Sa bilib ko, we all become "infatuated" at some point. Kahit ano man, baka material things like cars, jewelry, pets at pati tao. It doesn't last long. I think people mistake that for love thats why most men cheat. Infatuation and lust are very strong emotions that all people feel and cause them to behave irrationally. On the other hand, love has the same emotions involved but with the addition of "responsibility". Responsibility to the other persons emotions and well being. So, kahit na makakita ka nang talagang magandang dalaga, you will always think of what this lust would do to your loved one. Kahit na anong nararamdaman, hindi talagang kayang saktan and asawa or gf mo. Hangang hindi mo pa nararamdaman and "malaking responsibilidad" sa kanya, hindi ka pa handa na magpakasal at maging monogamous. So hangang bata ka pa, ay mag experimento nang husto at dadating ang panahon na titipuin ka nang isang babae na hindi mo kayang iwanan.