AFFAIRS, what's your say?

[Lucius]

What if your partner has been cheating you all this time? That your partner has pretty much slept with everyone else behind your back? That you will find out na kabit ka din? What will you do? Will you judge her? You have proof. You know everything. How can you turn things around and fix things?

[Horsepower]

Break it off with her and start anew with a better girl. Why would you wanna continue such regrettable relationship with a slut?

[Lucius]

Well because maybe you're starting to develop feelings for her? She makes you feel good? Revenge or to hurt him/her is of course not an option

[ghosthunter]

I am assuming married couple...

Assuming she still wants to fix things with you, it would be best to find a counselor to help you and her through this. The key word here is the willingness to change. If she is unwilling to change her mind and heart, you cannot do anything beyond that.

But do not put too much hope if she doesn't change her heart and chooses the other guy.

If you still don't have kids, just throw her out with just the clothes on her back. BTW, make sure any joint bank or investment accounts you have are taken cared of and converted to single name accounts before you throw her out. Advance planning is key. The less money she gets, the better. If she persists in getting any money, simply threaten back to donate the said funds to charity if she persists. Get an annulment. After that, get on with your life. :***:

:evil: If you have some influence, make her life and her boyfriend's life miserable in tiny increments. Everyone has to have a hobby, right?

If you have kids, its going to be complicated. :starwars:

[Lucius]

What if you found out ikaw ang kabit tapos yung original boyfriend nya walang idea na niloloko na pala sya matagal na? Hahahaha iwanan mo ba or just keep going hanggang magsawa ka? :***:

[ghosthunter]

What if you found out ikaw ang kabit tapos yung original boyfriend nya walang idea na niloloko na pala sya matagal na? Hahahaha iwanan mo ba or just keep going hanggang magsawa ka? :***:

Karma does find a way to catch up. Enjoy the free *** while you can.

[Lucius]

Just boyfriend and girlfriend :D yung friend ko pa ang lumalabas na kabit. Yung talagang boyfriend nung girl, no idea yata.

[ghosthunter]

The least effects would be the bf/gf would break up.

The worst, the bf/gf would break up and then the ex-bf would look for your friend for some revenge.

[uls]

Baket? Na-shock ka ba? I mean ur friend?

Is he flattering himself thinking that he is her one and only?

Girls these days...

[Horsepower]

Well because maybe you're starting to develop feelings for her? She makes you feel good? Revenge or to hurt him/her is of course not an option

That's just stupid. Anyone who'd stay in a relationship due to such lousy premise deserves to be cheated on and shot. What a loser.

There are a lot of good girls around.

Bakit pag may ganitong topic laging sa "friend" ang story? hehehe

[freefries]

Baket? Na-shock ka ba? I mean ur friend?

Is he flattering himself thinking that he is her one and only?

Girls these days...

ooopppss, don's say girls these days huh...di lahat ha

making multiple relationship, di na bago yan, masakit lang talaga pag mangyayari sa yo...but men and women are the same..hindi na uso yung lalaki kasi kaya ok lang...well siguro she's a woman with many needs, hehehe..siguro motto nya, collect and collect then select....

dumped her is the best you can do, or if you want revenge why don't you arrange a date, then call her other bf so that she will be shocked that you knew all along...a very typical scenario pero gumagana pa rin naman eh....

[Jun aka Pekto]

Affairs?

For married folks, it's a no-no. Think with your head (the one with the brain) and not with your hormones.

And no, I have no sympathy for those who engage in affairs.

My 2 cents......

Now if a woman with a less than wholesome reputation (while single) marries and changes for the better, that's different. I've seen a number of such Pinays who now live quiet/happy married lives.


Add: Also, I don't regard an affair an affair unless the couple had already tied the knot. That's just me though. Ya gotta have that piece of paper stamped, signed, and blessed.

I had to make sure of that with my wife because I was in competition with her ex-BF.

[Lucius]

Easy easy messenger lang ako hahahaha

[Jun aka Pekto]

Easy easy messenger lang ako hahahaha

Oh no. No venom intended. My bad.

Gee. I wonder how I am when I'm really pi**ed off? Actually, if I was ticked off, it'd be a blank page. I don't say a word when I'm angry.

[Lucius]

If that happened to me, I'll do what GH said and have fun na lang :D even one of us thinks it serious, still you get the benefits that most guys want.

[Lucius]

Di na ko nagugulat sa mga ganyan. Dami ko kasing kilala ganyan e, you know they go out with people for "fun" lang

[suv]

Paskong-pasko torotot ang pinaguusapan ah.....Malapit na nga pala new year... :bwahaha:

Mas mabuti pag alam mo ng tinotorotot ka na eh iwanan mo na......Wag yung dahil lang sa *** eh kaya ka magstay......Remember baka hindi lang 2bf ang ka-*** nyan.....baka marami pa kayo.....kakatakot yun.....Baka mag-iwan pa yan ng undesirable remembrance.....STD anyone? Maramin ako nababasa ganyan sa states..... ewan ko lang dito sa pinas.....

Mabuti ng maging single muna kayo kaysa member ng natorotot foundation....Ako nga may kakilala ang tumorotot pa eh tomboy....Pang-asar yun :bwahaha:

[VtEC]

nice topic bro.

tell your friend to just enjoy the chick.

but with regards to the topic, madami nagsasabi na pangit, makakarma din blah blah yong mga taong me illicit affair.nagkataon lang na dipa nakisilong sa kanila ang sitwasyon na magkaka affair.then pag nagkataon, at sila naman ang nagka 'affair (knock on wood na sana wag ng mangyari) sasabihin nila sa sarili nila na, mahirap talagang manghusga ng mga taong may "affair'.pag andon kana sa sitwasyon nayon at dika pumatol, congrats bro.matibay ka.

teka ano bang klaseng affair ang topic ha bro lucius?
friendly, ***ual, marital blah blah

[CVT]

It's difficult to be into one. Even much more difficult going out of one....

5000:boom:

[mhelskie]

try to convince the girl to do most of your "fantasy"...para sulit na sulit kahit niloko ka :D