Were you bullied back in grade school/high school or even college?

[slamtaz]

never experienced being bullied kasi i was basically bigger (i.e. as in wider) than average especially when i reached high school that i started doing weights.. nakaka-guilty minsan, kasi umiiwas ung iban kasalubong ko at akala siguro nila ay babarugin ko sila hindi lang nila alam that i am gentle as a sheep..

naalala ko pa nga dati during college, P.E. namin ay basketbol, naka poste ako sa ilalim in defense, extending my arm pero yung forward ng kabilang team (i.e. who is known to snake around defense) dared to break thru... ayun, nag-mistulang clothesline wrestling at angat dalawang paa without me moving my arm.. ako tuloy lumabas na bully pero the truth is, bobo lang talaga ako sa basketbol

[Cult Zero]

I was big for my age throughout grade school so nobody bullied me. It was the opposite case in high school as i didn't grow (vertically) until i was in third year. good thing i was with the "cool" group so nobody wanted to mess with us ... In college, nobody bullied anybody coz everyone was too busy trying to pass the course...

[totoybato]

nung ako ay nasa 3rd year high schoo (sa public po), mga 5'4 lang ako, kaya madalas akong inaangasan nung isang kaklase ko na siga siga sa school namin, mga 5'6" siya. Nung mag 4th year na ako, bigla akong naging 5''11" , siya di na lumaki, kaya nung minsan kaming mag basketball, sinupalpal ko siya, as in idiniin ko sa mukha niya yung bola, tapos nung poporma nang sasapakin ako, sinigawan ko ng malakas na " O BAKIT HA!!!, yun, pagkatapos nun, di na ako pino pormahan.
May naalala din ako, medyo OT lang, nakursunadahan ako ng mga lasing na mas matatanda sa akin sa aming lugar. Sigaw kasi ng sigaw, di ko naman pinapansin dahil naglalaro kami ng basketball, mga 17 y.o. na yata ako. Bale dalawa sila, lumapit sa akin yung isa, sinuntok ako sa dibdib, tinawanan ko lang kasi di ko talaga naramdaman dahil maliit lang siya, iyong kasama may hawak palang malaking tipak ng adobe, pinalo niya sa mukha ko yan. Purely by instinct, sinalag ko iyon ng braso, nagulat na lang ako , kasi nabasag lang sa braso ko yung bato as in gasgas lang ang nakita ko sa kamay ko, pero yung isan, nagbunot ng kutsilyo, tumakbo na ako siyempre,delikado na yung tusok eh , hehehe. Kumalat sa lugar namin yung insidente, kaya nabansagan ako ng pangalang "taong bato" sa lugar namin. Hanggang sa lumaki pa ako ng 6'1" at nakapag laro ng varsity sa UAAP, at never na akong kinursunada sa lugar namin. Ako kasi naging pambato sa basketball sa barangay namin, naging protektor ko sa laro yung mga gago sa lugar namin.

[shadow]

wala naman...I was with the "cool" group then, so technically kami ang bully...hehehehe

[dazedchiq]

I was bullied in HS by my female schoolmates... They bullied me because of envy and jealousy. The first time was when I had a boyfriend. Ako ata ung unang nagkaroon and crush ng barkada ko ung guy (he was from another school). Ayun, doon nagsimula until umabot na sa point na reputation ko na ang sinisira, and sobrang sinira talaga nila. I had to carry the burden of being judged for something that I never did until today. Just imagine the looks that you will get from everybody (I went to a co-ed school) when you walk down the hall. Na-trauma talaga ako noon when that happened. I was in First Year HS that time. Sobrang awang awa mother ko sa akin noon kasi I was crying everyday and that was the first time I became depressed. My mom had to write a letter to our Head Teacher to address the problem. After that, I just ignored them na lang kasi pahihirapan ko lang ang sarili ko. Naisip ko lang na I don't have to explain to everybody na siniraan lang ako kasi useless lang. They will always think what they want to think. Nag-concentrate na lang ako sa pagaaral ko at sa ikabubuti ng buhay at future ko. At the end, they respected me again kasi when I sense that they aren't treating me right, sinasabihan ko talaga and I say it straight to their faces. Sorry na lang sila kung nagkataon na mainit na ulo ko kasi hindi talaga maganda ang lalabas sa bibig ko.

Wala yang mga suntok suntok na yan kasi that's only physical... I still carry some of the emotional scars and that is also one of the reasons why I don't have a lot of female friends. I've had a first-hand experience on how dirty they can be when they are jealous of you and that's why it really takes time for girls to gain my absolute trust and friendship. Wala din akong mashadong friends talaga... I just know a lot of people, but I can't say that they are my friends.

[oldblue]

i got bullied by big classmates when I was a newcomer in grade 3. mahirap talaga pag bago school.

i got bullied on again when I got accelerated at naging classmates ko eh 1 year senior than me. but that was for the first month only. i really can't explain what happened next.

