Backstabbers: What To Do With Them

[[r]ichkri3g]

i recently found out that a group of people who pretended to be my friends were actually backstabbing me about personal stuff.

have you ever encountered people like them? what do you do?

[wildthing]

Simple lang...

I comfront them directly about the issue... they will often deny it but it does resolve something and it becomes the valid reason for staying away from them (and vise-versa) not being their friends again.

Natural na makameet ng ganyan tao sa buhay lalo na kung confined kayo sa iisang lugar(as in sa office lang lagi).... laging merun social status struggle and one must be on top and the other at the bottom.

Yung mga naging friends ko sa work or plain classmates are never that true friends most of the time.

Not to offend you (or anyone) but do try to evaluate yourself din... baka minsan you tend to have a similar behaviour that is why you get to have friends like that ... as they say "birds of the same feather, flock together".

[flex]

Bro, iwan mo na yang ganyang mga kaibigan...walang kwenta yang mga yan... I also had a similar experience...I burned my bridges...bakit po pag aaksayahan ng panahon ang mga ganyang tao. Basta important malinis konsensya mo at wala kang nasaktan o nakabanggang tao...yaan mo na sila magsalita ng kng anu ano. At the end of the day lalabas din ang katotohanan

[Lucius]

Pag ganyan? Suntukan na lang.

Pero sa mga gumanyan sa kin dati, ok lang. Inggit lang kasi di ko na lang pinagpapansin.

[Flagg]

Pa-backstab mo din sila... :gayfight:

[claRkEnt]

confront them... at least they would know na nalaman mo ang\d magtaka sila paano mo nalaman. so magkakagulo sila. away-away na!

[VtEC]

madaming ganyan bro.these people lacks attention.that's why you better be careful.never ever tell your darkest secrets to anyone.

[Asus700]

papano kung ang backstabber eh boss at may ari ng companya? very unprofessional

ganyan sa amin, kung ano ano sinasabi nung mayari sa mga empleyado nya, particularly managers. pati personal na buhay dinadamay. kaya out of respect eh the people are just leaving. respect kasi the owner eh matanda na, 72 yrs old at sa tingin ko ay medyo senile na.

[moe]

your friends may have sad backgrounds and problems on the side but that doesn't mean that they should act that way. you could say they're compensating or they simply want to put you down. whatever the case is, i'd say you're better off without them. people who bring you nothing but misery are people who bring you nothing but misery. ask yourself if you can do without them. if yes, then drop them ASAP. i only have 4 true friends - my wife, my sister my mom and my dad. the others are mere acquaintances. am i lonely? nope. do i crave more friends? not at all.