AFFAIRS, what's your say?

[Lucius]

What if your partner has been cheating you all this time? That your partner has pretty much slept with everyone else behind your back? That you will find out na kabit ka din? What will you do? Will you judge her? You have proof. You know everything. How can you turn things around and fix things?

[Horsepower]

Break it off with her and start anew with a better girl. Why would you wanna continue such regrettable relationship with a slut?

[Lucius]

Well because maybe you're starting to develop feelings for her? She makes you feel good? Revenge or to hurt him/her is of course not an option

[ghosthunter]

I am assuming married couple...

Assuming she still wants to fix things with you, it would be best to find a counselor to help you and her through this. The key word here is the willingness to change. If she is unwilling to change her mind and heart, you cannot do anything beyond that.

But do not put too much hope if she doesn't change her heart and chooses the other guy.

If you still don't have kids, just throw her out with just the clothes on her back. BTW, make sure any joint bank or investment accounts you have are taken cared of and converted to single name accounts before you throw her out. Advance planning is key. The less money she gets, the better. If she persists in getting any money, simply threaten back to donate the said funds to charity if she persists. Get an annulment. After that, get on with your life. :***:

:evil: If you have some influence, make her life and her boyfriend's life miserable in tiny increments. Everyone has to have a hobby, right?

If you have kids, its going to be complicated. :starwars:

[Lucius]

What if you found out ikaw ang kabit tapos yung original boyfriend nya walang idea na niloloko na pala sya matagal na? Hahahaha iwanan mo ba or just keep going hanggang magsawa ka? :***:

[ghosthunter]

What if you found out ikaw ang kabit tapos yung original boyfriend nya walang idea na niloloko na pala sya matagal na? Hahahaha iwanan mo ba or just keep going hanggang magsawa ka? :***:

Karma does find a way to catch up. Enjoy the free *** while you can.

[Lucius]

Just boyfriend and girlfriend :D yung friend ko pa ang lumalabas na kabit. Yung talagang boyfriend nung girl, no idea yata.

[Horsepower]

Well because maybe you're starting to develop feelings for her? She makes you feel good? Revenge or to hurt him/her is of course not an option

That's just stupid. Anyone who'd stay in a relationship due to such lousy premise deserves to be cheated on and shot. What a loser.

There are a lot of good girls around.

Bakit pag may ganitong topic laging sa "friend" ang story? hehehe

[Jun aka Pekto]

Affairs?

For married folks, it's a no-no. Think with your head (the one with the brain) and not with your hormones.

And no, I have no sympathy for those who engage in affairs.

My 2 cents......

Now if a woman with a less than wholesome reputation (while single) marries and changes for the better, that's different. I've seen a number of such Pinays who now live quiet/happy married lives.


Add: Also, I don't regard an affair an affair unless the couple had already tied the knot. That's just me though. Ya gotta have that piece of paper stamped, signed, and blessed.

I had to make sure of that with my wife because I was in competition with her ex-BF.

[Lucius]

Easy easy messenger lang ako hahahaha

[Jun aka Pekto]

Easy easy messenger lang ako hahahaha

Oh no. No venom intended. My bad.

Gee. I wonder how I am when I'm really pi**ed off? Actually, if I was ticked off, it'd be a blank page. I don't say a word when I'm angry.

[Lucius]

If that happened to me, I'll do what GH said and have fun na lang :D even one of us thinks it serious, still you get the benefits that most guys want.

[Lucius]

Di na ko nagugulat sa mga ganyan. Dami ko kasing kilala ganyan e, you know they go out with people for "fun" lang

[CVT]

It's difficult to be into one. Even much more difficult going out of one....

5000:boom:

[mhelskie]

try to convince the girl to do most of your "fantasy"...para sulit na sulit kahit niloko ka :D

[Mguy]

My 2 cents . . . .


Just play the game. However, don't be a sore loser in the end by letting your emotions get the best of you.

Sa mga married, ganoon rin pero stakes are higher. So as adults, you should know anong bawal at hinde. (Syempre, masarap ang bawal diba?) :frenchyf1:

[shadow]

trust is very important in a relationship, if that is violated it's time to ditch her and find a new one....

sus naman napakaraming babae sa mundo.....

[_Qwerty_]

gf/bf pa lang pala eh.. walang affair affair dyan.. sabihin mo sa friend mo eh mag enjoy lang..

i agree na nagiging affair lang pag nangyari na sa married couple... think a thousand times before you put yourself in this situation.. lalo na kung may mga anak na kayo.. simula nyang affair affair na yan eh lib*g lang talaga.. kaya bago pa dumating sa ganon.. iwasan na lang agad..

[usokpower]

What if your partner has been cheating you all this time? That your partner has pretty much slept with everyone else behind your back? That you will find out na kabit ka din? What will you do? Will you judge her? You have proof. You know everything. How can you turn things around and fix things?

To make the topic clearer I think it would be better if we rephrase the title as "EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIRS".

Nalaman mo kabit ka lang and marami na siyang mga nakatabi sa kama. Pero gusto mo pa rin makipag ayos sa kanya. Ganun mo siya talaga kamahal.

Mahirap iyan pinapasok mong gulo at malaking problema. Kung aware ka naman sa mga consequences sige sugod ka. Nasa huli lagi ang pagsisisi.

[v6dreamer]

Kung kabit lang pala, okey lang. Dapat nga magpasalamat pa siya dahil kahit papaano may share siya. You know, parang good samaritan.