red light district"... not safe, IMHO (oh, you guys can still go... adults naman kayo, eh... hehe)... but I'd make sure he knew about them, about the dangers, the costs, and the possible discounts if he mentions a choice uncle or grand-uncle's name...

**Flagg** · April 22nd, 2006 04:34 AM

double post

**Flagg** · April 22nd, 2006 04:35 AM

Originally Posted by niky

..."red light district"... not safe, IMHO (oh, you guys can still go... adults naman kayo, eh... hehe)... but I'd make sure he knew about them, about the dangers, the costs, and the possible discounts if he mentions a choice uncle or grand-uncle's name... :belat

Wahaha! I just remembered this:

My bro was driving my dad down Q. Ave. to Manila, windows open. E ma-traffic, from one of the Men's Clubs there, someone hollered:

"Sir (name of bro)!!! Dami bago ngayon!" (May saludo pa) Namutla bro ko. Kunwari wala narinig naman si erpats.

Siguradong kasama si uncle nya pag punta namin ni junior sa clubs.

**kris06** · April 18th, 2006 03:30 AM

Yes. :D

**Josh0027** · April 18th, 2006 03:48 AM

sensitive kasi ito eventhough we know that we should be teaching our kids these. If I'm already a father, I'll know when the right time it is for my kid to know.

**city** · April 18th, 2006 08:15 AM

Sooner or later our kids will do it. So teaching them to do it responsibly is important. That way we parents don't get blamed. Teaching them is making them smarter.

**wren** · April 18th, 2006 08:28 AM

yes, most definitely! i will teach them all about it and it's consequences if done irresponsibly. i will take them to the red light district and explain to them what they are...at least this way they're supervised. just don't act like you know everyone there (even if you do), that would be bad.

**BlueGirl** · April 18th, 2006 09:20 AM

Ang iniisip ko naman,paano ibring up yung topic?Antayin na magtanong ang anak?When is the right time?

**city** · April 18th, 2006 09:47 AM

Originally Posted by BlueGirl

Ang iniisip ko naman,paano ibring up yung topic?Antayin na magtanong ang anak?When is the right time?

you know....you'll know when you know.

**oldblue** · April 19th, 2006 02:10 AM

Originally Posted by BlueGirl

Ang iniisip ko naman,paano ibring up yung topic?Antayin na magtanong ang anak?When is the right time?

pag boy, after grade school graduation

pag girl, before prom night

**uls** · April 18th, 2006 09:57 AM

Mommy (or Daddy), how are babies made? hehe

**BlueGirl** · April 18th, 2006 09:57 AM

Sino ang mas okay na magsabi/magdiscuss?Dad?Mom?Both?Sa mga may kids na po,nagkaron na ba ng time na nagtanong na sila sa inyo?

**umzzzzz** · April 18th, 2006 10:13 AM

...hindi ako nagtanong sa nanay ko at tatay ko...just found betamax **** na nakatago sa masters' bedroom...inakala kong G-rated cartoons yun (it was labeled "Deep Inside Ginger Lynn") so pinanood ko...aba laking gulat ko hindi cartoons!!!...i was grade 6 then...yun, dun ko natutunan lahat...pero...mas gugustuhin kong ganun na lang ang nangyari...parang ang awkward kasi kapag ikaw ang magaapproach sa parents...so mas maganda cguro kung yung parents ang mag initiate. malalaman naman ng parents yun kung kelan ang tamang time...

**Bogeyman** · April 18th, 2006 06:16 PM

Originally Posted by umzzzzz

...hindi ako nagtanong sa nanay ko at tatay ko...just found betamax **** na nakatago sa masters' bedroom...inakala kong G-rated cartoons yun (it was labeled "Deep Inside Ginger Lynn") so pinanood ko...aba laking gulat ko hindi cartoons!!!...i was grade 6 then...yun, dun ko natutunan lahat...pero...mas gugustuhin kong ganun na lang ang nangyari...parang ang awkward kasi kapag ikaw ang magaapproach sa parents...so mas maganda cguro kung yung parents ang mag initiate. malalaman naman ng parents yun kung kelan ang tamang time...

Ako naman Grade 4, when I saw an animated documentary titled "Where Did I Come From?". Betamax pa yun, hiniram namin sa St. Paul Library sa Makati. Akala ko kung anong cartoons yung laman.

Talagang detalyado ang explanation, from puberty to ***ual activity, conception, childbirth, pati breastfeeding. Kaming dalawa ng sister ko yung nanood, ewan ko kung napanood din ng parents ko. But I bet they wouldn't mind, the whole presentation was tasteful and educational kahit animated. It was really produced with kids in mind. Sayang, they don't make material like that nowadays.

**oldblue** · April 19th, 2006 02:14 AM

Originally Posted by umzzzzz

...hindi ako nagtanong sa nanay ko at tatay ko...just found betamax **** na nakatago sa masters' bedroom...inakala kong G-rated cartoons yun (it was labeled "Deep Inside Ginger Lynn") so pinanood ko...aba laking gulat ko hindi cartoons!!!...i was grade 6 then...yun, dun ko natutunan lahat...pero...mas gugustuhin kong ganun na lang ang nangyari...parang ang awkward kasi kapag ikaw ang magaapproach sa parents...so mas maganda cguro kung yung parents ang mag initiate. malalaman naman ng parents yun kung kelan ang tamang time...

ganyan din ang experience ng mga nagturo sakin, mga kaklase ko sa grade 5 na nag overnight weekend homework. accidentally nakita nila yun tape ng tatay ng isang classmate ko. on monday, kinwento nila sakin kung ano yun napanood nila, "nag-iihan daw" .... yes, I can still remember their faces when they narrated those words.

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