tanong lang...para dun sa ibang may traditional chinese family... kase...kung alam naman na traditional yung family bat pa nanliligaw ng non chinese? *wondering*
Example..yung isa kong cousin...after 3 years or so nakipagbreak ang howe...after a couple of months may bago ng howe, chinese na this time. Same for this close friend i have may howe for 2 years tumagal pa sila in the end sinabi ng guy nde nya kaya pagtanggol yung girl sa parents nya kaya wag na umasa na may future sila and he wasn't even man enough to say it in her face. He cheated on her in order for her to get the message... diba? manligaw na lang ng kaparehas ng tradition kung ganun pala... could have saved some time and could have spared some heartaches here and there...just thinking aloud.

OT sorry!