I was not the brightest in class in our first months. Our teacher who was perceived to be cool by my classmates made me his favorite student. our brightest never shared his homework/notes. I was by the way very generous on sharing my HW to my left and right seatmates as well as 3 guys at my back. turned out that one of them was a FRAT member starting with A. later on, i became the class orig copy HW

the rest was history ... they took me wherever they go, my entire 4 years in HS was treated with respect from my classmates, I saved our brightest from being bullied all the time by making him contribute his big brother's **** magz to the class.

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btw, we had a newcomer in sophomore year. unfortunately, nobody wanted to accept him. kawawa nga eh. but there was this group who was kind enough to let him join. and the rest of his years was a very gay experience he brought make-up kits, lipsticks etc ... hahaha we all concluded that he was really gay to begin with that's why he didn't get along.

met him again in the gym some 2 years ago, and he said he will be marrying his officemate soon (a girl). eto ang kawawang victim talaga, just to survive HS, he had to pretend his gay just to be accepted hahaha

[Jun aka Pekto]

I got into a few fights with Mexicans during elementary school. I'm not sure why. But, they seemed to resent the Pinoy's ability to get along well with the "gringos". The most memorable one was in the 6th grade when a Mexican boy took one of my "Matchbox" cars during recess. I lunged at him and decked him. But, he still hit me on the lip which got me crying. It must've been an awesome sight. There I was crying like a river and screaming like a girl. But at the same time, I had him on a chokehold and punching his face lumpy.

During my first year in the Philippines, I got into fights several times. Students were teasing me because I couldn't speak nor understand Tagalog. I must've been pretty stupid then because I picked fights with guys who were either much taller or much muscular than me. Needless to say, I got my butt kicked on those occasions. But, none of them teased me afterwards. The other students also quit teasing me except for the good-natured ribbings which account for the origin of my "alias" here.


"Pekto".... Think of the many possible names that can be derived from those five letters. Some of them are too "bashtosh" to mention here.

One of the things I had to put up with, especially when I have the soccer ball during a game was my classmates shouting, "Umba umba um ***-***!

[BlueGirl]

Nope.kami kasi nang bully..haha..joke..

Dito sa office ang binubully namin yung nag iisang lalake sa lab..naculture shock ata samin kasi sa SGS ata eh mahinhin ang mga babae..sabi namin,well kahit naman magulo kami dito eh mahinhin din kami hindi lang halata :bwahaha:

[Lucius]

Hahahaha katawa mga stories natin ah

Everything's fresh up until now. Had this classmate when I was in the 3rd grade, masyadon mayabang and maingay and unlike any other mayabangs, he was the most unlikable.

Mga 1PM nun, lunch break. Hahahahahaha I think napuno na ko sa kakayabang nya (one those though =D) I pulled my belt from my blue shorts.... PAK PAK PAK PAK PAK! Hinataw ko ng sinturon katawan nya hahahahaha umiyak lang di nagsumbong (I guess trademark ng mga bullies di magsumbong)

Jump to 6th grade.. I'm not really a bully, but most of my friends are. But we get along well with everyone else. May classmate naman kami na pag nagpapalit ng PE uniform, pansin ko medyo maitim ung nips nya. So everytime may PE kami, kanta ako ng "baka ng baka utong ng baka" tapos may iba pa sumusunod. One time ung teacher namin lumabas (GMRC subject hahahaha) kumanta ako bigla, ayun tumayo sinuntok ung ulo ko tumama ung left side (near the eye) ng face ko sa chair. Dapat di na malalaman kaso dami nagsumbong eh, bawas daw sa pogi points hehehehehe

Ngayon medyo bully sa class pero ung bully na patawa, pag medyo loud ka kasi ikaw ang una napapansin ng chics hehehehehe

[oldblue]

years ago, i went with my dad in his hometown. we attended the wedding of his childhood bestfriend, also the mayor of the town.

i remember this groom (mayor) who had once visited us here in the city some years back. i still recall that day about the two of them reminiscing their childhood days in their old hometown. I also overheard on how the two of them got bullied by this big mean guy in their class. and how this big boy would chase them and make a punching bag out of them everyday after class.

in the wedding, i saw a mean looking fat bulky guy carrying a baby armalite rifle. he looked so intimidating and his eyes were really scary. his built and size were somewhat similar to Bomber Moran of Philippine movies. in short, he really looked like a goon with a gun.

he approached my dad, shook my dad's hands, and embraced him. his face turned from mean to meek, and escorted us like VIP to the newlywed's table. then he whispered to my dad: "ser, kamusta na kaso ng anak ko. maayos na ba natin?"

to make the long story short, he was the mean bully that they were talking about before. he is now the mayor's bodyguard he got shot in the ass a year after from an encounter with rebs.


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btw, in case you're wondering why we're attending my dad's bestfriend's (the mayor) wedding some 20 years after I was born. the bride was barely 3 years older than me ... typical politician