bro payong kaibigan lang...don't judge your dad by one statement, especially one that you just heard one part of, and you don't know the context of the conversation. ngayon kung disappointed ka sa kanya about many things in your life, ibang usapan yan.

and about setting an example for your daughter - it's good na bumukod ka na since may sariling pamilya ka na. show her that being independent (even if it's hard) is the right thing to do, and it's not right to still rely on your parents even when you're all grown up.